Tag: child

  • Mums Warning About Public Toilet After Daughter Hurt

    I Would like to warn any parent with young children in public toilets or anybody really, I was with my daughter and my little sister who is 4-year-old well my little sister asked to use the toilets in McDonald’s by herself I thought nothing of it as she goes to the toilet herself at home but I was standing right outside the door while it was still unlocked when two girls about the age 14-15 walk out laughing their heads off I thought nothing of it until I heard my little sister scream hysterically in pain and agony it wasn’t the scream what frightened me it was how she screamed.

    It seems that those 2 girls who walked out literally crying of fucking laughter put superglue on the toilet seat so that it causes my 4-year-old little sister to get stuck not only that but it was hot super glue so it was starting to burn her and when we eventually got her off the toilet seat when I had to get a manager and people who worked at McDonald’s to help they immediately phoned the police and an ambulance to check her out and when they eventually got her off after causing her so much pain her skin was sore and on her bottom half her skin came entirely off!!

    I have never been in so much shock in my fucking life, they have checked the security cameras of people walking out the toilets so I really hope they get back to me if they have caught them 2 girls because it is absolutely shocking of what they did, just thought I would warn anybody to start and check the toilet seat when they go to a public toilet

    Brooke Harris from Sunderland

  • Before You Judge A Mama Using A Child Leash

    Before you judge a mama for using a “child leash” please know the benefits of using one. As long as they aren’t being used in an abusive matter, the child is fine ♥️

    -Kidnapping is so much easier these days. You can’t leave your child in a cart and turn to grab something without that fear. Much less having a child walking next to you. Child harnesses give you that assurance that your child is right next to you at all times.

    -Special needs children love to run! Heck, all children love to run! Don’t judge a Mamas choice of using one to teach her child respect in a public place.

    -Yes a child harness teaches children respect. So our children aren’t running around in public places, like a grocery store causing problems for other people.

    -A child harness is also handy when a mom has multiple babies or her hands full.

    There are plenty more benefits in using a child harness or child “leash”. The point is, we can’t judge Mamas for putting safety first. We can’t judge a mama for teaching her children respect & discipline. If you are against it, keep walking. Everyone will have opinions but judging other parents instead of supporting them isn’t right. You never know the full situation ♥️

    https://www.facebook.com/MisFitMamas01/

  • 2 of the 3 Died Can You See My Errors

    March 21st 2013, 6 years ago, this was my setup.

    All was legal. They were in all the appropriate minimum weight and age seats.

    This photo was taken 20 to 30 minutes before our collision while we were stopped for a break.

    2 of the 3 died.

    This is not to scare anyone. This is to show the importance of having the right seats for your children and how much the minimum laws are lax.

    Can you spot my errors? I sure can now as a technician.

    -Owen 3 almost 4, just above 40lbs in a low back booster. He survived by pure miracle with head injuries and a broken arm as well as some internal injuries.

    -Hailie 4 almost 5 just above 40lbs in a low back booster. She did what we call the submarine effect and died on impact.

    -Trent 17 months above 22lbs forward facing suffered internal spinal decapitation which killed him almost instantly.

    My goal is to help parents and the population know that the minimum laws set forth by our government is not safe. And I want to try to help prevent more injuries and deaths to children.

    When we know better we do better.

    #childlossawareness

    #justiceforthemichaudfamilly #carseatsafety

  • You Destroyed Our Lives, We Need Justice

    To the 2 individuals who I won’t even write your names. 2 years ago today your thoughtless actions changed the once perfect world we had.

    You awoken knowing your plans for the day of driving round in an already stolen car without any care or regard for any body else. Driving around recklessly and enjoying your trips to a cafe and gym.

    Then after seeing a police car you drove through 2 red lights at 83mph in a 30mph zone! You struck 2 very important people to me. One of them was my mother in law Angela who had worked her whole life to give her family and children everything they needed. Then took early retirement to help me and Rebecca look after our children so we could try to do the same for them.

    The other one was my so small and precious 4-year-old Violet-Grace! You was going so fast she was thrown through the air to the next crossing island, which was over 50 meters away!

    You got out of the car and both stepped over her tiny broken body dying in the road not thinking about helping just about making your escape. Then someone who stopped to help thought one of you was coming back to help, but no just to get a small black bag of evidence out of the car.

    After one of you getting your passport from home you was on a flight with in 3 hours to Amsterdam to “smoke some weed and clear your head.” While the other was already getting your hair cut and making your way to Scotland.

