BackstageBambi’s webcam video August 9, 2011 10:07 AM.
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Response for SortedFood (BTW I am russian) ( but i do not like Borsht) 🙂
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Warning To Expectant Mums Not To Sleep On Their Backs
3 years ago I had a little boy who was far to precious for earth and he was born sleeping 💔 I was 39 weeks and 3 days pregnant, a couple of months after it happened I did a research interview with a nurse who was comparing live pregnancies to those who was stillborn to see if they could find anything to help prevent stillbirths in other woman, well I got the results in the post today and I’m delighted to say they have managed to find something 🙌🏻❤️
Basically woman who sleep on there backs in the last 12 weeks of pregnancy are twice as likely to have a stillbirth then women who sleep on there sides, they’ve made a massive campaign on it it’s called Tommy’s #sleeponside campaign similar to count the kicks, all very small things to do in your pregnancy but can make a massive Difference! My son didn’t pass away because of the way I slept or anything like that, he passed away because I have blood that’s prone to blood clots and the blood flow to my placenta wasn’t working, but regardless they’ve interviewed thousands of woman and they’ve obviously found something ❤️ so please please all my lovely pregnant friends listen to your Midwife’s and doctors there not doing it to nag or moan there doing it for you and your little bundle of joy ❤️ let’s bring the number of stillbirths down because it shouldn’t be as high as it is ❤️💙🤱🏼👶👣
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Parents Warning About Olbas Oil
⚠️ Olbas Oil ⚠️
I wanted to share my rather daft story with you as I always have a bottle of this knocking around as a nice ‘natural’ medicine for colds and sniffles. I sprinkle it on the kids pillows or a tissue, or in a bowl of water to breathe in and I had no idea until now that it’s actually quite dangerous.
After a week of sleepless nights, I climbed into bed bed last night and reached (in the dark) for my bottle of ‘cough drops’, put 3 drops on my tongue and immediately realised I had picked up the olbas oil by mistake.
I had a drink of water and had a quick courtesy look at the back of the bottle just to check I hadn’t accidentally poisoned myself, turns out I had.
A 2 minute reassurance call to NHS direct later and I ended up spending the night in hospital hooked up to an ECG and being treated as a toxicology patient – all for 3 tiny drops into an adult. Apparently it’s quite high up on the list of bad things to be swallowing, I wasn’t even allowed to drive myself to hospital.

Parents Warning About Olbas Oil I’m absolutely fine, apart from being even more tired than I was 🤪 but I wanted to share my tale of stupidity as in 10 years of being a parent, I’ve never once thought to put it out of the kids reach.
For something that can cause eye injurires, breathing difficulties, seizures etc. if applied to eyes, noses or mouths – all it has is a tiny warning on the back. The cap isn’t child proof and it’s often something I would leave by the kids bed without a second thought.
If you have a bottle of this, please please go and put it up high and don’t leave it where small hands can get it. Please feel free to share, as I had absolutely no idea about it, same goes for things like karvol and any essential oils based products.
I wouldn’t recommend it as a nightcap 😝
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Baby Badly Burnt By Nurse
Although I have contemplated on posting this I believe it is time that our story is shared…
Roughly 24 hours after birth our healthy baby boy was taken to the nursery, by the nurse, to have his PKU test done. A heel warmer is used during a PKU test to increase capillary circulation to an infants heel which is where the labs are drawn from for the test. For whatever reason the nurse decided to put hot water in a diaper and wrap it around Dash’s foot and leg with the heel warmer. The water was so hot that it resulted in our newborn baby having 2nd and 3rd degree burns.

Baby Badly Burnt By Nurse After consults with NICU, plastics, wound care, and a burn center our perfectly healthy baby was admitted to the NICU for 6 days. He had an IV, was on morphine, Tylenol, and ibuprofen, and had to have an NG tube. After finally being discharged from the NICU we’ve had multiple follow up appointments with a plastic surgeon and at 13 days old our baby had to have a surgical debridement.
