Tag: alone

  • Ladies Stop Being So Weak You Got This

    I want everyone who’s out there crying over a man to read this.

    I was diagnosed stage 3 of breast cancer when I was six months pregnant with my son, my life changed forever after that❗ After my son was born his dad walked right out my life, He didn’t give two fucks that I was dying, 😓 he had more important things he had in mind as far as his life.

    I had only had my son home for a week… could only hold him with my left arm because I had my breast removed TWO DAYS BEFORE. I could barely feed him but I DID IT…I could barely change him BUT I DID it… yes I cried… yes I screamed… I BEGGED god 🙏🏼 to not let me go through all this at one time…but I had to fight it!

    I could barely feed my damn self. I almost didn’t make it through the first week. But look at me now 6 weeks on still fighting, still breathing and still being an amazing um to my awesome son. If I can do it with nobody by my side I sure as hell know you women can also!

    Stop being so weak. Stop letting people see you guys go crazy over someone who DOESNT give a damn about u! I had to deal with my man leaving me not caring I barely had much time left. But it’s okay! Shit happens! Stay strong! Because now I’m smiling and almost done with radiation and will have both of my breasts back soon. The crying is over! I’ve never felt stronger in my life.

    Be strong ladies, be brave and most importantly be the best mum you can be, you got this girl.

    Written by the amazingly strong Bianca Rodriguez

    To share your story or raise awareness please email us at mumsadviceltd@outlook.com

  • When You Leave Your “Baby” In the Car Alone

    Zoe Jones took to Facebook to share her hilarious misunderstanding with the police and it had us creasing with laughter.

    Jones said “Omfg!!! 😲 Just had a knock on the door and I opened it thinking it was the postman with my parcel I’ve been waiting for and to my surprise it was 4 police men and a women!! 👮‍♀️ 👮‍♂️

    They asked me how long I’d been home an if I could open my car for them 🤔 I shit myself and got my keys and opened the door for them. They then asked why I would leave a newborn baby in the car on its own so I explained my baby was 5 years old now an I had just dropped him to school with his 2 older sisters 😐 but then one of the officer reached in and pulled a baby car seat out and said this baby 👶 I automatically laughed but the police woman didn’t find it funny and said that it was an offence to leave a baby unattended 🙈 I quickly reached into the car seat an unwrapped the “baby” out of its blanket to show them that it was tess’s (my daughter) reborn that she had left in there 😂🙈 these kids will be the death of me ai 🤣🙃”.

    When You Leave Your "Baby" In the Car Alone
    When You Leave Your “Baby” In the Car Alone

    The post has since been shared over ten thousand times and received hundreds of comments all who find it funny, but wonder how the police or passer bys could mistake a doll for a baby

     

  • I Nearly Lost Custody Over A Silly Mistake

    Jackie Lilley of Maldon Essex nearly lost custody of her little boy Brayli for one silly mistake.

    Brayli aged 21 months had just been picked up from nursery by his mother Jackie, 24.
    Brayli was tired and cranky but Jackie still had errands to run, the tired toddler had fallen asleep in his car seat.

    Jackie had to pick up Her medication from the local pharmacy before it closed.
    Jackie made a big mistake she decided to leave Brayli asleep in his car seat and run into the pharmacy, after all she would only be gone for a matter of minutes.

    Jackie knew he could come to no harm, he was in plain sight, strapped in his car seat and fast asleep and it was not a hot day.

    Little did she know a PCO was walking past and spotted the child, he jotted down her number plate and searched for the mother whilst radioing into report it.

    Jackie pleaded her case to the community officer and after giving him her details she was able to leave, still in shock she drove home.

    Jackie thought that was the end of it, but social services called, to check up on the welfare of Brayli, she was asked multiple questions and felt scared, she was warned not to leave her child alone in the car even for a minute.

    Although there is no written law stating what age a child can be left alone if those in power deem it unsafe or neglectful you run the risk of losing your child.

    Jackie wants to warn other parents to never leave their child in the car, even though it can be a hassle to unbuckle them or have grumpy children or temper tantrums, it is not worth the risk of losing your child or being in big trouble.

  • He’s 10 and Independant 

    I am raising my child how I choose too.

    I want my son to be independent and a social butterfly.

    I do not need to be told I am wrong because he is not your child.

    My son is 10 he is free to eat what he wants, go where he wants and sleeep when he wants.

    Do other parents really have a right to tell me I am wrong?

    Today my son travelled 3 miles to a skate park and got himself a McDonald’s at 9am this morning.

    I received a call from my son at 1pm to say that parents kept asking where his mother was.

    Why ask my son? He was not in trouble or in danger!

    Anyway he arrived home at 4 and was visibly upset that these so called parents had threatened to contact social services, because he was unsupervised and looked unkept.

    Come on seriously why would he put on good clothes to go to a skate park.

    So please keep your words to yourself, my child my choice.