Tag: child
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I Am Not A Pervert For Sleeping With My Son
I am not a pervert for sleeping with my son
My darling boy is 12 years old, it has just been me and him since he was 6 months old after his father passed away from Cancer, my son Sean is the apple of my eye, my hero and my reason to get up every morning, we are very close and the love I have for him is unreal.
Sean is a sensitive lad and still suffers from nightmares/terrors, he is scared to be on his own at night.
You see three years ago we had a burglary and it shook my son to the core, so he gets in my bed every night, we do have a quick cuddle but then he sleeps on his side and me on mine, sometimes we will lay awake chatting about life, it’s one of the few times in the day where I have his undivided attention.
I personally don’t see the issue with Sean sleeping in my bed with me, there is nothing sexual in it, it is purely a scared boy and a supportive strong mum keeping one another safe and my boy feeling secure and comforted.
My own mother, my sons grandmother has had the bloody nerve to call me a pervert for sleeping in the same bed as my flesh and blood, she has told me if we don’t stop she will inform the school and social services and will seek custody of Sean.
My mum says it is unhealthy for my son, that I’m going to emotionally scar him plus he will grow up to be a mummy’s boy, she says it is not normal and it has to stop now.
Sleeping in the same bed as your child is not wrong and any one who thinks it is the perverted one, my mum can call social services for all I care I am not doing anything wrong
Submitted by Victoria Windsor
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Bikini Ban For Children Under 16 Years Of Age
A woman called Trisha Shawns has started a petition to drum up support in banning children’s bikinis, Shawns wants to reach 100 thousand people so she can take her petition to parliament.
Shawns said “I for one am sickened when I go shopping and see sexy bikinis aimed at children as young as two and shocked that irresponsible and damn right stupid parents will buy these for their young children.
These outfits leave very little to the imagination and are not at all age appropriate, it is like a paedophiles dream come true, whilst your little girl is running around the beach in next to nothing whats to stop some creepy bloke taking photos and using the images to pleasure himself once he is home.
I hate seeing little girls losing their innocence by dressing far beyond their years.
Please help me get children’s bikinis taken off of the shelves and a nationwide ban for children under 16 years of age from wearing them, this could be implemented with a fine for the parents or refusal of entry in to swimming pools etc if a child is wearing one.
Parents if you were stupid enough in the past to purchase one of these for your daughter bin it, burn it I don’t really care but please don’t put it on your child”.
Shawns didn’t receive the responses she was hoping for and was met with a lot of negativity, one mum said “who are you to tell me what I can dress my child in and any one who finds a childs clothes sexy has a screw loose” however one dad did say he found it uncomfortable when he saw children in adult themed clothing.
Whats your view? Should bikinis be banned, would you put your own child in one? Let us know in the comments
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Chemical Burns From An Innocent Fruit-Parents Beware
Parents are advised to be careful this summer, quite often parents will enjoy a small glass of wine or an ice-cold beer in the local pub, whilst their children enjoy the out-door play area in the beer garden, the children are usually bought a lemonade or a fruit shoot and often parents will allow their child to suck on the lime that is placed on the side of their drinks glass or family, many families will have barbecues this summer as well and quite often have a margarita
One mother allowed her small child to suck on the seemingly harmless fruit and within the hour her son was screaming in pain and had what appeared to be burns around his mouth and on his hands.
The mother had allowed him to have this small slice of lime which comes from Mexico well it’s juice is toxic if left on the skin and mixed with sun. Therefore, it caused a chemical like burn to this small burn.
Any child or adult can get this chemical reaction with a lime and sun mix The resulting chemical reaction is called phytophotodermatitis , so if you do feel the need to suck on the lime juice ensure you wash any skin that has come into contact with the lime juice.