This whole situation should’ve never happened. It all took place because of an ignorant decision made by one nurse. This first time mother and father experience was taken from me and Andrew because of one nurse’s bad decision. The opportunity to breast feed my baby was taken from me because of one nurse’s bad decision. I watched my baby desat and turn blue during a feeding because he was so incoherent from the morphine he needed for pain because of one nurse’s bad decision.
If you work in healthcare I encourage you to remember that you are taking care of someone’s loved one. Although to you it may be just another day at work and another patient, to someone else that is their world, and they are trusting you to provide the utmost care.
We are very thankful that Dash is almost completely healed and, as of now, shouldn’t have any long term effects besides scarring and possibly losing his pinky toenail. Please keep us in your prayers as we continue on this journey.
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Will You Bet Your Child’s Eyesight On Your Husbands Faithfulness
In the words of one of my favorite midwives, “If you’re willing to bet your child’s eyesight on your husband’s faithfulness, then you don’t need the eye ointment.”
Let me explain. 🤓
Did you know that antibiotic ointment for your baby’s eyes at birth is normally NOT needed and is only needed IF you are positive for a STI at the time you give birth?
The fact is, most babies do not need it. If a mother knows she doesn’t have chlamydia or gonorrhea, there is no reason to routinely expose an infant to antibiotics in their first hour of life.
There are always reasons to look into routine practices.
We have to understand that anytime we interfere with physiological birth in any capacity, including but not limited to, 3rd and 4th stage of labor and newborn care — it will change how nature intended it to be. Sometimes, there is a need to intervene. But that is just the point, it should only be utilized when necessary. ⤵️
What about cesareans? If a baby is born by cesarean, then it is extremely unlikely that the baby will develop Ophthalmia Neonatorum (ON — the complication that the ointment prevents if exposed to the STI at birth). But unless denied, every cesarean-born baby in the United States is routinely given erythromycin eye ointment.
🔻 What are the facts?
The use of erythromycin eye ointment in newborns has its roots in the late 1800’s and it’s purpose was to try to prevent ON. Even then, ON resulted in blindness in only 3% of affected infants. When we take a look at that, isn’t it very concerning that in 2019 we are still using a practice that came from the late 1800’s, where such a small percentage of infants were affected over a hundred and thirty years ago?
We have to realize we have come a long way in almost 140 years.
First, antibiotics have made it possible to treat pregnant people who have sexually transmitted infections as well as any infant who contracts bacterial ON, making blindness highly unlikely in developed countries.
Does the ointment prevent other infections, like staph? Non-gonorrheal and non-chlamydial bacteria in the newborn’s eye are not dangerous and do not progress to blindness. Next we ask, is the antibiotic ointment effective?
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After the use of prophylaxis, infectious ON still occurred in 13%, 15%, and 18% of newborns treated with povidone–iodine, erythromycin, and silver nitrate, respectively.
Compared to the group that received povidone-iodine, groups that received silver nitrate and erythromycin had overall rates of pink eye that were 34% and 16% higher, respectively. Erythromycin was first introduced in 1953 and by 1968, strains of Streptococcus bacteria had developed resistance. That means 50 years ago, strains were already becoming resistant and we still routinely use this now.
What are the benefits?
1️⃣ Erythromycin prophylaxis may be helpful if the mother and her partner(s) did not receive adequate screening and treatment for gonorrhea/chlamydia during the pregnancy AND it’s not possible to test the mother at the time of birth and treat the infant as needed.
2️⃣ Erythromycin prophylaxis may help to protect a newborn from gonorrheal ON if the mother was infected after a negative screening result earlier in the pregnancy (for example, due to a partner’s infidelity).
What are the risks?
1️⃣ Adverse effects can include chemical pink eye, or eye irritation. A study in Kenya found that 13% of infants who received erythromycin developed pink eye with no evidence of infection.
2️⃣ Blurred vision could potentially interfere with bonding by disrupting early eye gazing between the newborn and parents.
3️⃣ Erythromycin is not 100% effective at preventing gonorrheal ON — it had a 20% failure rate in the past and might be less effective now due to growing resistance.
