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  • Vile paedophile Gary Glitter is now being held in a cushy prison

    Vile paedophile Gary Glitter is now being held in a cushy prison for sex offenders where inmates play giant chess on a grass lawn and sit admiring a pond full of koi carp

    Paedo Glitter, 74, was moved to HMP The Verne which has had a £3.3million make over to become a Category C jail solely to house perverts convicted of sexual offences

    Prisoners have 20-inch flat screen TVs and tea making facilities in their own cells and are allowed to walk freely around their wing 24-hours-a-day.

    The beasts are also given personal trainers who take them for fitness sessions in the prison gym, as well as having access to an astroturf football pitch for five-a-side kickabouts.

    The exercise yard has a giant chess set for the inmates to play on, and an ornamental pond filled with foot-long expensive koi carp to gaze at.

    There is also a farm area where the convicts grow flowers and look after ducks.

    A source said: “It’s like a holiday camp in there. To think some of these people have raped children, the public would be disgusted to see how they live.

    “Because it’s all sex offenders together they feel safe and there is no trouble.

    “They are given special privileges because they are older prisoners who are deemed to be well-behaved.”

    The Leader of the Pack singer, real name Paul Gadd, was jailed in 2015 for 16 years for sexually abusing three young girls between 1975 and 1980.

    The Ministry of Justice is currently spending millions on renovating the lino flooring, and repainting the doors to the individual cells in pastel shades of green, red, purple and grey, to “brighten up” the wings.

    The source added: “Prisoners are given keys to their own cells so they can wander freely around the wing all night.

    “They can all have a party in one cell if they want, stay up all night watching Freeview, or lock themselves in to stop other prisoners entering.”

    HMP The Verne was turned into an immigration removal centre in 2013 and ran until 2017 when it was converted back to a prison and is now run as a Category C Training Prison for Men Convicted Of Sexual Offences (MCOSOs).

    Parts of the jail have been converted for people with disabilities including lifts, widened cells, and wet room washing facilities.

    Prisoners must have a minimum of 12-months sentence remaining to be admitted.

    Full credit https://www.facebook.com/UKdatebase9/ please check out there page

  • Family Should Have Phone Ahead Before Bringing Autistic Child Out For Meal

    Jake Crocker took to Facebook to share his disgust about his families treatment after going out for a meal.

    Crocker said  “I have never felt so angered that I would even have to write this. Went to the cherry tree tonight for my sisters 21st, as most of you know that Leo is autistic and can be a bit vocal. My dad walked past a table close to ours and apologised for the noise to which he replied “thanks for that”, a few minutes later the guy (who now turns out to be the owner) made his manager come over and ask us to control the children.

    Amy (mother of the child)then stopped her and explained that if they know how to parent an autistic child better than us then they are more than welcome to try. Leo was given a colouring book by the staff to try and quieten him. The staff then approached our table and said they we should have specified that there was an autistic child on our booking?! We’ve never had to before so I’m unsure as to why this would be necessary now? It then escalated by the owner coming over to our table and we (as a table of 15) had to leave. I’m absolutely disgusted. This will be going further and I hope they are ready”.

    The Cherry tree pub in Rochford, Essex owner Gary Downham said that “it was noticed that one of the young children would not stop screaming or shouting and whilst our restaurant is child friendly the level of screaming was such that it was difficult to hold a conversation”.

    Downham added that he goes to great length to accommodate ALL our customers.

  • This Is Not Consent For Sex Its Still Rape

    👩🚫 #Thisisnotconsent 🚫👩

    Barrister Elizabeth O Connell

    What type of knickers Do you wear ?

    A lace front, silky thong

    I bet you own a pair !!

    A pack of 3 from penny’s

    Or Ann Summers best

    You and I both wear them

    The same as all the rest

    A sexy 2 piece crotch less

    Or a Bridget Jones tent

    Either way my underwear

    Does not give my consent

    My knickers doesn’t have a voice

    It’s a personal choice to me

    A piece of clothing sewn together

    Like jeans with a rip in the knee

    We live in 2018

    Times of change and equal rights

    But yet a choice of underwear

    Caused events that happen that night

    People now choose their religion

    Choose gender and sexuality too

    But when I go shopping for knickers

    I have the choice of only a few ???