This chemical reaction can happen to any skin color or type. The lime makes your skin reactive to ultraviolet light, typically UV-A radiation, which can penetrate glass. If you’re at the beach you should have lathered on sunscreen anyways but if you’re indoors you might not be aware of UV-A rays
Symptoms include burning, itching, stinging, and large blisters can slowly accumulate. Symptoms usually begin within 24 hours of exposure and peak 48-72 hours after being exposed.
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When You Think About It We All Have A Favourite Child
I know I shouldn’t admit it especially to a mum website with some seriously judgemental woman, but I have a favourite child. Secretly when you think of it we all do but most are too afraid to admit it in case of backlash from other parents. I know it’s wrong but I can’t help loving one more than the other.
My son has always been trying screaming all night, fighting me for any reason, never doing as he’s told and not giving me a minutes peace. He’s been even worse since i had his sister 3 years ago now the constant demand for attention wears me out. I thought once he started school it would be easier but no, my daughter on the other hand is so placid and loving. Shes so much easier and better behaved than her brother that I can’t help favoring her.
Is it wrong that i prefer to play with her and not her brother, even her toys are more interesting, when I walk round the shops I am drawn to the pretty outfits for my baby girl, but hate buying nice outfits for my son, he is so messy and any clothes will quickly be stained.
I love both of my children but i can’t help loving one more than the other. I would never let anyone know how I feel and hope one day I can love them both equally but until then I’ll love my daughter more in secret. I would never see any harm come to my son and will do everything in my power to make sure he doesn’t know I favour his sister over him.
You may think what I’ve said is bad but if you think of it are you sure you haven’t got a favourite too every parent does don’t they?
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I Hated My Step Son Until I Had My Own Child
I hated my step son, I mean I fed him and bathed him and never saw he come to any harm but he annoyed me so much I dreaded him coming over, I just found him so irritating and wished he never visited.
Marcus was only four years old when I met him and I was a 21-year-old woman who had no interest in children, never wanting to hold babies or cooed over them, I didn’t dislike kids they just didn’t appeal to me.
I loved my boyfriend and thought having a step child wouldn’t be too much of an inconvenience, I mean how hard could a 4-year-old be?.
BUT…
Why when I’ve spent 2 hours cooking a delicious roast didn’t he eat it, why when we’ve taken him to the zoo and bought him an ice cream is he still moaning, why doesn’t he listen? why does he whine all the time, this kid is never satisfied always wanting more and more.
Christmas Eve he had loads of presents but wasn’t interested in anything other than one cheap car.
I was constantly nagging my partner about his son, why was he such a brat?
Oh how much guilt I feel now! I had my first child and felt love I had never known before, Sophie changed my views, she cried, she moaned she had normal tantrums, I saw my step son in another light.
He wasn’t a brat, he wasn’t ungrateful he was a little boy and he was behaving like every child out there, I was the brat, I was the one who had no clue on children.
I recall sitting on my bed sobbing thinking what a huge bitch I had been, the next weekend when my step son come over I was gentle, I was kind and felt love for this innocent boy.
Having my own child made me a far better step mum, I love both Marcus and Sophie and regret the way I was they are both nearly adults now and I am proud to be a huge part of Marcus’s life, I want other woman out there who are put into ready-made families to step back and look at themselves, spend time with the child and build a bond, love may not come over night nor will understanding but give it time and hopefully it will come.
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Alder Hey Strikes Again Poor Little Kyrah
Little Kyrah is currently at Alder hey hospital the same as the now famous Alfie Evans who is currently fighting for every breath and proving the doctors and courts wrong.
Kyrah’s mum is also fighting her own battle a battle to save her daughter’s life and to have a diagnoses.
Kyrah’s mum posted on her childs support page saying
“Nearly 5 years old and still alder hey TRUST have no plan,
Kyrah has a chronic disease a terminal illness and still no care plan while alder hey trust were busy trying to make me look bad I built my own case on them and now its all falling perfectly in to place they used my daughter’s life to blackmail me while I give them every opportunity possible to work with us they did not want to do that they had their own plan.
