WARNING PICS AREN’T PLEASANT TO LOOK AT!!!! I can’t say too much but I need to warn people of the effects of these county lines drug dealers and how they behave towards you if you don’t do as they say!!! Please please keep your children safe!
If they all of a sudden start getting new designer items or disappear for days and seem to have money, new trainers or even start to behave differently please talk to them without judging and let them know they can come to you with anything.
Please for the people who aren’t grossed out by the pics please show them to your kids and show these people don’t care! Right now 3 of these people are on remand looking at life sentences yet they’re only kids themselves 20, 18 and 17.
I feel for their mothers but no mother should have to be put through being told your child is in a bad way mikes away from home. I wasn’t going to put anything on here however after speaking to a friend last night she made me think that us mums need to know what’s going on out there on the streets. If you see anything dodgy trust your instincts!! I apologise for the pics again but I’m hoping they’ll save someone someday 🙏🙏🙏.
Hold your kids close, I nearly lost mine 😢 but thank god I didn’t! He’ll be scarred for life and his left hand will never get back to normal. For my friends in my local area these boys are hunting the villages for kids to sell for them! I know we can’t watch them 24/7 but try and make them understand what’s going on around them
Mom: Well I don’t play with my kids as much as I should. I get grumpy. Yesterday they ate pizza for the second time this week. I don’t really like cooking together or crafts, but I wish I did.
Sometimes I do it anyway, but mostly I’m just trying not to get annoyed. My house is like one giant clothes and crumb explosion. I really should have them keep their rooms cleaner, but sometimes I just don’t want to pick another battle. I’m not really sure when the last time my second son bathed was. That’s probably not good.
Yesterday I snapped over a cliff bar wrapper that no one was cleaning up. Sometimes I worry because they bicker a lot, like is that my fault? Did I do something wrong? At night I’m so tired I fall into the couch and watch shows and eat snacks until I can’t keep my eyes open anymore. When I lay in bed I find myself wondering if they all are brushing their teeth well enough.
I’m too hard on the oldest and too lenient with the youngest. I love our dinnertime discussions and I just can’t get enough of their laughs and the way they tell stories. Sometimes when they’re talking though I’m not really listening I’m worrying about something completely different, I think they can tell. I wonder all the time if I’m doing a good job and if they know how much I love them.
God: Do you love them?
Mom: With my whole entire heart.
God: You sound wonderful.
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Tiffany Tate, 21, and her partner Michael Roe, 32, are accused of murdering their daughter Holly Roe at home in Crowborough, East Sussex.
Holly died in hospital after paramedics were called to Tate’s house on report of a baby in cardiac arrest on September 10 2018, Lewes Crown Court was told. A post-mortem examination later found Holly had suffered multiple “shaking” injuries and died as a result of a traumatic head injury.
Her parents deny murder, but Roe told cops that he heard Tate say: “Sometimes she frustrates me so much I could throw her up against the wall. I’ve had her ready in my hands to do it”, jurors were told. Holly was found to have a catalogue of historic injuries including 12 rib fractures both front and back, haemorrhages in the brain, spine and both eyes.
Some of the injuries were said to have been fresh while others may have happened up to several weeks earlier. Sally Howes QC told the court Tate had trouble bonding with her baby. The couple also struggled to feed her – with Holly frequently vomiting through her nose and mouth. Tate is said to have lost patience with her daughter and eventually passed on night feeds to her partner.
Tate told police she once came home and found Holly “barking like a seal”. While Roe allegedly told her “I think her airways are closing” and Holly then stopped breathing. Roe did mouth to mouth and Holly was then fine. When Roe was interviewed by police he claimed Tate had struggled looking after the baby.
He told officers he once heard her in the living room saying: “Why won’t you take this? Why won’t you do this for me? Why won’t you take this f*g bottle?” On the day before she died Roe later said that during the day she was “a bit pale” and “her eyes were rolling quite a lot – one was going one way, one was going the other”. Both parents had already raised this as a concern with the health visitor who had reassured them this was caused by wind.
Overall, Michael Roe described Holly that Sunday as a “happy, gurgly baby” and “happy, happy Holly being herself”. That night he looked after the baby and he bottle fed her as normal as Tate went to bed to sleep. She later told investigators: “As soon as I went to bed, my head hit the pillow, that was it, I was asleep”. Roe wept in the dock as the court was told he later went to bed, placed Holly in her Moses basket and went to sleep himself. The jury heard Roe was later to tell the police “Something startled me and I woke up”.
