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  • This Is What Friendship Looks Like

    This is what friendship looks like👇🏼

    I am currently walking through the hardest season of my life, and as Mama’s we feel like we’ve always gotta put on our big girl pants and just muscle through. Never let ‘em see you sweat, right? Oh girl…if there’s one thing this season has taught me, it’s that that sort of lie is terribly dangerous to believe.

    I needed my people today. I thought I just needed to call them up and cry about what was happening, and then while on the phone, my sweet friend asked me such an important question. She asked me to just say what I needed and wanted most.

    I told her that I didn’t want to be alone.

    Her response :: “I’m on my way.”

    I started in with all of the reasons she couldn’t and shouldn’t come… “My house is a disaster.” “I don’t want to burden you.” “It’s such a long drive.”

    Her response :: “Sister, I don’t care about any of that. You said you don’t want to be alone, so I’m coming.”

    Not only did she make the trek from Greeley to Fort Collins, but she picked up another sweet friend along the way. They picked up lunch, they walked into my house, gave me the biggest hugs, and asked “What can we do?”

    My disaster of a house? They helped me clean it, and assured me it wasn’t that bad. They let me cry, they made me laugh, we listened to music, and most importantly…

    I. Wasn’t. Alone. 💕

    Mama, if you’re going through a rough season…know that you don’t have to do it by yourself. You don’t even have to know what you need — just start by asking to not be alone.

    I know there is someone in your life who will say to you “I’m on my way,” if only you’d ask.

    And Mama if you have a friend who you know is going through it, just offer to come and be there with her. Actually don’t offer…just tell her you’re coming.

    Because I guarantee she wants that more than anything, and she’s having a hard time being able to say it.

    Praying for all of you walking the tough roads right now…whatever that may look like for you, know that you’re not walking it alone! We love you, Mama! 💕

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/nocomomsblog/

     

  • Stop Giving Your Baby Rantidine

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    What an absolute joke of a morning! All parents that are giving there babies RANITIDINE please stop! Me and my sister Becki Lauren Smith have had a nightmare of a morning with this.

    Basically all chemists are still giving this product out still with the uncertainty of having the drug NDMA which links to cancer.. after a few phone calls to the chemist and one to ROSEMONT! And After a irate phone call with rosemont (the company which provides this product) they basically said they are testing the batch that is still being released for the NDMA drug and this could take months.. I asked the question

    “So while your testing this product, why have you not recalled from all the chemist? And what if it comes back positive?! My niece has been having this medication!”

    There response was “it’s up to you if you want to stop the medication but we are not recalling it’’ I told them ‘’ if this product comes back positive I will be suing the company’’

    Her response ‘’that’s fine’’

    which I think is very unprofessional! All these babies being left vulnerable! To now being told ALL RANITIDINE HAS NOW BEING RECALLED as of the past half an hour!

    Me and Becki finally got to the bottom of this and our work is now done!

    P.s if your child has been given this, in the past few weeks then go to doctors and they can prescribe omeprazole depending the babies weight

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  • The Majority Of Newborns Want To Breastfeed More Frequently

    “I really wish that all new mothers were told that the majority of newborns want to breastfeed much more frequently than every few hours. And many even want to stay latched on, suckling for extended periods of time. This can understandably shake a new mother’s confidence and make her second guess if she’s producing enough milk to keep her nursling satisfied. Women are usually just told that their baby should nurse ‘every 2-3 hours’, but frequent (and lengthy) nursing is a totally normal thing for newborns to do! It helps keep them close to mama while regulating her milk supply.

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    Often babies won’t have these longer stretches between feeds until they’re a little older. Even then, there are several things that could make them want to nurse more, including (but not limited to) teething, sickness, unfamiliar surroundings, or feeling tired. I can’t imagine how miserable it would be to have a fussy baby in your arms but feel like you shouldn’t breastfeed again because it’s “not time yet”.

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    This isn’t discussed often enough and new mothers need to be reassured. If baby is gaining weight, then there’s absolutely nothing wrong with breastfeeding more often than what you’ve been told is ‘normal’. The postpartum period is all about surrendering, so cozy up with your babe and forget the clock.”

    -Words by Oh Baby Nutrition

     

  • Let’s Talk About Autism And The Emergency Room

    Let’s talk about #Autism & the Emergency Room 🏥🚨

    Did you know that of the individuals with autism who use the emergency department, almost 1 in 4 are sedated or restrained to keep them calm? (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/25433045/)

    It doesn’t have to be like that. Being physically restrained like that can cause psychological trauma. Sometimes sedation and or restraint can be the safest option, yes. However, it should never be the go to choice.