I had so much respect for them before they tried everything to tear us apart now I wonder how these people even sleep at night knowing what there doing is wrong on so many levels
#IWONTBESHUSHED #IWontBeStopped #TheTruthWillAlwaysFindAwayOut
Alfie Evans case has put the care and treatment at Alder hey hospital into the lime light, many people are now questioning whether or not the hospital is trying to cover up poor treatment, medical negligence or simply don’t care, we wouod like to hear your views in the comment section.
To follow Kyrah’s journey and fight for the right to live, please take a look at her support page https://www.facebook.com/KeepFightingBabyKyrah/
If you have had a bad or even good experience at Alder hey we would love to hear from you, or if you have a story or want to raise awareness of a different topic please send us an email to mumsadviceltd@outlook.com
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How Would You Feel If I Left Dog Poo In The Park?
Dear parents
How would you feel if I left dog poo in the park?
Disgusted? Worried your child might put their hand in it? Concerned it could make them ill?
That is exactly how I feel about your child’s chocolate chip cookie on the roundabout, or the dripping ice cream sticks by the swings. Instead of dog poo, I found discarded chocolate smeared all across the grass.
You see, my two-year daughter has a severe milk allergy.
When she ran ahead to get on the roundabout, I was only a few seconds behind her but by the time I got there, she had already poked her finger in the melting cookie.
‘Can I have this Mummy?’ she asked innocently.
Next time you visit the park, please take your litter and unwanted food with you. Let my daughter play safely without the dangers you have left behind.
It might be ‘only a cookie’ to you but it’s poison to my baby.
Thankyou
Emma
full credit https://www.facebook.com/freefromfarmhouse/
Cow’s Milk Allergy is one of the most common food allergies to affect babies and young children in the United Kingdom, between 2 and 3 percent of children younger than 3 are allergic to milk and many do not out grow of it and will be allergic to milk all their lives.
Milk Allergy Symptoms
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Hives
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Stomach upset
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Vomiting
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Bloody stools, especially in infants
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Anaphylaxis, a rare, potentially life-threatening reaction that impairs breathing and can send the body into shock.
Cow’s milk allergy is managed by completely eliminating cow’s milk protein from a baby or childs diet, as even a small amount of cow’s milk protein could potentially trigger an allergic reaction so even a seemingly harmless discarded biscuit at a park can cause problems and pains for a child.
It doesn’t take two minutes to clear up after yourself or your child and make parks a happy and a safe place to play for all.
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Last Photo Before Her Dad Took His Life
This is a picture of my daughter the night before her Dad took his own life. 4-years old and her first night of ballet class. Full of joy. Full of innocence. The worst thing that had ever happened to her was dropping her ice cream cone at the county fair.
The next day her Dad waved goodbye to her as we drove off to our play date and then he got in his car and went and shot himself on my Grandpa’s land.
I had to sit on her little bed with her and her fuzzy stuffed animals and baby dolls and I had to tell my 4-year old that her Dad had died. She stared at me and then said, “Mama? What does die mean?” It took days, weeks for her to fully understand…….even after she seen him in his coffin…..that he was not ever coming home and that’s what die means.
If you are having suicidal thoughts and you have children? Your children will not be better off without you. Your kids need you. Your death will take away some of their innocence. They will have nightmares. They will wake up sweating and screaming. Look at their photo and figure out a way to keep yourself alive on this earth. Don’t drop a load of pain, guilt, abandonment, trauma, and grief on their shoulders. They are so little. They need you. Stay. If for nothing else…….if for no one else……stay for them. Find your fight and get yourself the help you deserve so that you can care for your children.
This girl knows things other kids don’t know.
She knows how her Dad died. I told her the truth….not the gory and scary details…..but just the plain and simple truth that he hurt himself so that he would die. She knows what suicide is and openly says the word when most adults shy away from it.
