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  • No Sex For Husband Until Fortnite Goes

    For years I have known I would lose my husband to the football season, when the “game” is on I cannot speak to my other half as all I get is grunts and waving of his arms in response, he cannot look away from the screen and I lose my front room, not that I mind it gives me a chance to visit friends and watch what I want in my bedroom.

    Now football I understand he has always been a huge fan and I knew this when I first met him and I have accepted this part of my life, after all its only 90 odd minutes.

    But a new trend has stolen my husband, a stupid game called Fortnite, my husband rages, screams, cries and acts like a 2-year-old who has dropped his ice cream when he doesn’t win, and celebrates his “victory royale” by recording his achievement and posting it on his Facebook.

    Before Fortnite came along his Facebook profile was full of pictures of us together or funny memes but now he’s become a bloody teenager and its super embarrassing.

    I as a grown woman will not raise my husband that was his mother’s job years ago, I cannot send him to his room when he has a temper tantrum but I can withhold all Sex until he grows up and gets off this stupid game!

    Fortnite is for kids, not grown men, with jobs and responsibilities at this rate we will never be able to make a baby as he’s too busy acting like a child himself.

    I have not “put out” for two weeks so far but I don’t think he has even noticed, this stupid game appears to give him all the things he needs, he gets rid of some testosterone and gets his fill when he wins a game, sad, sad, sad I hope he grows out of it soon before I accidentally smash-up the Playstation.

  • This Man Abused My Daughter And Is Now Free

    Three years ago Jay-gerri Willoughby took to social media to make others aware of this awful man, the post has been shared thousands times .

    Willoughby said “On the 9th of April 2015 at approximately 2:30am I walked in on this filthy fucken slime KODIE WAYNE GHILOTTI in bed with my daughter who was 8 years old at the time.

    At the time it took me about 2 minutes to realize what I was really seeing. I pulled the blankets down and seen with my own eyes he was naked and my daughter had no pants on. I can not remember much after that as I blanked out.

    For the last year my family and I have been a massive emotional roller coaster.

    On the 31st of March 2016 he was officially sentenced to ONE! YEAR of jail time and 3 years probation for 4 counts of indecent conduct with a minor. The judge sympathized that he handed himself in and didn’t apply for bail. It was his first KNOWN offense for this behavior.. He also took in to consideration the effect this has had on my entire family and decided this was the appropriate sentence. ONE FUCKEN YEAR!!! to justify the betrayal, pain and loss we have endured his abuse of trust to a child. I’m disgusted in the system. The sentence is an injustice in itself. I now understand why some don’t come forward. Words can not express the anger and pain.

    PLEASE SHARE THIS I WANT HIS FACE ALL OVER SOCIAL MEDIA So no child will ever fall prey to his sick ways ever again as he will be out on the streets in just over a week.

    #NameAndShame

    Since this post has been put on social media the man has been released from prison and is free to live his life and potentially abuse another innocent child.

  • 3 Babies and a Business: Why I Needed to Start Fanfare Music

    3 Babies and a Business: Why I Needed to Start Fanfare Music

    Harry is four and a half and for the past four and a half years I have enjoyed the highs (and lows) of being a mummy. My hobby is music – I sing in a choral society and I play the piano. I must admit, my piano playing tailed off a little after having Harry mainly through fear of waking the sleeping baby. But after only a couple of weeks off having given birth I got right back to my choir rehearsals. Why? Because music made me feel good and it was some time to be me.

    When baby Harry cried I sang nursery rhymes and children’s songs to him and when he was inconsolable I danced with him to songs on the radio or YouTube. And music soothed him. As he grew we learnt together that babies like to clap their hands, bash pans and shake shakers and as he grew more he developed an incredible sense of rhythm for a two-year old.

    Now Harry is four and a half, Emily is nearly three and Oliver is thirteen months. Harry sings constantly, making up his own words to tunes he knows or tunes he’s made up himself, Emily loves to dance to music and Oliver can’t stop himself clapping or ‘dancing’ whenever he hears any kind of music, the louder the better.

    Knowing how much Harry loved music, I wanted to share our joint passion with other mummies and babies I knew so I started a baby music group where we sang to the babies, bashed a selection of pans and boxes, made our own instruments, played with baby instruments and as they grew we started to learn basic music theory. The group is small but continues to this day and we now learn about rhythms, reading music and dynamics. Since I am a full-time mummy with no desire to miss out on my children growing up (which they do so very fast), I haven’t the time to expand this group or offer it to the public, so I wanted something more to do in the evenings while my little ones slept.

    The philosophy behind Fanfare Music is that everyone has the right to have music in their lives, whatever their age or ability. I wanted to offer affordable instruments for people to buy for themselves and their families and supplement these instruments with free downloadable resources and lots of seasonal musical activities and ideas for people to try with their children. It has also been a dream of mine for a number of years to start a choir which accepts everyone (no auditions or need to read music). So in September 2017, I started Fanfare Music.

