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I Did Not Make A Baby For My Mother To Raise

I DID NOT MAKE A BABY FOR MY MOTHER TO RAISE!

So no you won’t find me at every party every weekend🙅💃

No I can’t meet up for drinks.🍺🍷🙅

No I can’t go away for a weekend unless I’m able to bring my baby along.🚗🎒👶

This is MY BABY & MY RESPONSIBILITY.💯

And don’t tell me I’m missing out on my youthful days😴😴there will ALWAYS be another party to attend but I’ll never get a another chance to watch my baby take her first step , or see her first smile , or be there to hear her say her first word.🗣😍

I’ll rather lose all my friends than to lose out on being a great mother to my child. 😊❤

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October 21, 2019
I Sucked Ass At Being A Mum Today

I sucked ass at being a mom today. Some days, I feel like I’m not doing a good job at this mom thing. Because it’s so fucking hard. I know, I know, it’s always worth it, and I love my kids. But man, when did it get so hard?

Today I yelled too much at them, they watched too much tv, I fed them pasta, which they glazed over, picking out most of the nutrients.

I yelled at them to stop yelling (funny huh?), I told my son to stop calling his sister “poopy head” at least thirty times today. Something I never thought I would be doing. ⁣

As I write this caption, I am sitting on my bedroom floor. Hiding. Trying to get a moment of silence. It’s so hard some days. And I know I’m not alone.

There’s no “silver lining” to this post.

Being a mom is fucking hard.

That’s all.

Everyday, I tell myself “tomorrow! Tomorrow will be the day I don’t yell. Tomorrow will be the day I talk calmly all day to them. Tomorrow will be the day they won’t fight with each other. Tomorrow. Tomorrow will be better. Easier.” ⁣

And whenever I lay them down to bed at night, I look at those beautiful souls I created and think “how could I ever be so mad at them?” It’s a routine I have had for the past few years now.

Being a mom is fucking hard. And I suck at it a lot of the time. But that’s okay, because I’m trying my best to raise good, kind, decent, loving human beings, in a world so cold. ⁣

There’s no way that’s going to be easy.

Keep going mama, we got this. Even if we fucking suck some times.

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September 23, 2019
Parents Need To Be Aware Of This!

Sian Rachael Ball is desperate to make other parents aware and to be vigilant and know the signs of the thing that made her son ill.

Ball said “For all other mums, I’ve worked in a few nurseries and school and have never heard of this. My son got sick on Sunday (it’s now Wednesday) he was sick and had this rash on his legs. Took him to the doctors only to be told they didn’t know what it was, probably just a skin infection, They gave him antibiotics And was told he could go back to school. Next day at school he has come out crying and had to be carried all the way home because he couldn’t walk! School forced him to sit down even when he said he was in pain! (Will be speaking to them tomorrow) took straight to the hospital and been diagnosed with henoch scholein purpura (hps) he will now have to have his kidneys tested for the next 12 months as it’s in the same category as meningitis!

Apparently more common in boys and common in the ages of 2-10 years.im posting the information as this can just happen to any child! And feel like this should be known to parents just as much as meningitis! Now have a very poorly son that has many doctors appointments to attend and off school of up to 6 weeks. but luckily we got a second opinion!

For more information look here https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/henoch-schonlein-purpura-hsp/

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March 19, 2018