She also knows that he was a very loving, kind, and good person who made a very wrong choice.
She knows that he was human, that he was sick, and that he was terrified and she has deep compassion for him because she too knows what it’s like to be scared.
She knows that he loved her to the moon and back a billion times and he still does.
Telling her the truth opened up conversations about mental health, love, emotions, strength, grief, God, spirituality, and more. She doesn’t judge him or blame him…..only loves him.
She forgives her Dad.
She knows that he didn’t leave because he didn’t love her but because he had no fight left in him to stay.
She misses him…….we all do…..every day. It’s a soul deep missing when a child loses a parent.
She barely remembers him.
She still loves him…….very, very much.
She will grow up not knowing what it’s like to have her very own Dad to protect her, laugh with her, care for her, and love her.
If she grows up someday, gets married, and has children of her own? That will be the first time since she was 4 that she sees first hand in her own home what a Dad does.
I look at this photo and my heart hurts so much for this little girl.
This girl is now 7 and she is happy again. She is joyful, smart, kind-hearted, loving, adventurous, compassionate, and the bravest girl I have ever met in my entire life.
So, you. The guy who is thinking of taking his life. The guy who is sitting at the dinner table right now with his kids and wife eating tacos and you’re smiling and you’re laughing but in your mind you are planning your own death for the next day?
I’m asking you to stay.
I’m asking you to tell your wife your plans.
I’m asking you to close your eyes and remember being a little kid. Remember how much you loved and needed both of your parents.
Fight for your life.
You belong here on earth.
You are worthy and so, so loved.
Your family needs you.
You belong here on a Tuesday night eating tacos with your kids and your wife laughing at inside jokes only a family understands.
You deserve to watch your children grow up.
You deserve their hugs and kisses and giggles.
They need you.
Maybe pleading with you to stay on this earth won’t work. Maybe it’s not enough…..maybe you’ll still go. I don’t know if spreading this love and pleading will work because I never got that chance to do that with my husband. But maybe it will help you. Maybe it will help just one of you and that’s why my children and I share our story.
So, you. Please stay.
Yes, they will survive and move forward in their lives if you leave but they won’t be better off without you.
They will forever be missing a piece of themselves….a piece of their heart.
Love and strength, Nik❤❤❤
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Equal Rights Should Mean Equal Responsibility-Rape
Charlie Lucy took to Facebook with a post that made many people sit up and think.
Equal rights should mean equal responsibility.
The definition of rape stands as such:
“Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person’s consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent.The term rape is sometimes used interchangeably with the term sexual assault.”
So therefore why are females who violate children not charged with rape?
Women fought for the right to vote,work and be considered as equals to their male counterparts. They demanded change so as to be given the same rights and privileges.
With equal rights should come equal responsibility and yet because they lack male genitalia they escape being charged,tried and found guilty of the crime of rape. The very definition states that rape includes “other forms of penetration”-which female abusers engage in-and so why are they not charged as rapists,rather than it being classed as “assault by penetration?”
I will always class my female perpetrators as rapists. They groomed me,tortured and manipulated me,held and tied me down to be assaulted by male abusers,used objects and their body parts to violate my body,were party to recording these sickening acts. My foster-mother would take me to various homes to be violated and raped-she accepted money from these vermin in exchange for my innocence.
She and other female abusers assaulted and degraded me in every possible way,there were dozens-if not hundreds-of occasions where they penetrated and violently assaulted my body for their own sexual gratification and yet these vile excuses for human beings avoid being charged as the despicable rapist scum they are?
In no way am I saying that sexual assault isn’t as traumatic as rape-both violations are devastating and will change the victim forever-but rape is legally considered to be a more serious offence than sexual assault and females are evading being labelled as the monsters they are!
Sentencing in the UK is already highly questionable and does not reflect the severity of the crime. It’s about time female abusers faced the same consequences-however lenient any legal punishment maybe!
Peace to you all 💖