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  • If You Don’t Pay Child Support You Are Scum

    If you don’t pay child support, as a man, you’re a piece of shit.

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    For some dumb reason I have men message me and ask questions in frustration with their ex spouse, my first question is… are you up to date on child support? If the answer is anything other than YES, I’m done listening to you. I don’t care if your Ex is crazy, I don’t care if she spends it on herself, I don’t care if she burns the money.

    No good man will ever have a problem with giving money to a woman, he got pregnant, for the children she bore for him. At the end of the day if a woman birthed your child and now has to fight with you to help take care of that child, you are worthless and if you think you are an excuse to this post you are not. If you don’t have 100% custody or pay for child support you need to reflect long and hard. You are the problem. Period.

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    I’ve had this stupid question a lot from some of you single Fathers and I’m tired of it. STEP UP AND BE A MAN, YOU HAD THE CHILDREN, NOW TAKE CARE OF THEM.

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  • Give Working Mums Support To Pay Child Care For Children Between Birth – 3yrs

    Give working mums support to pay child care for children between birth – 3yrs

    Why should those who are unemployed be given free child care and not parents who ae already working, now we aren’t against the unemployed but we do not think it is fair parents who have or get a job should not be able to receive free child care places or at least a deduction.

    Parents who are already in receipt of free childcare have this taken away if they find a job and earn above a certain threshold.

    Two parent families have found that the mum is unable to return to her job as the childcare costs are far too steep, people are not able to better themselves or their child’s life due to the extortionate prices of child care.

    One such mum has set up a petition in the hopes that the government may rethink their childcare plan and make changes to help working families.

    Sami Austin said on her petition “I am a new working mum and I can not believe how expensive child care is, working on the national minimal wage how are mums able to work to cover child care costs when it takes over 3/4 of their wage. Why penalize the people who WANT to work”.

    If you agree with Sami why not sign the petition below

    https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/220162

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  • Bride Runs Off Without Paying For Dress

    Here we go , the photos of the bride who run away without paying the rest for her wedding dress.

    This was the most time-consuming dress I ever made , very difficult structure.

    I never gave any of my dresses or cots away without full payment. For the first time I decided to take the dresses to the hotel night before so I could have some rest, press the dresses . As I said dress was very difficult and heavy , didn’t want to rush in the morning. The father of the bride reassured me he will pay the rest of the money about 35% left when I bring the dresses ( I made mother of the bride outfit also.)

    The bride and her mum was keep saying there is nothing to worry , I will get paid , her dad is very busy and on his way to pay me etc Everything changed when the dresses was on , rude drunken attitude from the father, threatening , sisters were pushing me trying to get bride through , waving with the money to my face trying to get me out of my room ( I dress bride in our hotel room ) . I never had such experience in my life , it was scary , couldn’t stop crying. Father jump on me and drug her veil out of my hands , screaming and insulting me and my husband. I don’t want to go into any further details , it was horrible ! they left easy after to celebrate their wedding .😥😥😥

    Also as I found out this morning they said Crystal’s wedding dress was made by Thelma …

    So many sleepless nights was spent on this dress to make the bride dream come true, they called me her ” fairy God mother ” , people who knows me have good idea how hard I work to make every dress to perfection. Was absolutely shocked to get this attitude in the end ..

    It wasn’t only me who was let down that morning , hairdresser and make up artist Ginas Thompson didn’t get pay at all for all their hard work , they did 11 girls from 4am after 4.5hrs drive. I think this is absolutely unacceptable 😥😥😥

    Full credit: Anna Sanders

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  • Child Maintenance Service Is It Failing

    Child Maintenance Service Is It Failing

    The child support agency (csa) has nearly completely changed to the child maintenance service (cms).

    There was promises of huge changes and improvements with this service, but many parents feel nothing has improved and they are still very much out-of-pocket.

    One mum said

    “Really starting to give up 😢why are they letting these dads not face there responsibilities it’s so wrong and not fair on us mums!😠”

    Another mum took to social media to rant about the injustice of the whole system and how the non-resident parent can lie and get away with it.

    “Got a letter in the post today. Yearly review. Kids so-called dad has finally declared an income to HMRC £32.40 a week. WOW I mean WOW. What’s that like just over 4hrs a week at minimum wage he is getting away with declaring? He is self-employed and earning way more than that but can still buck the system. Let’s see if January 18th he makes the 1st payment I’m guessing I will never see a penny in my life from him”

    The child maintenance service can work if the non-resident parent is employer or honest, if he is employed the service can take money directly from his wages or bank account.

    Mums and dads who are self-employed are however fiddling the system and claiming they earn less than they do.

    One mum we spoke to said her ex is a self-employed taxi driver the mum knows he works a minimum of 60 hours a week but he claims he only earns £65.60 a week, which is impossible and is even more infuriating when he has had a full sleeve tattoo done, been on three holidays last year and manages to go out drinking at least 4 times a month, yet she only receives £7 a week in payments for two children and cms takes a percentage of that for themselves.

    Not only are they dodging their financial parental responsibilities but screwing over the tax man, little seems to be done about this though and parents are left feeling frustrated and helpless.

    When parents have contacted the cms they are told there is nothing they can do their ends and the parent is to prove that their ex is earning more, many people have complained about the child maintenance service and feel that many of the employees are incompetent and lack the resources to actually deal with their claim.

    Have you had a bad experience with the csa or cms? We would love to hear from you