    I now offer a choir for all abilities in my town, Ossett, West Yorkshire, which regularly performs at local events, sell ukuleles on my ebay store (the perfect beginner instrument), teach piano to beginners, send a monthly newsletter to subscribers and create a lot of musical content, intended to inspire families and individuals alike into making more music, which I share on both Facebook and my website. I plan to expand my store over the coming months and years and offer more varied online content and downloads.

    I believe that music is the ultimate in ‘creativity’ and a great way to inspire kids and get them interested in learning, not only about music but about other topics too. I hope that my enthusiasm and passion will inspire other parents to sing and play with their children more and encourage them to get into music, in whatever form they choose.

    #letsmakesomenoise

    www.fanfaremusic.com

  • To The Girl Who Decided To Bully My Daughter Today

    Cassie Archon’s young daughter was viciously beaten by her school bully and sadly this seems to be happening more and more, schools have little control or punishment methods to prevent what happens on the walk home, the school may have bullying policies but these seem to have little effect, some parents have little interest in their children and have no real authority at home, teenagers don’t seem to have any real worry about their consequences as parents don’t have the same respect as years ago, it’s a worrying time when your child can’t even walk home from school safely.

    Archon took to social media to rant about what happened to her innocent young daughter.

    Archon said: To the little girl who decided to bully my daughter today! You might have pushed her down, tossed her around and between you and your friend you bruised her c-spine by punching her……But, you WILL NOT get away with it. This is the 3rd time with each time getting worse. I promise you I’ll find the video on instagram! I promise you I WILL protect my daughter! NO parent should ever have to hear that their child was jumped by other kids, especially at the age of 11!! This society has gotten ridiculous with its protection of the ones that bully and the discipline on the ones being bullied. My daughter isn’t perfect but she by no means deserves to be beaten! We live 3/4 of a mile from her school and she can’t even walk home safely!!

    YOUR PARENTS SHOULD BE ASHAMED!!

    Do you think bullying has gotten worse over the years or is just that people are speaking out more? Are schools and parents losing control of their children? let us know in the comments

    If you have a story you wish to share or want to raise awareness please email us at mumsadviceltd@outlook.com

  • Even A Small Bump On The Head Can Be Serious

    Paige Ferguson has taken to Facebook to warn others to ensure they take any head trauma so seek medical attention if unsure.

    Ferguson said: I have really been contemplating posting this. But, I need Colton to be an advocate. I need people to realize the seriousness of a head injury. This started from him falling from a bed that is only 2ft off the ground. He had a bump on his head. A bump. He was crying, acting alert and at one point even smiled.

    Because we are paranoid parents, we decided to get him evaluated. We thought for sure they were going to say he hit his head, has a bump, and he will be fine. Not the case…He fractured his skull and bled half of his entire blood volume into his brain. I’m going to be blunt here…Colton may not live. Colton may live and never walk or talk, Colton may be fine, Colton may be delayed. Its up in the air right now and he is still fighting for his life because we are not out of the woods. This is a nightmare.

    I don’t want other parents going through this…i dont want any kid to go through this. Please take any hit to the head seriously. I cant say this enough. My heart is broken. Our child is laying in front of us yet we miss him so terribly. I need you to hear me…get your kids checked out! Please. The old tale of “if the bump is outward you’re safe.” is NOT true.

    Please continue to pray for him. I am trying to thank everyone but, because there are so many of you amazing people, its hard. I love and appreciate all of you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    If you have a story you wish to share or want to raise awareness please email us at mumsadviceltd@outlook.com

  • You’re Not Dad Of The Year For Posting One Photo

    Ciara Moore’s Views having gone viral and for good reasons.

    Moore said” Having a baby is all cuddles & about family until things hit the fan with your child’s father and he up and leaves. BOOM now you’re a single mother, left to do it all by yourself, while he MIGHT* ask to see the child once or twice a week and change a couple pampers a day but still gets his beauty sleep while months down the road were STILL feeling like a zombie.

    You get to sneak away once a week at night if your lucky to catch up with old friends (the two you have left 🤷‍♀️) and get SHAMED for it . You’re now a bad mum lol. While he lives his regular life with no responsibilities & drinks and hangs out every day but is still quoted “ Best Dad of the Year” JUST because he posts one simple picture with your child he took the last time he saw the kid bc in reality it’s been like a month 😂.

    You’ll sit at home after work each day with your child and be happy but still slightly alone because you are. You have a beautiful little person that you take care of but when you rest your head at night and realize “wow my phone hasn’t gone off at all …” and no ones even checked on you or offered to bring you a bite to eat to catch up or ANYTHING small just to make you feel a little less lonely … that’s when reality hits you. And you even start to blame yourself bc now your child is either being raised in a split family , has a revolving door of a father OR no father at all.

    I guess that’s a part of growing up is realizing it’s not all that people make it out to be. A picture says a thousand words BUT there’s a thousand more behind it. Dads can drink their feelings away while we have no choice but to face them and pick ourselves back up each day for our child. Especially dealing with some** of the things above or seeing people** i know deal with it .. it’s SAD . But exactly why I admire women/ mothers . We cry all we want but that’s a sign of strength. Somehow we ALWAYS pull through. #notalldadsarethesame !!#dontarguewithme#momsareamazing 👩‍👧👩‍👦

  • Man Who Sexually Assualted A Baby Gets Early Release

    A North-east man who filmed himself sexually assaulting a screaming baby, then sent the video to his boyfriend was sentenced to 16 months in prison but was shockingly released after only serving 8 months.