Miss Howes QC said: “He felt Holly’s head and it was cold. He then felt her chest which felt warm. He carried out a test for reflex – there was none.” The court heard he woke Tate, gave Holly two rescue breaths to which she did not respond and then rang the emergency services for an ambulance. Post mortem examinations found several historic brain bleeds, tears and bruising and traumatic injury to the spinal cord. Lewes Crown Court heard subdural haemorrhages are a marker for traumatic brain injury and is consistent with violent movement of the head leading to a rupture of the blood vessels.
Pathologist Professor Safa Al-Sarraj, who examined Holly’s brain and spine found injuries from at least three different occasions from 48 hours before death to several weeks. Miss Howes said: “It is the opinion of Professor Al-Sarraj that the pattern and extent of injuries in this case are those of non-accidental and abusive head trauma.” Dr. Jo McPartland, a consultant paediatric pathologist, found bleeding in the eyes and optic nerves. Roe and Tate deny murder and causing or allowing the death of a child. Both deny all charges.
This absolutely angers me after 1st baby died she was then told of dangers of risks told to STOP bed sharing. Told about safe sleep. Then just over a week later 11 days think is she calls emergency response AGAIN and AGAIN her second twin DIED AGAIN she was bed sharing!! She even LIED to start with after first died said they sleep in their cribs so in my opinion she already knew dangers, else why lie and pretend they were in cribs.
Autopsy for both show’s asphyxiation she lay on both according to reports that’s is NOT SIDS so think her defense team need brush up on what babies get classed as SIDS . As that’s their apparent argument 🤦♀️
She deserves all she gets that maybe harsh but one babies death is sad can even be uneducated ect but TWO after being specifically told dangers and not told told about safe sleep safety ect is NEGLECT . An both parents also believed to be high and DO take Suboxone on prescription. So again NEGLECT due to drugs . An babies also premature another risk that increases sleep related deaths even those who are big advocates state premature babies shouldn’t bed share.
As a mum who was uneducated young ect after Lewis died before even being told anything on safe sleep when pregnant with connor I knew without a shadow of a doubt I would NEVER bed share again with any future children guilt even after I learned I DIDNT kill him even today still remains.
When will parents learn ESPECIALLY in cases drink drugs are ANY risk factors are present two sweet innocent babies 😭
Before Daddy left for work this morning, Daddy did not have to give Mummy a list of things the children needed. He did not have to ask Mummy to watch the children for a few hours. He didn’t have to give Mummy a single prompt on how to look after her own children, because Mummy knew.
At 3:25pm Daddy arrived home from work. He had ever so kindly (although begrudgingly) helped Mummy out by fetching their eldest child from school on his way home.
As Daddy and the eldest child walked through the door, Mummy whom was stood at the sink washing the dishes greeted them with a lovely and jolly ‘hello! Are you both ok?’
Mummy had lovingly prepared and cooked the family dinner. Because Mummy knew that everyone needed feeding. Mummy did not need asking if she was planning on feeding the children, Mummy just knew.
During the day whilst Daddy had been busy being very important at work Mummy had spent what felt like twenty-thousand hours cleaning, washing clothes, hoovering the carpets and tidying away toys. Then redoing it every time her feral youngest child decided to fuck it all right up again.
When Daddy arrived home he did not need to ask Mummy if they had been victims of a reverse burglary.
When Daddy arrived home from work Mummy was not sprawled out on the carpet watching Ben and holly’s little kingdom whilst chaos erupted around her.
At 5pm when Mummy had to pop out to work for a couple of hours, Mummy asked Daddy if he would mind watching the children for a couple of hours. Mummy asked Daddy if he could possibly feed them some supper before bed, maybe even bath them if he could manage it by himself.
When Mummy walked in from work at 7pm…a mere 2 hours later, the house looked as if someone had indeed reverse burgled the house. It looked as if a massive sodding Smyth’s toys lorry had arrived, the driver had tipped the whole contents of the bastarding lorry onto the living room floor and then sprinkled a box of coco pops on top of the massive pile of plastic for an extra special treat.
When Mummy walked in from work at 7pm…a mere two hours after she had left, she witnessed Daddy, sprawled out on the floor amongst the massive pile of plastic and coco pops, calmly viewing Ben and Holly’s little kingdom whilst the smallest child sat emptying every pan out of the cupboard in the kitchen.