4️⃣ Erythromycin may not be effective at preventing chlamydial ON or ON from other non-gonorrheal bacteria.
What other options are there?
I’m glad you asked! ⤵️
Colostrum, or the first breast milk after the birth. Three randomized trials have looked to see if applying drops of the mother’s first breast milk into the newborn’s eyes can help to lower the risk of ON from non-chlamydial, non-gonorrheal bacteria. All three trials found that drops of the mother’s first milk can lower the risk of ON from non-sexually transmitted bacteria.
So… What do we do with all of this information? 🤰🏻
It is up to the birthing parents to discern the risk versus benefit and if they choose to safely decline the ointment, their decision should always be respected.
Today, laws in many U.S. states still mandate the use of (remember this does not mean you cannot decline. This simply means the hospital has to routinely use unless declined) erythromycin with all newborns even though the erythromycin may not be effective and even though other preventative options are available. Given the fact that other options can be used to safely prevent and treat newborn eye infections, the mandatory nature of these erythromycin state laws should be discontinued.
❗️Did you know all of the facts when your baby received the eye ointment?❗️
Did you know you had a choice in the matter and could say no? In my personal experience, it was not even offered because my doctor knew our baby was not at risk. But in the experiences I hear all the time from other people, informed consent with the erythromycin ointment is very rarely given. If it was, the care provider would give the birthing family all of these facts I’ve given here and let them decide if they want it or not.
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McDonald’s You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourselves
Well, my night took an unexpected turn! So I finished my night out, ended up in the dreaded McDonald’s queue. I couldn’t help but notice the lady in front me, all she asked for was a cup of hot water.
The member of staff told her no. I don’t know what was going through their mind but a lady, clearly homeless was asking for a basic human right; and for a multi billion pound company, for them to say no is disgusting!
My heart was shattered! So I spoke to her and told her to order what she wanted, expecting her to order everything. I was so shocked. She asked for a single cheese burger and that was it. We bought as much as we could carry so I knew she wasn’t going to be hungry.
I couldn’t just leave this lady go, she was so warming and so lovely. So I sat with her, on the cold hard floor, in the middle of winter and you know what I did? I cried my eyes out.
You know if people of Cardiff walked passed them and didn’t do anything because, financially, they weren’t in the position, I would understand. But people walked passed and laughed at them. I don’t care who you are, If this was you; and you’re reading this I hate you!
When I got to speak to them I was genuinely shocked at their story and how educated they were! So full of life and enthusiasm and they literally have nothing!
I invited polly and her mate back to my house and we all cooked enough food to feed them and their friends for the next few nights. We boxed them up and packed them in their bags.
Polly and her mate have had showers, brushed their teeth and they both said they have ever felt so appreciated in their life.
I’m no saint, but this small act of kindness cost me about £20. I know 90% of people reading this will earn about 10 times that a day.
It costs nothing to be kind, and I genuinely hope people share this to raise awareness of homelessness throughout the UK!
Me and polly have chatted on the phone and I’ve promised her that she will never go hungry or cold again! I’ve given her blankets, pillows and a back pack full of food.
If you see someone on the streets, don’t look down on them like they’re nothing. You don’t know what they’ve been though! spare a little thought!
I don’t cate if I look like shit cause I’m crying!
Polly, you’ve changed me! ❤️❤️❤️
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Vidcon 2011 Episode 4 – Toby Turner, Sortedfood, iJustine, Is it a good idea to microwave this
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Don’t Avoid Me Just Because I Wear A Muzzle
Dear children and parents-
This is Jinxx. She is a one year old rescue agility dog who also wears a *muzzle* in order to enjoy a free and happy life.
This is because she has a sensitive stomach. Jinxx was starved as a puppy, resulting in a very delicate digestive system, and also no self control when it comes to food (I use the term ‘food’ very loosely!).
This is the only reason she wears a muzzle. She is not aggressive to people or dogs. She is not reactive. She is not a biter. She is a foodie, and I cannot afford hundreds of £s in vet bills every week for drugs and pumps. So she wears a muzzle.