    Violet spent nearly 36 hours fighting for her life but her injuries due to your actions where far too much for her little body to take. The next day, the 25th march Violet took her last breath in mine and her mummy’s arms! Violet saved 2 lives through Organ Donation of people she never knew or met. Violet would have saved more lives but her other organs where to badly damaged. She saved the lives of people she never knew or met. While you 2 couldn’t even stop to try to help save the lives of the 2 people you put in that situation!

    We had to say goodbye to our little superhero knowing she would become someone else superhero.

    Violet-Grace will for ever be a superhero. What you did will never be forgotten. I hope that day haunts your dreams as it does mine.

    So far 99,446 people agree your sentence was an insult. Already now you’s are nearly half way through your sentence counting down the day until you can go home. While we are still trying to pick up what pieces of our life you’d left us.

    Violet-Grace will never come home again. She never get to play with her little brother or grinds again.

    This is why this petition needs to reach the 100000 signatures so people like you get a sentence that will never be enough but will at least be some where enough time to really think about the lives you have destroyed!

    Please click the link to sign

    https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/236952

    By Glen Youens

  • Stop Using Kids As Weapons and Let Us Men Be Men

    Can’t help but notice a lot of women commenting on male suicide. So here’s my two pence, stop using your kids as weapons stop going out getting on the gear and whoring yourself out and then say we are not fit to be parents.

    Stop trying to make out that being a red blooded male is a bad thing after all without these traits the human race wouldn’t exist, stop trying to feminize us, or making us feel bad for being us.

    Stop being cheating lying gold diggers. Women have the power to completely destroy our hearts minds and souls but also heal all wounds and comfort us in our darkest times.

    It has never been harder to be a man in this strange modern world. Everyone should be able to be who they are if they are a red blooded male that’s fine if they are kind and caring that’s fine if they are more feminim than masculine that’s fine everybody should just be them and not try to live up to what tv media and women tell you how you should be.

    What the hell do you want us men to do? No matter how we act we are wrong, want us to be in our kids lives stop making it so hard for us to do so, want us to change do ya? Why? when you met us we were fine but now you wanna throw in new rules, new goal posts and then seem surprised when we walk away.

    Let us men be men, let us be who we are, shut up with your emotions and neediness

    Credit Darren Purslow

  • Female Paedophile Walks Free Even After Saying Babies Were Sexy

    A judge ruled today that a female nursery school manager who watched videos of young children being raped and sexually abused should be named, overturning a previous ban.

    Alison Whateley, 44, told other online child sexual abuse images users that babies were ‘f***ing sexy’ and asked chatroom members for pictures and video of more, even younger victims.

    She egged-on fellow paedophiles in a chatroom where 11 videos of children as young as three being sexually abused an raped were viewed by 40 participants.

    Today a judge ruled it was in the public interest to reveal that depraved Whateley worked at the Bushy Tails Day Nursery and Pre-school in Teddington, south-west London. None of her offences involved pupils at the nursery.

    Whateley had been given a Community Order and a Sexual Harm Prevention Order last Thursday but was allowed to walk free anonymously.

    The nursery where she was working at the time of the offence said today they were ‘saddened’ and welcomed the investigation which had exposed Whateley.

    The court heard that the nursery manager had shared her fantasies of abuse of young children online with online lovers with whom she watched graphic images of child abuse online.

    Like Britain’s most notorious woman paedophile, Vanessa George, she had found men who shared her lust for child abuse images purely via the internet and talked lecherously about abusing children to ‘get them off.’

    Whateley who had previously been responsible for looking after nursery school pupils, had used her iPhone to access online chatroom Zoom in 2017, where anonymous hosts had played videos of children as young as three years old being raped.

    After a day of work at the Bushy Tails nursery she returned to her home in Farnham, west Surrey to log on as ‘user XXX’, under which guise she would encourage other users, potentially up to 100, to share more and more extreme images.

    Whateley had admitted encouraging or assisting in a summary offence and was sentenced at Guildford Crown Court on March 7. Judge Peter Moss today lifted the order banning naming her.

    Wearing spectacles and a beige scarf with her dark hair tied back, she clutched a spikey blue stress ball as she trudged into the dock, shielding her eyes from the assembled court and could be heard to moan in anguish throughout.

    Prosecutor Steven Talbot-Hadley told Judge Peter Ross: ‘At the relevant time this defendant worked as a manager at a nursery.

    ‘An undercover investigation was underway by the National Crime Agency focused on the online conferencing platform Zoom, which is otherwise legitimate but known to be used by paedophiles for sharing images of child abuse online.