When Mummy nipped upstairs for a quick wee, she quickly realised Daddy the amazing had actually managed to bath of the children. Mummy felt ever-so-grateful as she followed a trail of 56 wet towels lay on the floor leading towards a bath full of freezing cold water and 234 toys floating within it that needed to be fished out. She felt even more grateful once she realised Daddy had also learnt to multitask! Shaving at the same time as bathing the kids was a real talent. Mummy was so pleased she had scrubbed the sink earlier in the day for it now to be infested with facial hair.
When Mummy asked Daddy if the children had eaten their supper, Daddy informed Mummy that neither of the children fancied milk with their coco pops, that they requested them dry. Hence why the living room now had a twatting dusting of them. Daddy informed Mummy he had already picked a few up.
When Mummy asked Daddy why the eldest child was wearing pyjamas that were approximately 3 sizes too small, Daddy informed Mummy that he was not sure where all of her pyjamas were kept. Daddy snapped at Mummy and told her that nothing was ever good enough for her.
When Mummy noticed the sink was yet again full of pots, even though the children had only been fed dry cereals straight from the box, Mummy thought she might actually just spontaneously combust.
When Mummy called Daddy a useless scruffy Cockwomble as she began to rage clean for the eighty-eighth time that day, Daddy looked surprised. After all…Daddy had done everything Mummy had asked him to.
“What is wrong with you? Why are you in a bad mood?” Asked the oblivious Cockwomble.
“It’s a twatting mystery when I should be feeling so grateful.” Replied Mummy.
Then Mummy drank wine. Mummy drank Lots and lots of lovely wine as she wondered what fresh hell would await after her considerably longer than 2 hour shift the next day. The end. 🤣🤣
The following is a psychoanalytical test called the Szondi Test. This test was made by a Hungarian Psychoanalyst, Léopold Szondi.
The following are 8 pictures. Now, look at them and study them closely.
Which of these 8 do you find the most ‘scary’? Really, really try to picture them in a dark alley, coming towards you. Or, who would you want the LEAST to be in an elevator with you? Overall, who gives you the creepiest vibes, or makes you feel disgusted and repulsed among these 8.
Which Of These Do You Find Most Scary?
Remember your answer.
These are all pictures of patients of Szondi, all of which whom suffered different conditions. Szondi believed that who you pick will tell something about your personality. But not just anything about your personality. The part of you that you suppress or at least deny about yourself. maybe you pushed these feelings and desires down into your subconscious mind or maybe something you refused to accept about yourself. and act in opposition towards them.
It’s important to note that, whatever results you do come with, doesn’t mean you have a mental condition. It’s just that, you potentially have something deep within you that you compensate for.
Most people find the results rather accurate, though. Take them with a grain of salt.
The format is.
(Number). -condition name-
( General Info )
Repression: What it is you’re hiding.
Denies it by: Actions, personalities or habits you do to ‘counteract’ or push back against what you’re repressing.
Sublimination: What you show, ever so slightly in your life regarding the repression.
The Sadist.
You were most likely dominated by a lot of authoritarian figures, such as parents or teachers. So you repress the feeling to dominate others, as you’ve been through your formative years.
You are passive and rather friendly and love to make people happy.
That being said, you react defensively in a passive-aggressive manner when you feel someone is trying to dominate you. This is your way of indirectly punishing them.
But deep inside, you love to see the suffering of other people, physically or emotionally. Though, consciously you do your best to ignore these thoughts whenever they surface.
Repression: The Desire To Dominate Others.
Denies it by: Developing a peaceful and harmless personality. Always helping others.
Sublimination: Creates barriers when they don’t want to do something. ( Such as getting to work late) When acting defensively, acts passive-aggressively.
The Epileptic.
You react to motions rather intensely, good or bad. Since you were taught as a child that doing certain things aren’t okay, you refuse to let negative emotions such as anger, impulsiveness or irritability manifest.
As such, you probably wear a strong emotional mask and are good at hiding the negative feelings from others whenever they bubble up under the surface.
You compensate by acting meek and friendly. And people probably see you as peaceful and reliable. Although, under pressure. You can explode with these negative feelings and most people are surprised, as you never seemed the person to be so negative.
Repression: Feelings of anger, irritability, and aggression.
Denies it by: Becoming a meek and friendly person, and giving off the impression of responsibility.
Sublimination: Rare outbursts when stressed or provoked.
The Catatonic
You’re most likely an intelligent person with an overactive mind. Not so bad, right? Well, here’s the trade-off. In the attempt to stay in reality and fight your overactive brain, you’ve most likely become dutiful, inhibited and rule-driven. You are unaware of the physical and emotional needs of yourself and others. and often feel disconnected and lost.
Sublimination: Often acts defensively and likes to follow their own set of determined rules.