    Wear a big grey granny

    If your not up for a rape

    Go to the authorities and courts for help

    More luck calling batman in his cape

    What if women got together for justice

    A mob to sort rapists out

    We would be sentenced in Irish courts

    Of that I have no doubt

    We understand you were doing a job

    It’s work that isn’t fun

    But please don’t blame a victims knickers

    To try and get the job done

    Our country fought hard for freedom

    To get where we are today

    This government is going to ruin it all

    If they wont hear what we have to say

    I’m going wear whatever knickers I want

    A g-string or maybe the tent

    But the most important thing to remember is

    My knickers doesn’t give my consent

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/Awaywithwords2018/

  • Dentastix Are Causing Dogs Seizures

    Dentastix Are Causing Dogs Seizures

    A warning for all you dog owners. DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT give your dog pedigree dentastix. After a lot of detective work, we have realised that these dentastix were the reason Minnie was having seizures. Her potassium levels came back high (hyperkalemia).

    Hyperkalemia is caused by injestion of antifreeze. And guess what dentastix contain? ANTIFREEZE!!! Pedigree obviously don’t display this on their products, instead they display it as Sodium Tripolyphosphate which is a component of antifreeze! Please be careful what you are feeding your dogs. I wouldn’t want my worst enemy to go through what we have with Minnie, it has been awful. Pedigree dentastix are now banned from this house.

     Yes there is going to be a debate around it and I’m not saying this can happen to every dog, but it has happened to ours. Do your own research into it and form your own opinion. But I am not the only one who has had bad experiences with dentastix. I completely understand that STTP is in a lot of foods that us as humans eat and also animals, but too much of something isn’t good for you

    Full credit Loren moon

  • Epilepsy Is Hard But My Loneliness Is Worst

    I knew my life was going to be hard when I was diagnosed with epilepsy at the age of 11 , but I didn’t realise just how hard it would actually be.

     The hardest part is watching everyone you get close to pull away and move on with their lives some with amazing careers some having families and im not saying their lives are perfect far from it but when I sit looking at my own life im still exactly where I was the day I left school but 20 years has gone and EpI have even fewer options in life left.

    … and what have I got for it … experience … pain .. loss… grief … they say you get out of life what you put in .. but there’s no way in hell I put all this in.

    I don’t need to hear that a friend of yours has epilepsy and they have a family a job etc, there are different degrees of epilepsy, I have Grand mal seizures these have two stages:

    • Tonic phase. Loss of consciousness occurs, and the muscles suddenly contract and cause me to fall down. This phase tends to last about 10 to 20 seconds, i have had head injuries, broken bones and a fear of going out.
    • Clonic phase. The muscles go into rhythmic contractions, alternately flexing and relaxing. Convulsions usually last one to two minutes or less, this can happen to me up to 50 times a day.

    Yes i am on medication, i have tried cannabis oil which has helped t a degree but not prevented my seizures, i just have to face that this is my life for ever, the pain is bad,  but the loneliness is worse, I wish I was normal but for the most part I just wish I had an understanding friend.

  • Heroes Medals Stolen Can You Help?

    Hello everyone,

    My Grandpa who was 98 years old sadly passed away last week. In the last 48 hours, his house in Sunbury was burgled. Whilst we are heartbroken that somebody would do such an awful thing, his wish was for his medals, earned after fighting in WW2 were to be displayed at his funeral, and passed on to his 8-year-old Great Grandson. However, these were also stolen. They were his pride and joy. I am here to plead with you all to look out for any information regarding either the burglary or look out for those who may be selling his belongings on Facebook, in antiques shops, at fayres, at auction, anywhere you can.

    Perhaps the culprit is here? If so, the medals have only sentimental value, they aren’t worth anything to you. We don’t care about anything else, but please, if you have a heart, let my Grandpa have his medals back whilst we lay him to rest. I beg you. I will even pay a reward for their safe return if you have them and won’t ask anymore questions.

    I have attached photos of some of the medals which have been stolen. Please share with everyone you may know. We have had to put his funeral arrangements on hold due to the burglary, but are hoping he can be at rest by 29th November. Please do the right thing. Even if you throw them into the garden, we just need them back. Somebody knows where they are.

    Full credit Hannah peacock

    If you have any information on the were abouts of these precious medals please feel free to email us mumsadviceltd@outlook.com

  • Pedophile Decoy This Is Why I Do It

    As a child I was sexually abused and I was silenced. When I turned 21 it all came out and that was only because my mum had found out the person who had abused me and my younger sister had been convicted and spent time in jail for the crime. My mum was so angry as there was nothing she could do as he died in 1984… my mum blamed herself and suffered from depression she was really in a bad place and many times tried to take her own life

    I felt powerless all I wanted was for my mum to get better watching her suffer like she did was heart breaking .

    I never once blamed my mum for the abuse and for me I just put it to the back of my mind . Then in 1991 I gave birth to my daughter that’s when I started to realise I needed help I wouldn’t let any one near her in fear that she would be hurt. I didn’t want any monsters near her. I had to protect her from what I had gone through, I did.