    ‘An undercover officer was deployed in the meeting. It was in this way that this defendant was discovered. What the court is concerned with is the involvement in a Zoom meeting on August 29 2017. On that occasions the defendant was present for just under an hour under the username XXX.’

    The court heard that during this time 40 participants viewed 11 videos showing children as young as three to five being sexually abused and raped.

    During this time, Whateley actively participated when she typed into the live chat that ‘she liked … boys and girls, the younger the better, and she particularly liked babies, saying they were ‘so f***ing sexy’.’

    One of the online users had asked to see less young boys and more young girls, and the nursery manager had added ‘and younger the better.’

    She asked the other users: ‘Anybody interested in very tiny children?’

    Following the defendant’s digital trail had led investigators to Farnham, Surrey where they took her in for an interview, during which her position was that she had been using the online chat to track down and trap paedophiles.

    The prosecutor told the court: ‘When asked if she had ever provided any names or phone numbers to police of people she had interacted with online, she said she never had and has never given a reason for that.

    ‘She met somebody online with the username JohnUK. She told police she talked with him about having sex with children in order to ‘get him off’, she said she had his number and thought about giving it to the police.’

    Police interrogated Whateley’s phone and discovered WhatsApp messages from August to September with another man online between August and September 2017, a man called Joe, with who she discussed abusing children, and telephone records showed she was in contact with a man who was investigated by police for indecent images.

    The court also heard an audio recording on her phone was discovered in which a woman could be heard performing a sex act while talking to herself in graphic detail about abusing babies, which Whateley admitted in a later police interview was her own voice.

    The prosecutor said: ‘She said she made the recording because she wanted to know that she could pass herself off as one of them. When she was confronted with this she did not seek to put forward any positive explanation.’

    Whateley was sentenced to a Community Order where she will be under supervision in the community for 30 months and she was ordered to complete a 50 days rehabilitation requirement.

    The SHPO will be in place for five years.

    Judge Peter Moss said: ‘A psychiatrist found that you gave a less than compelling reason for why you were viewing this material, to be seeking to entrap paedophiles as some sort of paedophile hunter.

    ‘You have accepted that is not correct because of your inactivity in doing something about it.’

    full credit goes to the amazing people at the Uk database

     

  • Tough Love Is All I Know How To Give

    HAD TO SHARE THIS : …..

    Tough love is all I know how to give !

    When I’ve busted my butt to do everything possible to give my child a great life .. a better life that I had and guide her and her siblings to the best of my ability …

    Several talks .. plenty of chances and still chooses to act a fool at school and at home…

    Well this mom has reached her limit !

    She will learn to appreciate having a nice cozy bed .. now that she is sleeping on the floor .

    She will learn to appreciate the clothes and shoes we have bought her now that I have limited her to 3 pants , 3 tops and 3 undergarments , 1 hoodie and 1 jacket and 2 pairs of shoes.

    She will learn to appreciate having a washer and dryer …because now she will have to wash those 3day outfits by HAND to re-wear them.

    She will appreciate the fact that she had nice clothes to sport the weekends ..because now she will be wearing her same weekday school uniforms during the weekend .. since that’s part of the wardrobe I allowed her to keep!

    She will appreciate to have had a tv 📺 to watch because now she will only have the 4 walls in her room to look at or a book to read.

    She will learn to appreciate family time and miss it now that she will have plenty of time alone to think about her horrible actions !

    She will appreciate the phone she had and we pay for because now she is disconnected from the world 🌍 NO SOCIAL MEDIA, NO FRIENDS , NOTHING!

    She will learn to watch her mouth and respect her elders at home and at school .. as well as follow directions and correct her behavior as we have taught her to do so!

    Teenagers nowadays think that us parents NEED to give them all that extra stuff .. we sure in hell don’t! All we need to do is provide the basic needs, a roof over there head and food.

    They take everything for granted and complain about every little dumb crap!

    So at this point this punishment is indefinite but at the very minimum a month!

    Best believe she’s going to learn from this one!!

    Credit Liza sepulveda

  • No Parent Should Have To Go Through This-I Hope This Story Can Prevent Another Death

    Here it is, the month I have been dreading for 11 months now. So I would like to take this time to reshare a post that is very important and very close to my heart. I know most of you have read it but take a moment to share it again. Last time it helped save the lives of 13 children. Let’s make it more.

    In the wee hours of March 22, 2018 it was like any other. I got off work and I headed to pick up my daughter. She had spent the last week with her dad and I was ready for my snuggles. I was excited to hear about her week and I was dreaming of the late morning breakfast and playtime we would have when we woke up.

