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  • If You Don’t Wish Me A Happy Birthday You’re a ****

    So today is all about me. Below, is what we all put on Facebook after 8pm on our Birthdays cos we like to give folks time

    Thanks tons to all that have wished me a Happy Birthday via social media, in person, by post, fax, carrier pigeon or smoke signal.

    It means a lot.

    Maybe though, we should all be more honest and finish our post like this: ⬇️

    To those who haven’t quite got around to it yet, I know you meant to but something else probably cropped up. It’s ok, I’m here all week.

    If you actually can’t be fucking arsed or don’t want to, that’s ok too. I forgive you…….Actually. No I don’t. I hope you get syphilis you absolute piece of shit.

    I mean, seriously. How long does it take to type happy birthday whilst your taking a fake shit at work? Cos let’s face it. You’re looking at your fucking phone while you’re sat on the bog anyway.

    You’ve got 48 hrs or that’s it…..we’re done, you and me.

    Fuck you 🖕

    *disclaimer.

    Not begging for Birthday wishes. Just an observation of what most people think when looking at FB Birthday wishes at 10pm……or maybe that’s just me.

    Anyway. If you wish me happy birthday. It’s appreciated.

  • Mum Cuts Nan Out Of Her Life For Feeding Her Daughter

    I would like to make others aware that you have every right to cut someone out of your baby or child’s life if they do not respect your wishes.

    Last year my daughter Olivia was with my partners mum (her nana) for the day whilst I caught up with friends for lunch.

    That evening with my daughter home I changed her nappy and noticed her poo wasn’t normal, my daughter was 5 months old at the time and exclusively fed with my breast milk, but this poo was very different.

    I contacted my mother in law and asked how my daughter had been with her and the bloody cheeky cow said “oh she was fine I gave her a little bit of my strawberry she absolutely loved it”.

    Now people may think I’m being picky but I had already stated to everyone there was no way I will allow Olivia to have any solids until after she is 6 months old due to all the issues that can be caused through early weaning.

    I told my partner that his mother was not to be anywhere near our daughter and that I was disgusted with her actions, my partner didn’t seem to understand and ultimately backed his mum.

    I have stood my ground and although to keep the peace and my partner I have allowed her to see her grandchild it will never be unsupervised ever again and I do not speak to her, yes it may be uncomfortable for all of us but she has broken all trust.

    Mums out there I want you to know that if someone breaks your wishes and especially if they put your child’s health at risk you have every right to cut ties or to put in precautionary measures.

    Your child your rules and don’t let anyone try to tell you differently