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  • Someone Please Take My Daughter Away

    Someone please take my daughter away

    I hate my daughter and I really mean it, Kirsty is 14 years old and a bleeding nightmare, she was diagnosed with ADHD 8 years ago although I don’t believe it’s an actual medical condition it’s just her being a brat.

    Kirsty and I live with my mother, Kirsty is a demon she punches, bites, swears like a drunken sailor and does nothing that she is asked to do, she constantly talks back, is rude and genuinely is not a nice person!

    She skips school, smokes, drinks and is sexually active with any boy she can get her hands on, I can’t cope with her at all.

    The school, social services and police are all involved and I’ve expressed that I don’t want her anymore yet my mum has now taken over legal responsibility for her, which means I still have to live with it!

    I am actively looking for somewhere else to live but on my income it seems impossible, I can’t wait til Kirsty grows up and moves away, all the love I used to have for her has gone and just resentment, fear and pain remains.

    This girl is not the child I loved all those years ago I am left with an ungrateful, nasty, disrespectful brat, my mum is just as bad to stand by her, she ultimately has chosen a nasty, manipulative, rude girl over her hard-working loving daughter.

    Kirsty will never amount to anything she will either be pregnant young and waste her life or more than likely have it taken away from her, I would not be surprised if she ended up in prison, she is the type of person that I would cross the street to avoid she has no hope, just a life of disaster and pain is in her future.

    Don’t tell me I’m an awful person to say this about my own daughter but you do not know her you do not see the pain she causes me, does anyone know a way to take the custody away from my mother or a way to have her removed from the house?

    Emailed in by Destiny (surname is to remain anonymous)

  • We Can Help Paramedics With One Simple Act

    Finally a post goes viral for all the right reasons,

    The original writer of this is unknown but the message is still very clear, and we have to say we 100% agree with him or her.

    “While I sat in Greg’s drinking my brew and eating my sandwich 2 paramedics who were obviously taking a chance to grab A quick bite between call outs came in and joined the queue waiting to get their morning breakfast and cuppa.

    Just as they got to the till they got a shout on the radio.

    They both laughed at each other and said we never wanted one anyway.

    They both rushed out to help someone, possibly even save a life, or live’s.

    Now I am only assuming this but I would have thought that those 2 paramedics have one of the most important jobs in the world and everyone else in the queue this morning was going to work, waiting for the shops to open or like me just having a quick brew to keep warm.

    Now here is a thought what if we use this social media thing and get people and companies to allow paramedics and all other emergency services to jump the queue and get served as soon as they come in, so they stand half a chance of a drink and food before they go on their day helping people.

    Can all my friends and there friends share this post so it may reach the big companies and other people who just might give their spot in the queue.

    I myself would always stand back and let them go in front of me after all their next shout may god forbid could be me or someone I know or I love”.

    Lets all let not only paramedics but any emergency service workers go ahead of us, after all they are the ones we call upon at our most vunerable times

     

  • Social Services Have Taken My Heart I Want My Baby Back

     

     

    Kerry Blackaller is currently going through hell her little angel her only daughter has been removed from her care and she is fighting to get her back.

    Blackaller said “Well since 8 this morning I’ve been trying to find the right words. This is the best I could do. 11 months ago today was the happiest day of my Life. You completed me finally after all these years. Some time passed in that time we passed I lost my battle to keep you with me. Please believe me it was not my fault I did everything in my power.

    Unfortunately the system let me and you both down. Since you’ve been gone I still have fought for you every day. My days have been bad but this day has hit me like a ton of bricks. Every month you was a month older we always used to do something. This month we can’t 💔 furthermore I’m now realising its only one month away until your first birthday and I’m dreading that day coming.

    Social Services Have Taken My Heart I Want My Baby Back
    Social Services Have Taken My Heart I Want My Baby Back

    Lyla baby my life is just not the same without you here. I don’t want to get up in the mornings, The fight I have left in me is minimal, but of course for you I’m not giving up and still somehow going. You are the only reason right now that I breathe. What I would give to hear a silly little cry or a moan or the smell of a stinky nappy.

    To just feel your presence and your arms around my neck, your head on my chest, your hands in mine, to hear the most amazing sound of all that beautiful laugh of yours, to feel your heart beat next to mine, to see the worlds most captivating smile, to feel the most beautiful skin I’ve ever felt, most of all the best sound I have ever heard in my life, you in the morning rocking the cot and calling MUM. I have deep trouble accepting the fact that your gone. How you’ll now call

    Someone else mum, how I won’t get to see you flourish and grow anymore, your 1st day at nursery, then big girl school, to know if your hurt or sad, jobs, friends, boyfriends, prom, career, for the rest of my life this will eat me alive. But I promise as long as you ok and smiling I will deal with it and wait for

    You to come and find me to make it up to you and show you all I done. I really hope you understand I done what I could. You have made me the happiest and proudest mum in the world. Every minute and second I spent with you was the best time of my Life.