    When staff are compassionate and understanding it can prevent having to turn to physical restraint.

    Emergency room staff can do this by speaking in a clear, concise manner. Explain to the patient what is going to happen, and why it’s important. Be patient and give the individual sufficient time to process the information. Staff should be open to suggestions from parents/caregivers, as they know the individual best.

    Successful emergency room trips are possible with autism when you have caring staff who are willing to listen and understand! 💙

    For more information for Hospital Staff:

    https://www.autismspeaks.org/hospital-emergency-staff

    For more information for Parents or Caregivers:

    https://www.rchsd.org/documents/2015/03/autismspeakstoolkit.pdf/

     

  • Premature Babies Were Put In Entertainment Sideshow

    Thousands of premature infants were saved from certain death by being part of a Coney Island entertainment sideshow.

    At the time premature babies were considered genetically inferior, and were simply left to fend for themselves and ultimately die.

    Dr Martin Couney offered desperate parents a pioneering solution that was as expensive as it was experimental – and came up with a very unusual way of covering the costs.

    It was Coney Island in the early 1900’s. Beyond the Four-Legged Woman, the sword swallowers, and “Lionel the Lion-Faced Man,” was an entirely different exhibit: rows of tiny, premature human babies living in glass incubators.

    The brainchild of this exhibit was Dr. Martin Couney, an enigmatic figure in the history of medicine. Couney created and ran incubator-baby exhibits on the island from 1903 to the early 1940s.

    Behind the gaudy facade, premature babies were fighting for their lives, attended by a team of medical professionals.To see them, punters paid 25 cents.The public funding paid for the expensive care, which cost about $15 a day in 1903 (the equivalent of $405 today) per incubator.

    Couney was in the lifesaving business, and he took it seriously. The exhibit was immaculate. When new children arrived, dropped off by panicked parents who knew Couney could help them where hospitals could not, they were immediately bathed, rubbed with alcohol and swaddled tight, then “placed in an incubator kept at 96 or so degrees, depending on the patient. Every two hours, those who could suckle were carried upstairs on a tiny elevator and fed by breast by wet nurses who lived in the building. The rest [were fed by] a funneled spoon. The smallest baby Couney handled is reported to have weighed a pound and a half.

    His nurses all wore starched white uniforms and the facility was always spotlessly clean.

    An early advocate of breast feeding, if he caught his wet nurses smoking or drinking they were sacked on the spot. He even employed a cook to make healthy meals for them.

    The incubators themselves were a medical miracle, 40 years ahead of what was being developed in America at that time.

    Each incubator was made of steel and glass and stood on legs, about 5ft tall. A water boiler on the outside supplied hot water to a pipe running underneath a bed of mesh, upon which the baby slept.

    Race, economic class, and social status were never factors in his decision to treat and Couney never charged the parents for the babies care.The names were always kept anonymous, and in later years the doctor would stage reunions of his “graduates.

    According to historian Jeffrey Baker, Couney’s exhibits “offered a standard of technological care not matched in any hospital of the time.”

    Throughout his decades of saving babies, Couney understood there were better options. He tried to sell, or even donate, his incubators to hospitals, but they didn’t want them. He even offered all his incubators to the city of New York in 1940, but was turned down.

    In a career spanning nearly half a century he claimed to have saved nearly 6,500 babies with a success rate of 85 per cent, according to the Coney Island History

    In 1943, Cornell New York Hospital opened the city’s first dedicated premature infant station. As more hospitals began to adopt incubators and his techniques, Couney closed the show at Coney Island. He said his work was done.

    Today, one in 10 babies born in the United States is premature, but their chance of survival is vastly improved—thanks to Couney and the carnival babies.

     

  • If You Don’t Pay Child Support You Are Scum

    If you don’t pay child support, as a man, you’re a piece of shit.

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    For some dumb reason I have men message me and ask questions in frustration with their ex spouse, my first question is… are you up to date on child support? If the answer is anything other than YES, I’m done listening to you. I don’t care if your Ex is crazy, I don’t care if she spends it on herself, I don’t care if she burns the money.

    No good man will ever have a problem with giving money to a woman, he got pregnant, for the children she bore for him. At the end of the day if a woman birthed your child and now has to fight with you to help take care of that child, you are worthless and if you think you are an excuse to this post you are not. If you don’t have 100% custody or pay for child support you need to reflect long and hard. You are the problem. Period.

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    I’ve had this stupid question a lot from some of you single Fathers and I’m tired of it. STEP UP AND BE A MAN, YOU HAD THE CHILDREN, NOW TAKE CARE OF THEM.

