Tag: walk

  • Girls Shouldn’t Have To Walk In Fear

    We live in a world where ‘no’ means ‘convince me’.
    Where girls walk home with keys between clenched fists.
    Where a skirt defines if she’s asking for it or not.
    Where girls are slut shamed and men are seen as kings.

    When out at the club, guys respect ‘I have a boyfriend’ more than my ‘no’.
    It’s a lie, but vital for female survival.
    The bullshit we do to not get raped…
    While men are excused for the culture they create.

    “Not all guys”
    Tell that to Meagher or Dixon, oh wait, they’re dead.
    My heart bleeds for the millions of victims.
    But right now my veins burst fury red.

    Because it may be ‘not all guys’
    But it’s every fucking woman.
    Don’t tell me how to dress or when I can leave.
    Teach men how to be a decent human being. 🤬

    Artist: Roseanne ‘Dozy’ Hanson.

  • Lockdown Letter From The Dog

    LOCKDOWN LETTER FROM YOUR DOG

    Dear hoomans

    I have noticed over the past couple of weeks you have been staying in my home for extended periods of time. It is lovely having you here but I feel I should set a few ground rules. I would appreciate it if you would follow the rules whilst you are staying with me.

    1. When you do pop out you will need to take me with you.
    2. You seem to be eating lots of nice goodies whilst lazing about the house. I am entitled to a share of these. I won’t make a fuss I will just sit in front of you and quietly stare at you until I get my quota.
    3. Don’t call me for another bath, I am clean now. Just because you are bored doesn’t mean I need a wash or haircut. I suggest you go clean the metal box on wheels outside again. Daddy human has done that a few times now even though it hasn’t moved in weeks.
    4. As you are here constantly at the moment, it is your duty to let me out as often as I require. That means that even if I have just come in and want to go out again you should let me. Sometimes I miss a spot whilst sniffing about and I need to recheck.
    5. When I am asleep, leave me sleeping, this isn’t a cue for the little humans to play with me. I can also sleep where I like, I don’t expect to be woken so you can move me.
    6. Do not shhhh me when I am barking. As you are here more, my job of protecting you has increased. I have to listen out for every little noise and inform you of it in case it’s a threat.
    7. Don’t leave a room without me, I know how sneaky you guys can be. Just the other day I am sure I heard a crisp packet being opened upstairs and no one called me to share. So from now on I will be following you about.
    8. This is a very important rule. If it lands on the floor it’s MINE, if it’s in my mouth it’s MINE.
    9. You will never pee alone again, you watch me pee so I do not understand why you shut me out and close the loo door when you pee.
    10. If you do not follow these rules I will use SAD PUPPY DOG EYES TO GET WHAT I WANT !
  • Hip Dysplasia Awareness

    Raise awareness for Hip dysplasia

    Please like and share as we want to help parents who this could affect as we have been through what was one of the more severe cases as it was picked up so late.

    Summary she was diagnosed at 2 years 4 months after being told by the doctors it was just a toddler limp, well we went back again and finally they referred her she had and X-ray and was told neither of her hips were in socket. ( full dislocation in both hips)

    How did it get left so long? well she had her usual checks, never missed any and she was always on time with crawling, walking running, climbing, she had swimming lessons once a week and did dancing also. It was only when she got tired we noticed she would start to limp but never in any pain. Their was never nothing really to notice and we thought maybe she had one leg a tiny bit longer than the other or flat feet.

    Well after she was diagnosed the reality sunk in what was next.

    1 week in hospital on traction, they tied darcey legs up to try stretch the muscles to try and manipulate them back in place in a operation which failed.

    Due to that it meant worse case scenario for us and her… 18 weeks in cast (12 weeks of that from toe to chest) with 3 more operations. 1 op to put right hip in place,after 6 weeks another on left hip, another 6 weeks op to change cast and check for damage and change position of legs.

    It has all been successful and darcey finally had her casts taking off yesterday to learn to walk, crawl and move again

    She has to still wear night splint for 6 weeks but we are in full recovery mode now.