    When I got to the babysitters she had carried her to my car, my daughter was completely knocked out she had had a hard day. In an offhanded way I asked if she was breathing, joking. Until I put my hand on her little chest and I felt no movement. In that moment I completely freaked out. I couldn’t finish a thought. I knew I needed to get her back inside and start CPR. I was so mad and terrified. I was yelling at everyone who got in my way or tried to say something.

    I ran her back inside and laid her down and started CPR on her little limp body. In my head I knew I needed to remain calm but I couldn’t, I was yelling at my babysitter and trying to think about doing chest compressions and breathing and freaking out the entire time.

    Finally, after what seemed like an hour which in actuality was probably only 15 minutes EMS got there and took over. For the next hour while they tried desperately to bring me back my baby I called my parents and her dad, I paced, I cried, I prayed. At times I felt like an outsider watching this awful event unfold. I had always had these nightmares but it was never supposed to happen, not to me. It was the most surreal moments in my life.

    After an hour of watching them pump my little girls chest and breathe for her, they loaded her up in the ambulance and we followed behind. As we drove to the hospital the worst thoughts flooded into my head. I thought of the fact that the last time I had seen my baby awake she was begging me not to go to work and I went anyway. I was thinking about what it would mean for me if she was gone. I thought of what it would be like to plan my child’s funeral and all the things we would miss out on. I prayed to God that if only he would spare my baby I would do whatever he wanted.

    When we got to the hospital they lead me to the small room off of the waiting room and started asking me all of the questions they ask when you go to the hospital. I foolishly thought this is a good sign. They want to admit her. I was there for maybe 10 minutes before a doctor came in say down beside me and said the words that would forever change my world, he said “we did everything we could but unfortunately we were unable to revive her and she did not survive.”

    That one little sentence devastated my entire being. Everything I was in that little girl. She was my absolute pride and joy. If you asked me how I was doing it would usually go something like I’m good, my daughter…. But in that moment I couldn’t feel anything it was like my heart had stopped too. I was an empty shell. The shock was overwhelming.

    When they took me to her little lifeless body laying on that big hospital bed I lost it. I wanted to hold her and lay with her. They let me. I held her as the heat slowly left her body and her skin became cold to the touch. If I wasn’t holding her I was running my hands through her little hair. Singing her favorite song.

    After about 30 minutes or so they came to me and told me they had run some tests and it appears she had had undiagnosed Type 1 Diabetes and her blood sugar level was in the 500’s. I could not comprehend this information. How could my baby have Diabetes? She had went to her wellness check up only the week before and they told me she was healthy. How could she have died from a disease that I know thousands of people manage?

    For those of you who do not know an average person’s blood sugar should not be above 120 and my child’s was 5 times the healthy amount. At 300-400 you start to go comatose. My baby had slipped into a coma and her little body was unable to fight its way out, and it gave out. There were no signs leading up to this it was unexpected. Diabetes does not run in either of our families and so we had no idea.

    Later I found out that Diabetes is not something they test for in small children. They don’t typically test until they are school age and show signs. Unless of course it runs in the family.

    The signs for Diabetes in toddlers are they drink a lot, pee a lot and are tired. It can also appear very suddenly. These signs are easily missed and overlooked because most toddlers do these things. The test is a simple blood sugar test that you have to request at their wellness check-up.

    So I beg you to ask your child’s doctor to test for it. I beg you to become aware of the signs and symptoms of childhood Diabetes. I beg you to share this post and story with everyone because no parent should ever have to hear the words “I’m sorry but unfortunately she did not survive”.

    The last time I shared this I got alot of questions that I would like to clear up. No she did not get shots at her wellness check-up. So please do not use my daughter’s story as an anti-vaxing platform. Also yes, some people have had higher blood sugar and have lived. Not every disease affects every person the same. So please do not tell me that I am lying or that I’m using my daughter’s story to get attention. Because that is exactly what I am doing, getting attention for childhood diabetes.

    Thank you.

    Sierra Greenlee

  • The Shocking Reality Of Not Vaccinating

    Tetanus is one of the most horrifying preventable diseases on this earth. Everyone has experienced a muscle cramp, spasm or “charlie horse” one time or another in their lives and is well aware of the indescribable pain that comes with it. Now imagine every single muscle in your body doing this for weeks, sometimes with enough force to fracture bone and pull tendons from their origins. In addition to all of this, without modern medical interventions, your diaphragm, like the rest of your muscles will fail to relax and you will suffocate to death.

