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  • A Caesarean Is A Lifelong Disability

    Something we all should know ❤

    A Caesarean section is a lifelong disability from the birth of a child until the death of a mother.
    Many people often passes remarks like, “Oh, Caesar’s pain is nothing but only cuts the stomach !!
    But let me tell you that the baby has to be brought into the world by cutting the 8 curtains of our body. Yes, maybe the feeling of cutting the abdomen is not understood coz of anesthesia before a caesarean section but within half an hour,
    3 hours of saline are over.
    This spinal injection injected into the spine through a thick syringe causes lifelong pain in the back of the woman..
    The next 24 hours brings immense pain, that kind of pain where u feel somebody has chopped one of your body part but had not applied medicine but yes, it’s endurable after surviving that pain for 48 hours.
    First 24 hours you cant even turn yourself on bed, forget about walking by yourself for washroom!
    Believe me, when the retirement period of anesthesia is over, you have to squirm like a hen with a cut throat.
    24 saline is given in 24 hours and there is no need for me to say what is the pain in the injection site, when they puncture both your hands one by one with the saline syringe.
    Canola saline is running in her hand, Catheter’s frozen body is trembling in the urinary tract.
    And still with all these struggles, we have to breastfeed the new born baby and smile at the Relatives and on top of it listen to the 100 uninvited advise people and relatives around.
    So, I want to ask people who age this mindset that a Woman who brings the baby to the world through C-section has no indepth connection with her child like the women who do “Normal vaginal birth” have with their newborns.
    Really?

    You know sometimes long after the child birth we are tired and irritated, sometimes we can’t get up immediately from sitting,
    we can’t bend and pick up the child,
    We can’t lift heavy things,
    We can’t walk for long,
    We can’t stand in ques,
    As the back hurts bad !!!

    But still we do everything,
    We have to because we are born as “Woman, and Become A Mother now.
    And still, If you have to hear that it’s simply nothing to have a caesarean section delivery,
    It hurts a lot then !!

    Hence, please remember that whether it’s a Normal delivery or a Caesarean delivery – A woman, a mother, a wife (and so many roles she plays…) has to go through Pain involved in both the cases and she deserves nothing but only respect and care..

  • Why Won’t They Just Remove My Womb

    Why won’t they just remove my womb.

    I am a proud mother of three wonderful children ages range from 3 to 7 years. I am 27 years old and  raising my children alone and that is fine by me, I work hard to support my family and love being a mum and enjoy my job

    But every single damn month I lose 2 to 3 days worth of pay, I am lucky that my employer is so supportive and understanding, the reason I have to go sick is my menstrual cycle.

    I literally flood with blood, I wear 3 night-time pads and a tampon, I’ve tried the menstrual cups but they over flow, my periods are so heavy that I soak through everything.

    I cannot leave the house and rely on a friend to take and collect my eldest two children to and from school, my stomach cramps and on a few occasions I have collapsed in pain.

    I have tried ALL types of contraception, hormone tablets, home remedies everything my Doctor can think of, I have spent hours upon hours researching online ways to help reduce the flow but nothing has helped.

    What I want is a normal life, a hysterectomy, my womb taken away and a chance at being a great mum and a reliable employee throughout the entire month.

    My doctor has refused, I am too young they say, I might meet someone and want another child, there could be complications etc and to try alternative treatments.

    I do not want any more children, I do not want more pain, I do not want to be stuck at home, I am fed up of washing blood soaked clothes, why do doctors get to decide what I might want in the future. Please tell me I’m not alone, there must be other woman who are refused a hysterectomy. Surely it is my body my choice