    I do appreciate there are a lot worse things out there but this is a post if any parents need help, guidance and support if you are going through this same thing, we do have a lot of tips and tricks to help you.

    Please like and share for awareness

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/ukdaddydoes/

     

  • Jenny The Famous Happy Horse

    If Your feeling down today then may be hearing about the lovely Jenny could perk you up.

    Every morning in Frankfurt, Germany, you might catch a glimpse of Jenny, a horse who goes on a long walk every morning, all by herself. She has been taking the same route every morning for 14 years, ever since her owner, now 79 years old, became unable to ride. She enjoys greeting all of the familiar faces along the way, and she stops and gets treats and pettings from some of her favorite humans. The locals treat her like a celebrity and happily clean up after her.

    A piece of paper is attached to her halter that reads, “My name is Jenny. I didn’t run away, I’m just walking. Thank you.” But the police get calls frequently from people who don’t know about the arrangement. They are very familiar with the horse and the owner, and there have been no incidents in 14 years. A local veterinarian gives her routine checkups and continues to find her to be healthy and showing no anxiety about her unique lifestyle.

    Anyone else tempted to move there just to see jenny every morning?

  • This Is What Depression Looks Like For Me

    This is what depression looks like.No. Not the clean dishes.

    But that there were that many dishes in the first place; that I’ve gone 2 weeks without doing them. 3 days ago I sat on the kitchen floor and stared at them while I cried. I knew they needed to be done. I wanted to do them so bad. But depression pulled me under. It sucked me in. Like a black hole. Rapidly, sinking quick-sand.

    I walked by them morning and night and all day long. And just looked at them. Telling myself that I could do them. Telling myself that I would. And feeling defeated everyday that I didn’t. Making the depression only that much worse because not accomplishing something that needs to be done is failure. Worthless. Failure. Piece of shit. Incompetent. Stupid. Lazy. All things that roll through the mind of someone with depression.

    All. Day. Long. Throw anxiety on top of it, and you’ve got yourself a real treat.            Being scared your husband will leave because he thinks you’re lazy. Being scared to let people into your home because they’ll think you’re nasty. Feeling like you’re failing your kids because for the 3rd night in a row you don’t have any clean dishes to cook dinner on.. so pizza it is. Again. And the worst part of it all, it’s not just with the dishes. The laundry, cleaning, dressing yourself, taking a shower, dressing your kids, brushing your and their teeth, normal everyday tasks. It all becomes a nightmare. A very daunting task.

    Somedays it doesn’t get done at all. Depression is something that “strong” people don’t talk about because they don’t want people to think they’re “weak”. You’re not weak. You’ve been strong for so long and through so many things, that your body needs a break. I don’t even care if the only thing you did today, was put deodorant on. I’m proud of you for it. Good job. I’m in your corner. I’m on your side. I’m not looking for sympathy, not in the slightest. But I am letting everyone know that I’m here for you. I get it. If you need someone to talk to, I’m always here to help.

    Full credit goes to the amazing Brittany Ernsperger

  • Heatstroke Warning For Dog Owners

    ***Heatstroke Warning for Dog Owners***

    This was posted by a vet; they have given us permission for it to be copied.

    Today a dog died of severe heat stroke – exercised at 9 o’clock in the morning. If it was a child, the parents would be convicted of man slaughter and sent to prison. The long coated dog was being exercised in the local park at 9am this morning – it was already 21˚C.

    The owners where throwing a ball for the dog. Our loyal faithful friends will still pander to our requests of going with us for a walk or fetching the ball thrown even when they are under extreme stress of excessive heat. They don’t know to self regulate, because their pack leader has instructed them to walk with them or chase a ball etc.

    I turned up to the local park to park my car and walk to work. It was in the car park that I discovered the dog with the owners next to their car, suffering from severe heat stroke. The scene was; the dog lying flat-out on his side, semi-conscious, with extreme panting.