    Her father then started drinking heavy and hitting me I was so scared but also defended myself I tried so many times to escape the physical abuse he was putting me thru finally I escaped from him. I remember like it was yesterday how he begged me for another chance I was strong and told him no it was very hard for me as I had never been on my own before.

    A few years later I met Scott who is now my husband we have three children together and are very happy. Then in 2010 everything changed . Two thugs who lived on the same Street committed murder right across the road from where I live. They tried to snatch my daughter who was 4 almost 5 out of my arms and threatened to kill my whole family if Scott didn’t drive them away from the scene.

    As wrong as it was Scott did drive them away. I phoned the police straight away and told them what had happened it was so bloody scary. Later than night Scott was arrested for assisting an offender… after 2 days of him being locked up he was released without charge. Many people came forward to give evidence.

    The following year I was losing weight I was only 7 stones at my heaviest and everything came flooding back to me from my childhood to the domestic violence I suffered. I was paranoid someone was going to hurt me or my babies . Doctors put me on anti depressants to help me make it through each day.

    The following year we had to give evidence over the murder and for once in my life I felt strong. That same year I fell pregnant. I was 42 at the time and OK 42 and pregnant but I was so happy I was going to be a new mum again. Again my thoughts all came back about my childhood I wouldn’t leave my precious baby alone.

    I finally decided it was unhealthy and I got counselling. I am free from all my demons now… then one day last year I was browsing Facebook and came across paedophile hunters I wanted to help and become a decoy.

    Why did I want to become a decoy the answer is simple for me I didn’t want any child to suffer at the hands of a paedophile . Being a decoy is the hardest thing I have done…. no one really believes you when you say you get dick pics and that’s just the 1st message then u say to them your age that doesn’t stop them.

    The amount of times you mention your age is un true. One of the groomers wanted to get close to my mum so he could see me. Being a decoy is helping save a real child … when I am decoying I feel raged and angry at the same time hoping and praying that the predator isn’t talking to a real child .

    The predators are very demanding and controlling. Some are slow groomers then you get the ones who want to talk about sex want nudes want you to do video calling it’s never-ending . I think please if there is a God up they’d please don’t let this groomer have a real child.

    So after weeks of them grooming you .. you then get a sting… they are arrested but it doesn’t end there for either the Hunter or decoy they have to submit their evidence and hope the paedophile pleads guilty… it still doesn’t stop there it’s on your mind 24/7 .

    Sometimes the justice system fails sometimes they get what they deserve. It’s still not the end of it there as you know there are still more to be caught …. you can not judge what a paedophile looks like they come in all shapes sizes and creed and colour … just remember one thing if you talk to underage children we will find we will expose you for what you are…..

    I have had my bad days where I wanna cry as I think please please don’t let there be a real child involved I am more alert now even though I am a survivor myself I look at people differently and I will always do my dammed hardest to carry on protecting all the children . I am here to protect children nothing will stop me. #forthechildren #kks

    Please take a look at KKS facebook page to follow other decoys and hunters catching pedophiles

    https://m.facebook.com/K.K.S.est2017/

  • Is This The Worst Or Best Baby Name Ever?

    Ok so when we received this message via our Facebook page a few years ago we weren’t sure if it was real but we felt it had to posted and help this dad out.

    The dad said “Hi can I have a post please, I split from my girlfriend a few months back and she’s just given birth to our son, this is great im so excited to be a dad.

    But she’s named the baby Keith, not only do I not like the name but even his initials spell Keith

    K…Keith     E…Edgar   I..Ian  T…Thomas   H… Holmes.

    The new dad went on to express his fear of introducing baby Keith to his friends, saying how do you tell people that your child is named after a 50-year-old Scottish ginger brawler, I can’t change the nappy of a kid called Keith, Keith is for old people or ugly fat blokes, help can I change his name even after she has registered it?

    Mums Advice members laughed at the name choice and asked if it was even real, after a few hours the father posted a photo of his new babies birth certificate and people were shocked.

    People thought it was cruel to name a child Keith but even worse to have his initials spelling out the name too, one woman even said that the woman needed to seek mental health help.

    However many men and woman thought the name was lovely and that they themselves had a child called Keith, but added that the initials was a step too far.

    What are your thoughts on the name Keith? Is it a nice traditional name or outdated and awful?

    Would you consider naming your child this? Do you feel it is nice but the initials are too much?

    Do your own children have different or unique names, how do you deal with others criticising it?

    Let us know your thoughts and views in the comments section

  • Allow Families To Have A Holiday During Term Time

    Carol Costa has created a petition which we felt we just could not share.

    Allow parents to take children out of school for 1 week a year during term time

    I’m fed up of being over charged for a family holiday during the school holidays. It’s unfair that families pay an inflated holiday cost just because it is the school holidays. This needs to be combatted to allow hard working families to be able to afford to take their children away.