The other day, whilst walking Jinxx and our three other dogs, children walking to school saw her (on a lead) and screamed at her, jumped and ran away from her. As you can imagine, this was quite distressing for our dogs. We also encountered parents yanking their children away from her. No wonder over a third of children in the UK are scared of dogs!
The silly thing that I noticed was that people are not scared of an unmuzzled dog, and yet will scream in the face of a muzzled dog. Surely, an unmuzzled dog will do more damage than a dog who has a barrier over their teeth?
Anyway, my request to parents is to please educate your children that a muzzled dog cannot hurt them, and that a muzzled dog is not always muzzled for aggression.
Of course there are irresponsible dog owners who will not muzzle their aggressive dogs, but I like to think for the most part that dog owners are responsible, compassionate people who care for not only their dogs but also the people and animals around them.
To end this post on a lighter note, thank you to all of the dog owners who we have encountered who allow Jinxx (and her brothers) to have a play with their own dogs 🐕 🐾
If you see us out and about, feel free to ask for a pet of one of our dogs. You can identify Jinxx from her big ears, and the gold coloured muzzle she wears. Thank you.
[TL;DR not all muzzled dogs are aggressive so teach your children not to scream in their faces.]
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After The Lose Of Our Babies We Want To Bless Other Parents
OUR STORY!
On August 29th of 2019, at 9 weeks pregnant, my wife and I found out that we should not just be excited to be pregnant with our second baby, but also our third! Brooke and I shared a look that we will never forget; A look of complete shock, an incredible amount of excitement, and being slightly scared. We soon after found out that it was in fact a mono/mono twin pregnancy.
This type of pregnancy is very high risk due to her fertilized embryo splitting later than most, and creating both beautiful babies in one amniotic sac and each sharing a placenta. With both twins being in the same sac and not having a barrier between them, the risk of cord entanglement was great. We had sonograms done every week and every week we prayed everything would be good with our girls.
One week down meant one week closer to the day that we would hit the magic 24 week mark which was a mark that meant the babies were officially “viable”. On the morning of November 6th, we arrived at our specialist appointment. As soon as the sonogram flashed on the screen and we looked up, we both could see that there was no heartbeat for either of our children. With complete devastation, broken hearts, and red eyes, we walked to our car and drove home to a place that now felt like it was missing something.
We hugged our 19 month old, Connor, held him tight, and cried some more. The following day, after being put into labor at the hospital, my amazing wife gave birth to our twin girls, Audrey and McKenna. They both weighed slightly more than 8 ounces and fit into the palms of my hands. They did not look how you expect your twins to look, but they were beyond stunning to us.
Fast forward to the next few days after being discharged from the hospital, and we got the privilege of being able to pick up our girls from the funeral home and bring them to where they would rest, our home here in Midlothian. I am a full time firefighter/paramedic but own a custom woodworking shop as a side business. I built our girls a maple and bolivian rose wood box and it struck my wife and I that this could be where our daughters make a difference.
The prices of urns at a funeral home and online, range from around $85 to as expensive as you can imagine. Just another ask of someone who feels as though they have already lost so much. With that said, the Audrey and McKenna foundation will build, personalize, and ship, hand-crafted, hardwood cremation boxes completely free of charge to a family in need who has lost a child from gestation to the age of 5, in the last six months.
We are setting up meetings and working with hospitals local, and eventually across the country, to get our boxes into the hands of those in need. We hope to increase the ways we give as the years come, but feel as though this is where we are destined to start. The costs of the material for the boxes and getting them to the family will be paid for using donations from incredible people like you! All craftsmanship hours on the boxes and any small items that we make for gifts as a way to increase donations, will be completely volunteered and in no way will we ever be compensated financially.
We strive to bless as many families as possible as the years come, and with your help, we can give a baby lost, a cremation box that their parents are proud of. If you would like to donate, you can through PayPal with this link (May charge us a fee which is perfectly ok!) https://www.paypal.me/AudreyAndMckenna OR Venmo by searching @AudreyAndMcKenna THANK YOU!!