The Schizophrenic
If you’ve chosen this woman, then you’re most likely repressing apathy for others. Probably struggle in connecting with others. And relating to others is a challenge for you. Maybe even relating to yourself. Your relationships probably lack depth.
To compensate, you’re sociable. Love to spend time with friends and family. In a sense, this is a way to mask your sense of loneliness and isolation.
Repression: Feelings of apathy towards others.
Denies it by: Being a very sociable person, with a large circle of friends.
Sublimination: Does not talk about feelings of isolation, or their lack of true affection for others.
The Hysteric.
You’re probably repressing attention-seeking tendencies. You were told as a child to not show off, by adults or peers. As such, you’re probably a modest and sincere person. Deep down you love to be the center of attention and charming others. Though you’re rarely the center of attention, when you are, you’re ecstatic You’re likely someone who pays attention to detail. As evidence of the amount of effort, you put into your appearance. This could be your subconscious self showing off, as your conscious self continues to act modestly.
Repression: Desire for attention and admiration.
Denies it by: Acting modestly / staying out of the spotlight.
Sublimination: Chooses rare or extravagant jobs and hobbies. Usually tries to remain elegant and well-dressed so that they still draw attention.
The Depressive.
On the surface, you’re happy and bubbly. Like you don’t have a care in the world. Well, that’s the side you show to the world, at least. Deep within, you’re most likely dealing with feelings of self-worthlessness, even self-loathing and guilt. You probably take your mind off this by focusing on work and other people. Low self-esteem is also associated with this choice.
Picking this picture doesn’t mean you’re a depressed person, but that you have a predeposition to negative emotions.
Repression: Feelings of worthlessness/inadequacy
Denies it by: Developing a happy and bubbly exterior personality. Focussing on work and friends.
Sublimination: Assumes the role of everyone’s “psychologist”, searching for solutions to other people’s problems.
The Maniac.
You’re most likely logical, mature and balanced. You don’t favor chaos or excessive displays of emotions. You’re likely annoyed when people are loud, or when they hold too strong of belief. Because inside. You’re repressing hyperactive tendencies that would make you lose control. Deep within, you’re probably quite impulsive and with extreme energy hurdles. This is probably because your parents or teachers tried to make you “calm down” as a child.
Repression: Impulsiveness and high energy levels.
Denies it by: Being logical, reasonable and collected, and developing a hatred of excesses.
Sublimination: Avoids places of temptation, such as casinos.
8.Dissociative Identity Disorder.
As a child, you’ve probably been bullied, defamed, or traumatized by a parent, teacher or other family member. This trauma has made you subconsciously make you question yourself as a sexual partner. Now, you probably push your own gender role. Such as being macho, as a man. Or pushing your feminity as a woman. You probably put down others of your own sex for not acting manly or womanly enough.
Repression: Thoughts of being an undesirable partner.
Denies it by: Emphasising gender role, acting very macho or feminine.
Sublimination: Sacrifices individuality and real interests to conform to expected male/female stereotype
Being an old psychoanalytic test, don’t expect things to be 100% accurate. Was it accurate for you? And as always, take it with a grain of salt.
I came home yesterday evening after working 12 hours. I went into the bathroom to get cleaned up and ready for dinner. I noticed my daughters bassinet in the bathroom…
I asked my wife if she had put her in there, and how she did in it. She said that she put her in it as she had showered during the day. We continued to talk about how good she had been and how much she’s growing up and so forth…
This morning I came home from the gym, turned the shower on, to get cleaned up for work. I turned to the door, and saw where my wife wiped away the steam from the glass, so that she could see our baby girl in the bassinet….
I literally just sat there and stared at the glass and smiled. I could see it, I imagined it, it was like I was there in the room with them. I could see Heather just looking through the glass and making faces at Lottie as she smiled and played in her bassinet! I just melted!!!
It’s so crazy to me, how the smallest things can make me so appreciative of my wife. It’s the little sacrifices my wife makes for this family, that would normally go unnoticed. From caring for our daughter 24/7, to caring for me, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the animals, and taking care of herself (yeah right, there’s no time for that)…
It just makes me stop and think…. I work hard… I work long 10-12 hours days… I get tired… I have stressful days… that’s my right, as the working member in the house hold right… to be catered to hand and foot when I get off?!?
All she does is have to take care of a baby….
So it should be that she cooks, and keeps the house clean, dishes washed, laundry clean and put up, animals tended to…. and I’m a man, have I mentioned my needs yet ?!?
I mean seriously, she’s at home all day after all!