    As a mum of three, I understand the importance of education and how instrumental our children’s attendance is to their successful progression but quality family time is also important.

    Many families can simply not afford to go away during the school holidays.

    We need to allow hard working parents to enjoy their children on a weeks holiday when they choose, once a year at a price that isn’t inflated. The only way this is achievable is during term time when prices go down dramatically

    Please take a minute to sign this petition https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/231928

  • STOP FORCING YOUR CHILD TO BE SOMEONE THEY’RE NOT, BECAUSE THEY WILL GROW UP TO RESENT YOU

    STOP FORCING YOUR CHILD TO BE SOMEONE THEY’RE NOT, BECAUSE THEY WILL GROW UP TO RESENT YOU

    Let’s address this not-so-problematic problem that keeps popping up here and there then, shall we?

    Buckle up, folks, because this is going to be a long one.

    Now… I consider myself a good parent I suppose – I love my children, I cook healthy meals, I clean, I educate them, I encourage them to help around the house, I make sure they know right from wrong, that they’re polite, kind and are thoughtful of other people around them.

    I’ve also taught them that they can be whoever they want to be because I will love them no matter what… which is how any parent should feel, correct?

    Incorrect. (Apparently)

    I once (well, maybe a few times) allowed my son to dress up in pink and leave the house because he loved the colour and it made him feel good. In turn, that made me feel good that he was comfortable and happy expressing himself around me, and more importantly, he was totally okay with being himself around other people because, you know, that’s what we constantly preach to others, right?

    Wrong. (Apparently)

    As true as I’m writing this now, I got a truck load of shit for it and I couldn’t understand why.

    “Why are you dressing him up as a girl?! You have a daughter to dress up!”

    “Do you want him to grow up being confused?” 

    “People are going to make fun of him! You’re sick!”

    Can we just get one thing straight, here?

    The people and parents who behave this way are the ones damaging our children psychologically, not us.

    I know this because I’ve been there.

    My father wanted me to do ballet, I played football. I had to be quiet in his presence, I wasn’t allowed to express myself through fear of him being embarrassed or being punished for it.

    I was bullied for most of my life because I had no voice; I didn’t know who I was then and I still don’t now… because someone I looked up to told me to keep my mouth shut because of what others would think.

    I developed a personality disorder, Body Dysmorphic Disorder and an eating disorder because I had to be someone I wasn’t.

    I was a pressure cooker waiting to explode and I’m now a product of everything my father hates which has a strain on our relationship and any other relationship I’ve ever had.

    I’m ‘damaged’ so to speak.

    So, back to where I was – I couldn’t give a flying fuck what my children want to leave the house as to be honest, because if they’re HAPPY then that’s all that matters.

    My son has his nails painted, he wears makeup sometimes and pushes a pushchair around if he feels like it, because, actually, one day he may be a father.

    You wouldn’t laugh then, would you?

    He was invited to an Elves and Fairies party recently and guess what he wanted to go as?

    A fairy.

    Would he look at another child and laugh for how they’re expressing themselves? Absolutely not – he’d join in because I’ve taught him that we all express ourselves in different ways and that there is no right or wrong in how we dress, what we wear or what we’d like to be when we grow up because it’s how we treat people that reallycounts.

    My son asked for two birthday parties this year – one where he could be himself and one where he had to pretend to be someone else because he knew other people wouldn’t ‘approve’.

    I was gutted for him.

    All he wanted was to have a good time – he shouldn’t be having to lie and make such grown up decisions at such a young age, just because one person had told him that “boys don’t behave that way”.

    For as long as he’s with me, he can be whoever the fuck he wants and that’s not going to change. He knows that, my daughter knows that and I’ll take on anybody who disagrees.

    So, to the parents who teach their children to laugh at other children, to encourage racism, hatred and snigger at others… FUCK YOU.

    YOU are what’s wrong with the world.

    Children don’t know hate, racism or mocking someone for being ‘different’ unless we tell them and I refuse to enforce that upon my children just because the majority of the population are uncomfortable with being different.

    I know how this affects children because I was one of them – I’m sure as fucking hell never going to put my child through that.

    Why would anybody want to?

    Encourage your children to be different, be their number one fan, cheer them on, even if it makes you feel slightly uncomfortable because they need you to be there for them emotionally.

    You are all they have and if they don’t have you, who do they have?

    The Unicorn in Black

    Please following the amazing writer at The unicorn in black https://m.facebook.com/theunicorninblack/

    https://theunicorninblack.com/2018/11/01/stop-forcing-your-child-to-be-someone-theyre-not-because-they-will-grow-up-to-resent-you/