    The Shocking Reality Of Not Vaccinating
    The Shocking Reality Of Not Vaccinating

    I mention this because the CDC has just released a case study of the first pediatric case of Tetanus in over 30 years in the united states (link below). This case study describes in detail how a child was forced to endure the same hell described above for 57 days because his parents refused to protect him from this nightmare by simply vaccinating him.

    This child sustained a simple laceration to the forehead and because of his parents delusions, almost died one of the most miserable deaths imaginable. After 57 days (and $800,000 in medical bills), when offered a TDap booster and other vaccinations, the parents again refused. Why are parents that starve their children to death sent to prison but parents that continually fail to protect their children from these horrifying fates are allowed to continue to place their children in harm’s way?

    https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/68/wr/mm6809a3.htm?s_cid=mm6809a3_e

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    The Shocking Reality Of Not Vaccinating
    The Shocking Reality Of Not Vaccinating

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    EDIT: I did not think this needed to be said but since my inbox has been flooded with people thinking they have uncovered some grand conspiracy, the top photo is not of the child in the case (obviously), it is an image from the article Opisthotonus (arc de cercle) in anti-NMDAR encephalitis- Guillermo Delgado-Garcia, Vanessa Cano-Nigenda, et al.

    I used this image to show opisthotonus which is the keystone symptom of tetanus. I chose this image because while the underlying cause of the opisthotonus in this image is of a different etiology the presentation is identical. Additionally I chose not to include photos of dead children with actual tetanus for obvious reasons.

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    Shameless plug EDIT: I figured that along with the overwhelming positive impact this post has had facilitating the difficult discussion of vaccination, I feel I could also use the exposure to promote an organization that I personally support. After watching my best friend battle Hodgkins lymphoma throughout our childhood, I have seen firsthand the devastation of childhood cancer. It is because of this that I am shaving my head for the St. Baldricks foundation next week and humbly ask anyone that is still following this post to consider donating a dollar or two to my page

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    (https://www.stbaldricks.org/participants/mypage/1003203/2019).

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    I have absolutely no financial affiliation with this organization and include this shameless request only because it is for a cause that I personally fight for so adamantly.

    Credit Drew Matthews

  • Why I Still Breastfeed My 4 Year Old

    This is the latest COMMENT I got after saying I BF my 4 year-old. I’d like to share with you my response, in case you ever come across it too in your BF journey…

    I said I BREASTFEED my 4 year-old and I was told:

    “If a 4-year-old child STILL looks for the BREAST, she is obviously LACKING something ”

    I agree, TOTALLY.☺️

    LET ME tell you just WHAT, is lacking in my child’s life:

    The FORCING to wean is lacking.

    The imposition to stop is lacking.

    She lacks two parents who want to DETACH her at all costs.

    She lacks a mother who feels cheated of her autonomy as a modern woman.

    She is lacking PERMANENT teeth:

    milk teeth = authorisation to be an infant. 🤗

    She lacked years spent sucking a rubber PACIFIER.

    She lacked a bottle of chamomile to calm her night CRIES.

    Vitamin supplements are lacking.

    She lacks an entourage , UNPREPARED to defend and support the mother, against the weight of social pressure that pushes her to abandon breastfeeding.

    INSECURITY and low self-esteem are also NOT THERE.

    She lacks the URGENCY to stop.

    She lacks the GROWTH milk.

    AND, she lacks a family surrounded by bad advisers.😉

    A mother breastfeeding an “older” child is often considered a SELFISH mother, who cannot detach from her little one, who does not want to let go, who does not stimulate autonomy, who spoils, oppresses.

    A mother who breastfeeds for a long time is treated as if she is doing something illegal and so she operates quietly, stealthily, as a thief.

    She is considered EXCESSIVE, an exhibitionist even.

    She feels alone, but I want to shout to each one of you that NO, you are NOT alone!!!!

    You are warriors mothers, following a natural mammalian INSTINCT that modernity is trying to wrest us away from.

    You deserve to walk with your heads UP and your tits in the WIND, because from those nipples Love and nourishment for your little one flows.

    Among a thousand hardships, so many ups and downs, turbulent nights,

    sweaty summer feedings,

    unlikely positions,

    pointed fingers,

    curious looks,

    unhappy comments,

    shapeless t-shirts and

    tested breasts…

    BREASTFEEDING is and always will be a great gift we can give ourselves, our children and the whole world.

    ❤️❤️❤️

    Credit: Stefanie Giraldi