Tag: physical

  • Once He Wins Your Heart, Then He Can Play Games

    When he treats you like a queen

    Says his never loved anyone more than you

    Buys you expensive presents

    You end up falling for him too

    It’s not until his got your heart

    That he starts to play his games

    You don’t realise it at the time

    Not until it is too late

    It’s a slow and gradual process

    He makes you doubt things you supposedly said

    He tries to stop you going out

    And says it’s because he cares

    You soon begin to feel lonely

    Your friends and family drifting away

    You got me, you don’t need them

    Is what he might often say

    Once his got you on his own

    His behaviour will get worse

    You don’t know where the man you met went

    After his first violent outburst

    If you go to up and leave

    He will cry plead and beg

    He will use emotional blackmail

    And get inside your head

    It will never happen again he says

    He promises to change

    Things go back to being good

    But his made you feel afraid

    His great for a while

    Till he doesn’t get what he wants

    He puts you down and calls you names

    Then makes out it’s your fault

    The violent outbursts start again

    They become a regular thing

    If anyone asks if you’re ok

    You cover up and lie for him

    This is just an outline

    Of what abusive people are like

    Just remember it’s not you’re fault

    And that there is light

    You are strong and you’re beautiful

    You are better off without him

    There is help out their to free your self

    Speak out and let people in

    It may take a while to recover

    And even longer to trust again

    Surround your self with positive people

    That can help you as you mend

    You will miss the happier times

    And the man you thought he was and could be

    It’s ok to shed your tears

    You are allowed to grieve

    You can do this believe in yourself

    You will come out stronger than ever

    And there will come a day where you will never look back

    Because you are a true survivor