    His mouth and tongue were swollen up and a dark red/purple colour, there was a white frothy coating of saliva, the tongue and gums being fairly dry. The owners were trying to get the dog to drink some water, but the dog was entirely unable to do so.

    His belly was distended from panting and gulping air; this in itself can then restrict breathing. I was not equipped to take the dog’s temperature, but I could feel it was dangerously high. His pulse however was unusually slow.

    I had water in my car and doused the dog’s coat down and we wetted a towel to stretcher the dog in to the car and for him to lay on in transit. The dog was not registered with my practice, so I instructed the owner to take the dog to their own vet immediately.Once I had finished my shift at work, I phoned the owner’s vet to see if they could tell me how the dog was.

    He was dead. A 5-year-old, fit and healthy dog – dead. A death that was completely preventable. I asked the vet for details explaining that I was going to write this post. They were in support as long as names weren’t mentioned.

    Names are irrelevant, as this story will be happening all over the country.The owners took the dog straight to their practice were he was treated immediately. His body temperature was just shy of 42˚C. A normal temperature range for a dog is 38.3˚C to 39.2˚C, a rise of just 1 – 2˚C can have major effects on the dog’s body systems.

    The nurses commenced cooling of the dog and the vet put him on a drip with rapid infusion of fluids and electrolytes. However, within 10 – 15 mins of being admitted the dog began to seizure. Seizures are caused when the electrical impulses in the brain misfires and cause like an electrical storm in the brain so the muscle fibres of the body rapidly twitch uncontrollably.

    In this case, the excess heat in the brain disturbs the electrical impulses. This is an added issue as the activity of the muscles then acts to increase the dog’s temperature even more. It was at this point that the vet went to gain consent to administer anaesthetic to the dog to try to reduce the seizure and lower the respiratory rate.

    But as the vet was talking to the owner, approximately 20 mins after arriving at the practice, the dog began to vomit and pass diarrhoea. The vomit and diarrhoea were full of blood. This even to the untrained reader, you can appreciate is bad news. Once this was discovered, the dog’s gums were checked and small red/black spots were present, along with areas of bleeding on the abdomen.

    At this point the vet had to return to the owners and request consent for euthanasia.The dog was suffering from disseminated intravascular coagulopathy. This is a fancy veterinary term that means the dog’s body systems was unable to clot his blood and therefore he was bleeding internally. In the veterinary world, it is nicknamed Death Is Coming. The process is not fully understood, but it is thought that the excess temperature prevents the body from performing the myriad of chemical reactions that allow it to function normally. Loosely, this causes the body to activate clotting, causing hundred of clots within the body. Once all the clotting factors are used up, the blood can no longer clot, so widespread haemorrhage ensues.

    It causes major organ failure; the kidneys, the liver, the heart and the lungs cease to function effectively. With a bit of luck, the dog is unconscious by this stage, as this must be hugely uncomfortable and a terrifying death. For all those dog owners who think this was because the dog was chasing a ball and that is why he overheated, this can happen with your dog sat in the sun in the garden.

    It can take up to 60 days for a dog to acclimatize to a change in climate. I am pretty sure 60 days ago it was pouring with rain.Once the dog becomes mildly overheated, unless they are cooled, they will continue to overheat. Dogs cannot sweat effectively and can only really lose body heat through panting. The process of panting can in itself cause excess body temperature if it is prolonged or laboured.

    So, if you think it is too hot to put a thick coat on and go for a run, don’t make your dog do the same. If you think it is too hot to sit in direct sunshine for more than a few minutes whilst wearing a woolly jumper, then don’t make your dog do so. If it is too hot to stand on the pavement with your shoe and socks off, then don’t make your dog walk on it. If you don’t want to sit in your car without the air con on even if you have all windows wound down, don’t leave your dog in the car.If you are ever in any doubt of how to care for your dog in the warm or hot weather, speak your local vet practice. Better to speak to them now than your vet speaking to you to request consent for euthanasia.”