Tag: wish

  • My Nana’s Last Goal

    When my Nana was put on hospice, the nurse asked her what her goals were. She replied that she wanted to be at my wedding. They reluctantly told her they didn’t want her flying anymore (she was nearly 103 years old) and her heart was failing. I knew in my heart she was trying to hang on to get there somehow. I decided to fly to her with my wedding dress, it was unaltered and didn’t fit yet but none of that mattered. I may have lied to my entire family about where I was that weekend, and I didn’t tell my friends so I could surprise everyone with these photos. Words cannot explain how much these moments mean to me and I will cherish these memories for the rest of my life. Her smile and her laugh are forever etched in my mind and the love between us will live in my heart. This was one of the greatest days of my life. When I said goodbye to her that night, I think we both knew it would be the last time we would see each other. She grabbed my cheeks with her hands, looked me straight in the eye and said “I love you very much” and 27 days later she passed away. I am so blessed to have this be my last memory with her. She was beyond an amazing woman! I love you Nana, always and forever!

    Credit Due:

    Red Door Photography thank you for capturing this amazing day! I will cherish these photos forever.

    MW Makeup Artistry your hair and makeup skills are incredible! You are a true talent!

    Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for helping me make this possible.

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/tfoley803

  • My Nans Last Wish At 103

    When my Nana was put on hospice, the nurse asked her what her goals were. She replied that she wanted to be at my wedding. They reluctantly told her they didn’t want her flying anymore (she was nearly 103 years old) and her heart was failing.

    I knew in my heart she was trying to hang on to get there somehow. I decided to fly to her with my wedding dress, it was unaltered and didn’t fit yet but none of that mattered. I may have lied to my entire family about where I was that weekend, and I didn’t tell my friends so I could surprise everyone with these photos.

    Words cannot explain how much these moments mean to me and I will cherish these memories for the rest of my life. Her smile and her laugh are forever etched in my mind and the love between us will live in my heart. This was one of the greatest days of my life. When I said goodbye to her that night, I think we both knew it would be the last time we would see each other.

    My Nans Last Wish At 103
    My Nans Last Wish At 103

    She grabbed my cheeks with her hands, looked me straight in the eye and said “I love you very much” and 27 days later she passed away. I am so blessed to have this be my last memory with her. She was beyond an amazing woman! I love you Nana, always and forever!

    Credit Due:

    Red Door Photography thank you for capturing this amazing day! I will cherish these photos forever.

    MW Makeup Artistry your hair and makeup skills are incredible! You are a true talent!

    Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for helping me make this possible.

    Written by https://www.facebook.com/tfoley803

     

  • I Wish My Sick Wife Would Take Her Last Breath

    I Wish My Sick Wife Would Take Her Last Breathe

    I hate my wife, I literally hate her, I wish I had never met her, I hate that she is so ill.
    Now you may think I’m a cruel heartless man and you may well be right, but please hear me out.
    I met my wife in 2011 she was the most beautiful woman I had ever laid eyes on, we instantly hit it off and things moved quickly.

    By 2013 we were happily married with one son, it seemed like a perfect life but it was all to collapse all to soon.
    You see I love my wife but she knew she was ill when she met me, she never disclosed this to me and I have now been given a life sentence in caring for her.
    My wife finds it hard to get out of bed, she has short-term memory loss and muscle weakness, sex is something that rarely happens as my wife constantly has urine infections. 
    Yes I’m a bad guy for hating her and wishing her dead, but I’m still here, I’m still caring for her.
    I’ve given up my life, my happiness, all for a woman who couldn’t even inform me of her condition.

    When we were stood at the altar she knew what she was signing me up for.
    So here I am 26 years old caring for a four-year old and a disabled wife. 
    If I could turn back time I would have run from that church and never looked back.

    I am not ashamed, I wish she would take her last breath now and release me from this hell.

    I receive little help and have to live off of social fund, my son is missing out on so much, we cannot afford trips out or any luxuries, so I have gone from a high paid job, nice cars, fancy holidays and a good life to this, this existence, it is not a life, if she was gone me and my son would be so much better off.

    I will look after her until the day she dies, I have stood by her it doesn’t mean I have to be happy about it.

     

  • Before I Had Children

    Now you’ve all heard the saying before I had children, I never stopped to smell  flowers, I never pulled over to look at horses…

    But we have compiled the real version… the version no one tells you about  before you have children the truth .

    Sometimes with bare hands
    Or talking dogs or creatures in the night garden
    We all need chocolate
    I’m sorry for being such a bad child
    Ok maybe not
    God damn you tiny creatures
    Every bump, every cough
    Sniff test
    They weren’t really friends anyway
    My child loses a shoe every morning
    Especially if you have more than one child
    They do hold in the tummy though
    About everything!!!!
    Trampolines are a no go
    PACK IT IN!!!
    So tired!!!
    Constantly
    Please let me sleep
    Yep that’s poop
    Well a lot more often than I do now
    Boys have terrible aim
    Please baby stay on your back
    More than once

    Finger painting
    Sometimes on purpose

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