    Ryan Simpson, 29, admitted filming himself kissing and sexually molesting the screaming child before sending the video to his partner.

    Simpson,  also admitted possessing indecent images of children when he previously appeared at Elgin Sheriff Court.

    The court  heard he had been in a long-distance gayrelationship when the sexual assualt took place. When his partner’s home in the south of England was raided by police in the summer, Simpson’s video recording was discovered.

    The court heard that police seized all the electronic devices in the property, including a Samsung tablet which belonged to his then-partner, discovering a sickening trail of child sexual abuse images and films.

    A “category A” indecent video showing Simpson assaulting his victim was found. The infant was distressed and crying in the footage.

    Officers later discovered text messages Simpson sent his partner at the time the sick video was recorded.

    The court heard a message sent from Simpson to his partner after the video which read: “I didn’t have much time, or I would have done as I wanted.”

    It also appeared he had been sharing them with friends in a social media chat group.

    Simpson earlier admitted charges of taking indecent images of a baby, distributing those images, and of possessing indecent images of children, the phone also contained footage of a boy aged between four and six being sexually assaulted, as well as other Category B material. .

    He also admitted sexually assaulting a child under the age of 13.

    Having only been in prison for such a short time and his trail of sickening images it is likely he will offend again.

    If you have a story or wish to raise awareness on any topic please email us at mumsadviceltd@outlook.com

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  • Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males

    A distraught mum has shared images of her badly beaten daughter we would like to help to prevent this from happening to another child and raise awareness

    The mum Claire Nossiter said:

    vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males

    My daughter is disabled she has autism and PWS. She can be a handful but we as a family have always tried to do our very best.

    She attended a school for complex needs which is of the highest care need. The local authority provided a 1-1 during school hours this was a woman. Well on the 7th March 2012 my daughter returned from school looking like the pictures below.

    Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males
    Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males

    This happened as 4 MALE members of school staff restrained her. She was sent home to me looking like this. I took her to hospital as I thought her jaw was broken. She was admitted to Yorkhill where I was questioned by police. As the consultant of 22 years experience had originally thought my story was bazaar ….that a school did this her original thoughts was it was me !!!!

    Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males
    Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males

    The police attended and got statements etc They did a very poor investigation at this time but in Nov 2016 reopened investigation (after I complained)and charged 2 of the NLC employees involved culpable and reckless conduct. Well the crown office have decided not to take this to court and I want justice. Please can I ask you help me in getting the justice my vulnerable daughter deserves…

    Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males
    Vulnerable Child Restrained by Four Adult Males

    Our justice system is all wrong.

    Every single staff member of the school are guilty as far as I’m concerned as each of them witnessed this or saw the aftermath but not one of them reported this.

    No one will silence me…. I will not go away…. I will continue to fight like I have done for years for my daughter.

    If I had done this to Lyndsay she would have been removed from my care but because it’s NLC staff it’s ok….. on her medical notes the doctor wrote to many bruises to count. Our justice system should protect the most vulnerable but it hasn’t done that in this case. I am asking you all to help me petition this and share this.

    Please sign this petition https://you.38degrees.org.uk/petitions/ban-disproportionate-restraint-on-disabled-children-and-adults-and-listen-to-them-in-court

  • My 12 Year Old Wanted To Kill Herself

    This poem is what my then 12-year-old wrote for a school project

    “Tick tock…tick tock…

    Life is counting down on my internal clock.

    People I once knew

    walk by without a clue what I’m thinking in my head.

    The times we once shared

    exist as if you were never there.

    People don’t know I’ll soon say my last goodbye.

    How I miss the way I used to feel on Christmas day when Santa was real.

    But back to reality…back to today, my mind is like a river which I cannot dam, I love my mum but I can’t go on

    Tick tock…tick tock.. my clock has to stop.

    I need to find away to end my life today, tick tock!!!!”.

    The school called me to tell me about it, I rushed to the school to see my daughter, to talk to her to hold her, just to be with her.

    My daughter broke down in the deputy heads office she was a broken girl, she didn’t know why she felt this way, she just said she was sad all the time and couldn’t get suicide out of her head.

    How do you fix this? How do you make things better? What have I done wrong to make my daughter feel so worthless?

    Two years of counselling, two years of watching over my daughter constantly, worrying constantly that my daughter would take her life.

    Her Doctor said that Estrogen, a female sex hormone, has consistently been linked to depression. Estrogen levels dramatically increase in girls during puberty, this can cause depression and suicidal thoughts.

    My daughter is now 14 and a confident, semi moody teenager, she hasn’t had suicidal thoughts for quite some time and I think she has found herself but I still worry, if you have a son or daughter who you are worried about please seek help, be it the school, the doctors or outside authorities, had she not wrote her thoughts in poem form my daughter may not still be here today.