Mannnnn…. I can’t tell you how much this fogged up glass means to me !
The fact that my wife can’t even shower without caring for someone else…. tending to someone else’s needs…. get a second to herself to relax
My wife doesn’t get to clock out, my wife doesn’t get the satisfaction of seeing a check deposited in the bank in return of her hard work, my wife doesn’t get to eat lunch with co workers, my wife doesn’t get to just walk outside and just take a deep breath….
This may be just a fogged up piece of glass to some, but to me it means so much more. It’s the little things like this that don’t go un noticed…. it’s the little things like this that constantly remind me how badass she is…. it’s the little things like this that make me fall in love with her all over again, Heather Williams!
Thank you for being the amazing woman you are… it doesn’t go unnoticed!
Here’s something to brighten your morning at my expense.
Does anyone remember that urban legend about Saying Bloody Mary in the mirror in a dark room/bathroom? We all were shit scared to do in like primary school??? (I was).
Well I was going to bed turning the lights out and it just randomly popped into my head. I thought ‘I am a grown ass man in my mid 20s it’s finally time to try it, I am fearless.’ So I actually did It!!
AND I SHIT YOU NOT MY AIRWICK TIMED AIR FRESHNER WENT OFF NOT A SPLIT SECOND AFTER THE LAST BLOODY MARY “TSSSSSSSST!” AND ITS GOT A FUCKING RED GLOW FOR AMBIENT EFFECT. SO MY ROOM LIT UP LIKE THE ENTRANCE TO HELL I SCREAMED SO LOUD I ACTUALLY PISSED MYSELF. PISS LEFT MY BODY! AND I FELL SMASHING MY CUP HOLDER AND DRAWS.
Do NOT take ur loved ones to memorial hospital in Modesto!!! My dad was released at 4am this morning on his own w/no phone, car ,money, or even means to walk or stand on his own!
I instructed his nurse to call me AS SOON as he was released so I could pick him up but they NEVER did..my 70yr old father was Rolled into a waiting room & left there FOR SEVERAL HOURSSSS waiting for a ride that would’ve never came..I was told he was released an, ‘left on his own”@4am because he was “alert”. I then informed them that he COULDN’T have left on his own because he can’t walk, &I was his only ride! he didnt even have a phone to call anyone!
After the 3rd time of calling an demanding they check the waiting room, bathrooms, they said he was gone! Finally the 4th time I called back an spoke to someone else they found him in the waiting room..I rushed bck to Modesto to find out he had been sitting there in pissed pants for over FOUR HOURS bcuz he wasn’t even able to get himself to the bathroom.
On top of everything else some lady sitting next to him stole his walker!!(right in front of security)There was only a handful of people in that waiting room how could they not notice a 70yr old man,pee’d sitting there for several hours?!!!!! Without even checking on him or assisting him!! Unacceptable! He was released with pneumonia, a fever, and completely drugged up on morphine! DO NOT TAKE UR LOVED ONES TO THIS PLACE! #pleaseShare
Tonight I walked in the tanning salon and the employee seemed very annoyed and not very welcoming. At first I thought to myself “well she’s not in a good mood, she needs to put her happy face on at work”
Then I looked down… I see a baby.. a sick baby sitting in his car seat… I immediately think “why did she bring her sick baby to work” and then, I thought you know what sometimes moms (and dads) have to “do what they gotta do”. Babies get sick, moms and dads get sick. Sometimes you have to work because you can’t call into work two days in a row because your child still has fever and can’t go to daycare. Often times, you don’t have anyone to help you.
As I walked to my room, I noticed a lot of beds dirty… I laid in the tanning bed, I thought about this employee.. the overwhelmed look on her face when I walked in, the sick baby, all the dirty beds.. I can just imagine how she feels. Most likely worried about getting in trouble, wondering how she is going to keep up with work and watch her sick child.
As I walked out of the room, I stopped at the door. She asked if she could help me with something and I said “actually.. I wanted to offer my help to you. Would you like me to watch your child while you catch up on work?” She looked like a weight was lifted off her shoulders, a relief she needed at that moment. She told me “Aw..you don’t have to.” I told her I wanted to help her!!
She smiled and said “I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much”. So there I was sitting on the floor rocking this baby, while she caught up on cleaning beds and signing people in. It was only about 15 minutes but at the end of that 15 minutes, The mom was caught up on her job, the baby was asleep, and kindness was shared between two strangers. So next time, you see someone trying to keep a smile on their face. Stop and think about how you can help them. Share kindness. You never truly know what someone is going through. A little love can go a long ways ❤️