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/TheMuscleOfDieselSellerz/

     

  • Give It Up For Nurses For A Minute

    she’s gonna kill me for this pic, but can we just give it up for nurses for a minute?

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    caty just wrapped up her fourth shift in a row. that’s around 53+ hours in four days. that’s not including the 1.5 hours she’s in the car each day. she usually doesn’t get a chance to eat lunch or even drink much water. (& she has to dress like a blueberry.. i mean, come on). she is so good at what she does that she often forgets how to take care of herself while she’s taking care of her patients.

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    this pic is from a night back in july where she came to my house after a particularly hard day. she delivered a stillborn. have you guys ever really thought about what a labor & delivery nurse sees? they see great joy in smooth deliveries & healthy moms & babies. they see panic & anxiety when a new mom is scared. they see fear when a stat c-section is called. they see peace when the mom has support from her family – bc not all new moms do. they see teenagers giving birth. they see an addicted mom give birth to a baby who is withdrawing. they see cps come. they see funeral homes come. did you know that they have to make arrangements for the funeral home to come pick up the baby? i didn’t either.

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    caty (& all other nurses) – you are SPECIAL. you bless your patients & their families more than you will ever know. thank you for all that you do. 💛✨

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  • Hip Dysplasia Awareness

    Raise awareness for Hip dysplasia

    Please like and share as we want to help parents who this could affect as we have been through what was one of the more severe cases as it was picked up so late.

    Summary she was diagnosed at 2 years 4 months after being told by the doctors it was just a toddler limp, well we went back again and finally they referred her she had and X-ray and was told neither of her hips were in socket. ( full dislocation in both hips)

    How did it get left so long? well she had her usual checks, never missed any and she was always on time with crawling, walking running, climbing, she had swimming lessons once a week and did dancing also. It was only when she got tired we noticed she would start to limp but never in any pain. Their was never nothing really to notice and we thought maybe she had one leg a tiny bit longer than the other or flat feet.

    Well after she was diagnosed the reality sunk in what was next.

    1 week in hospital on traction, they tied darcey legs up to try stretch the muscles to try and manipulate them back in place in a operation which failed.

    Due to that it meant worse case scenario for us and her… 18 weeks in cast (12 weeks of that from toe to chest) with 3 more operations. 1 op to put right hip in place,after 6 weeks another on left hip, another 6 weeks op to change cast and check for damage and change position of legs.

    It has all been successful and darcey finally had her casts taking off yesterday to learn to walk, crawl and move again

    She has to still wear night splint for 6 weeks but we are in full recovery mode now.

    I do appreciate there are a lot worse things out there but this is a post if any parents need help, guidance and support if you are going through this same thing, we do have a lot of tips and tricks to help you.

    Please like and share for awareness

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/ukdaddydoes/

     

  • One Day You Won’t Have To Stand In The Wet And Cold

    In 10 years time I won’t have to get up at 8am on a Sunday morning.

    I won’t have to wash muddy sports kits or make sure both boots are in the bag or that we have water bottles, water proofs and shin pads.

    I won’t be needed as the worlds proudest cheerleader for 2 hours plus every weekend.

    I won’t be fiercely shouting at the opposition (Footy mums you know you do this too!)

    That time will pass in a heartbeat just like the last 10 years have and in no time my weekends will be my own again

    Until that day comes I am happy to give up any amount of my time and I fully intend to be the constant cheerleader, kit manager, chauffeur, water carrier and the loudest voice on the sideline – whether they like that or not 🤣

    For the parents with the wet feet and windswept hair who are on the touchline come rain or shine or flipping snow cheers from me 🥂☔️❄️☀️

    #WeOnlyDoPositive

    Courtesy Mum & Tonic

  • How These Children Were Woken From Inevitable Death

    In 1922 the scientists went to a hospital ward with diabetic children, most of them comatose and dying from diabetic keto-acidosis. This is known as one of medicine’s most incredible moments. Imagine a room full of parents sitting at the bedside waiting for the inevitable death of their child. The scientists went from bed to bed and injected the children with the new purified extract – insulin. As they began to inject the last comatose child, the first child injected began to awaken. Then one by one, all the children awoke from their diabetic comas. A room of death and gloom became a place of joy and hope.

    In the early 1920s Frederick Banting and Charles Best discovered insulin under the directorship of John Macleod at the University of Toronto. With the help of James Collip insulin was purified, making it available for the successful treatment of diabetes. Banting and Macleod earned a Nobel Prize for their work in 1923.

    Article credit https://www.facebook.com/flashbak/

    Photo Credits- Library and Archives Canada. Via Diabetes Hope Foundation