Tag: sports

  • Why Do You Pay So Much For Your Kids To Do Sports?

    “One of my friends asked “Why do you pay so much money for your kids to do all their sports”? Well I have a confession to make; I don’t pay for my kids to do sports. Personally, I couldn’t care less about what sport they do.

    So, if I am not paying for sports what am I paying for?

    – I pay for those moments when my kids become so tired they want to quit but don’t.

    – I pay for those days when my kids come home from school and are “too tired” to go to their training but they go anyway.

    – I pay for my kids to learn to be disciplined, focused and dedicated.

    – I pay for my kids to learn to take care of their body and equipment.

    – I pay for my kids to learn to work with others and to be good team mates, gracious in defeat and humble in success.

    – I pay for my kids to learn to deal with disappointment, when they don’t get that placing or title they’d hoped for, but still they go back week after week giving it their best shot.

    – I pay for my kids to learn to make and accomplish goals.

    – I pay for my kids to respect, not only themselves, but other players, officials and coaches.

    – I pay for my kids to learn that it takes hours and hours, years and years of hard work and practice to create a champion and that success does not happen overnight.

    – I pay for my kids to be proud of small achievements, and to work towards long term goals.

    – I pay for the opportunity my kids have and will have to make life-long friendships, create lifelong memories, to be as proud of their achievements as I am.

    – I pay so that my kids can be out on the track instead of in front of a screen…

    …I could go on but, to be short, I don’t pay for sports; I pay for the opportunities that sports provides my kids with to develop attributes that will serve them well throughout their lives and give them the opportunity to bless the lives of others. From what I have seen so far I think it is a great investment!”[the_ad id=”83723″]

  • Football Mums Wouldn’t Have It Any Other Way

    If your child is currently in or has even been in a football team you may relate.

    I have two sons Harrison 11 and Elijah 7 both who are in football teams.

    My weekends are no longer my own, we have training on a Friday night and I know some poor parents in other teams train bright and early on a Saturday morning.

    Every Sunday during the coldest months of the year I am forced to get both my boys to matches some being a great distance apart, I often have to plead with other parents to take one for me and then feel immense guilt that I missed their match.

    Now I forgot to mention I have a younger child who hates football, so on a cold Sunday morning I stand in the middle of a muddy field with my daughter moaning she is cold and bored and now been forced to get her expensive horse riding lessons as compensation.

    My boys NEED not want but need the latest football boots, there are subs to pay, coffees to buy and the perk of some venues selling bacon butties, and yearly signing on fees so it can cost a fair bit, sometimes they need sponsors for new kits or want you to help with bake sales or fundraising events.

    Football Mums Wouldn't Have It Any Other Way
    Football Mums Wouldn’t Have It Any Other Way

    Now I’m painting a negative picture here, we love it (ok not my daughter) but I have no interest in football at all but seeing my eldest scoring the winning goal or my middle son making a cracking save is a huge adrenaline rush.

    I become fierce mama at the side of that small football pitch cheering my boys on and root for the entire team, it is a huge commitment but one that is worth while.

    You become a unit, the children become firm friends and the parents support each other and their children.

    So yes it’s cold, yes it’s expensive and takes over your weekends but any proud football mum wouldn’t have it any other way, so if you’re thinking of signing your child up for football be prepared to get cold and wet but feel happy and proud at the same time.