    While I sit and write this with tears streaming down my face there’s still this smile that is permanently stuck there to my face and heart because of you. For this I thank you and I will cherish it all until I see you again. I miss and love you so much it hurts, and makes my heart skip beats. There’s not a single day that goes by that I don’t hurt, or think about you and smile, that I don’t smell or hear your infectious laugh. Not a day that I can’t wait to have you back in my arms. Or a day I wish I could turn back time, most of all not a day goes by where I don’t pray to have you back and that your safe and happy.

    Social Services Have Taken My Heart I Want My Baby Back
    Social Services Have Taken My Heart I Want My Baby Back

    Please god keep my baby safe and happy. Let her grow into all she can be. Let her know I’m here not giving up. I promise mummy will think about u and cherish every moment of you every day. I promise I will always be here. You’ve given me feelings I never knew existed. Until we meet again.. I have to say bye and god only knows how I’m going to do that. I love you more than any words could ever comprehend. Not only because you’re my daughter but you was my best friend too. And Forever that will remain. My whole 🌎 my ❤️ beat. My baby 👶🏼 mummy’s 👸🏼 forever and always 👩‍👧 💜💕💔💔💔💔”.

    if you are able to help Blackaller who is trying to raise funds for legal fees

    https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/kerry-blackaller?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Yimbyprojectpage&utm_content=kerry-blackaller&utm_campaign=projectpage-share-owner&utm_term=X6NnxzweD

     

     

  • Social services have bullied and victimized me-Bring my baby home

    My 2-year-old son with special needs was removed last week after a desperate fight to keep him at home . All I ask is that you support me in my quest to have Levi returned home immediately . I need  the community, family and friends to work with me in helping make this happen.

     
    My little boy Levi is partially non verbal he says 3 words and was making sounds to try to say more. He has mild hearing difficulties but did not allow audiology to complete all the tests as he was fearful of the equipment they put in his ears. 

    As a lone mother I always made his health my priority never-failing to meet his needs. 
    Social services are saying that he has failed to meet his communication milestones but what they failed to mention was this was the other area he needed to work on and that his gross motor and mobility skills were fine . 

    Levi is under pediatric at RBH we were due to be issued a portage worker that would teach me and Levi Makaton sign language to improve our communication through the use of visual cards. We were also recommended a social group by Peads with special needs children so he could meet other young children similar to himself to help improve his confidence . I thought this was a fantastic idea and couldn’t wait for this to begin .

     
    Social services have bullied and victimized me . They tried to remove Levi before I had a chance to obtain any legal representation . They FAILED at their countless attempts to remove Levi then maliciously put false information in front of the judge that I hadn’t let in welfare professionals resulting in the third time them succeeding in the removal of Levi .

     
    I have frantically been contacting out of hours social services in hope that I would be given updates on my sons wellbeing but had no success.

    Dismally Levi’s health is deteriorating at his foster placement he has a cold and by the sounds of It a chest infection 😢The foster carer does not have his medical details and hasn’t taken Levi to the GP . 

    The handover did not happen as it should have and the foster carer has no details on Levi’s likes and dislikes, allergies or medical records which is appalling as Levi has special needs . She also does not have his red book or medical notes / letters . 

    Local authority should be ashamed of themselves . 

    My social worker told me that contact was not happening yesterday then abruptly hung up the phone . 

    I still arrived half an hour early and was told I was not allowed to take pictures on my mobile but could use the digital camera they provided . 

    The foster carer brought Levi 10 mins late and I was told this could not be made up due to room availability . 

    I dressed Levi up in his Halloween costume ghost 👻 and enjoyed cuddles . 

    I am really worried about his health as the foster carer wrote that she needed more details on likes and dislikes . I assume he was hungry as he was trying to pick the crumbs out the carpet . 💔 I miss him so much already I can’t wait for our reunion at contact on Thursday . Keep strong little man .

    Emotionally I’m breaking down, I’m finding it difficult eating and staying positive . 

    I am attending all appointments. 

    I went to the GP the other day and had concerning results back on my blood test

    My body is struggling to fight with the stress since mine and Levi’s separation . The doctor told me the results were concerning and he hadn’t seen such high levels in my thyroid results . My anxiety is rocketing sky-high and I feel powerless . Me and Levi are being targeted and discriminated daily.

    To follow Levi’s fight take a look here https://www.facebook.com/Bring-Home-Levi-Chapman-138208093569708/