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  • @tillvyn The new comic confused the s out of me, i literally cannot. But Mizi bl…

    @tillvyn The new comic confused the s out of me, i literally cannot. But Mizi bl…

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    The new comic confused the s out of me, i literally cannot. But Mizi blowing this guy off and Till by saying who she loves is crazy and funny. MiziTill shippers exctinct already #ALNST #ALIENSTAGE #IVANTILL #HYULUKA #MIZISUA #alnst #alienstage #vivinos #vivinosalienstage #alienstagevivinos #mizi #sua #mizialienstage #suaalienstage #mizisua #WLW #GL #ivan #till #ivanalienstage #tillalienstage #ivantill #MLM #BL #Hyuna #luka #hyunaalienstage #lukaalienstage #hyuluka #SL #MLW #WLM #doomed #yaoi #yuri #couple #ship #LGBT #lesbian #gay #straight #fy #fyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy #fyy #fyppp #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #dontletthisflop #dontflop #pridemonth #pride #ship #mentalhealth #mewhen

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    The new comic confused the s out of me, i literally cannot. But Mizi blowing this guy off and Till by saying who she loves is crazy and funny. MiziTill shippers exctinct already #ALNST #ALIENSTAGE #IVANTILL #HYULUKA #MIZISUA #alnst #alienstage #vivinos #vivinosalienstage #alienstagevivinos #mizi #sua #mizialienstage #suaalienstage #mizisua #WLW #GL #ivan #till #ivanalienstage #tillalienstage #ivantill #MLM #BL #Hyuna #luka #hyunaalienstage #lukaalienstage #hyuluka #SL #MLW #WLM #doomed #yaoi #yuri #couple #ship #LGBT #lesbian #gay #straight #fy #fyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy #fyy #fyppp #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #dontletthisflop #dontflop #pridemonth #pride #ship #mentalhealth #mewhen

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  • Imagine Feeling So Lost You Hug A Stranger

    PARENTS.

    A handful of us went to the Pittsburgh Pride Parade today, sporting our FREE DAD HUGS and FREE MOM HUGS t-shirts. We gave out hundreds of hugs. Hundreds. Some were super happy hugs. But others were like these two… and there were way too many like them.

    Let me tell you about these two.

    He was kicked out at 19 when his parents found out. They haven’t spoken to him since. He cried on my shoulder. Sobbed. Squeezed me with everything he had. I felt a tiny bit of that pain that he carries with him every minute of every day. He was abandoned because of who he loves. And on June 9th, 2019, he was participating in a celebration of love when he was brought to his emotional knees by a shirt that said “FREE DAD HUGS” on a complete stranger.

    Her story? I don’t know the specifics. But I know that she saw me from across the street. I wasn’t paying attention. By the time she got to me, she had tears in her eyes. She stood in front of me and looked up at me, with a look of sadness and helplessness that I’ll never forget. She hugged me with everything she had. And I hugged her back.

    She held on for so long, melting into me, and thanked me endlessly. And I can’t stop thinking about her. What she must be going thru with her family… the ones who are supposed to be there for her no matter what. Who does she go to when she needs advice on love, money or just life? Who does she share old memories with that only her parents would have been there for? What are her holidays like? How often does she hope for that phone call, with unconditional love on the other end? I don’t know her story. But it doesn’t feel like a huge leap to assume she’s lost those who should love her the most and forever.

    Imagine that, parents. Imagine that your child feels SO LOST FROM YOU that they sink into the arms of a complete stranger and sob endlessly just because that stranger is wearing a shirt offering hugs from a dad. Think of the depths of their pain. Try to imagine how deep those cuts must be.

    Please don’t be the parent of a child that has to shoulder that burden. I met WAY too many of them, of all ages, today.

    And if by chance anyone knows these folks, please let them know they can reach out any time they need a surrogate dad to talk to. I’ll be there.

     

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/howiedittman

     

  • Out Of The Closet, I Have Something To Tell You

    Out of the closet

    Hey Mum, I have something to tell you,

    “What dear” she turns and replies,

    I freak as I don’t know what to say,

    So I feed her some more lies.

    It’s hard to tell your parents,

    It’s hard to tell your friends,

    So you pretend your normal to everyone,

    You don’t want your relationship to end.

    But 30 years later,

    And your secret is still unknown,

    All the times you could have said,

    So your still in this on your own.

    You decide to pluck the courage,

    It’s time to face your fear,

    You hold the phone so tightly,

    Wiping away the tears.

    You dial the number slowly,

    Then press on call and wait,

    The dialling tone is ringing,

    I’ll hang up, maybe it’s to late.

    Then she answers “Hi dear”,

    You say hello back and sob,

    “What’s wrong” she asks she’s worried,

    Your heart begins to throb.

    “Mum, I’m sorry, I’m different”

    “I’m not who you want me to be”,

    She cries down the phone and whispers,

    “Your my daughter, now please tell me”

    “Ok” but now I’m hysterical,

    I say “Mum I am gay”,

    “I’ve known for years, I’m sorry”

    Then I take the phone away.

    I’m terrified of her reaction,

    Then my Dad comes on the phone,

    “Oh you silly Girl, we always knew”,

    “Now get your butt back home”

    I walked in through the door,

    They held me oh so tight,

    We wish you’d told us earlier,

    It would have been alright.

    So you see now I’m happy,

    I told all my Family,

    Some are distant, most are fine,

    But hey THIS IS ME 🙂

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  • My Son Does Not Act Gay- Acting Gay Isn’t A Thing

    My son does not act gay- acting gay isn’t a thing

    My lovely little lad Johan is 6 years old and loves nothing more than dressing up in princess dresses especially his yellow Belle costume and his little mermaid tail.

    Dylan loves to be pampered, having his toe nails painted and enjoys painting mine and his older sisters nails, he’s actually pretty good at it, he has a great eye for colours that go and has the patience to paint designs on our nails.

    Dylan is a keen dancer and often wins competition especially his street dancing and solo performances, and yes he will wear sparkly outfits, leotards and glitter on his face.

    His father has never been to any of his competitions and does not support his son.

    His father says he does not wish to witness his son acting like a gay boy, he should be playing football or rugby. Why does dancing mean he is acting gay, what is gay? Gay is a sexual preference not a way of behaving, there are gay rugby and football players as well, and a lot of straight male dancers.

    Dancing is a skill, a talent and takes a lot of hard work, so what if my son likes to dress up or have his nails painted etc this does not define his sexuality and there is no such thing as “acting gay” gay is not an act! Dylan is not at an age where he knows what his sexual preference is, but he is at an age to know what he enjoys doing, who knows he may one day be gay but may be he won’t, what he does for enjoyment now will not determine that.

    emailed in by Sarah Oldrey of Cumbria

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  • Heartbroken…… My 12 Year Old Son Is Gay

    Heartbroken. …….my son is gay

    My baby boy my youngest child is gay and yes I’m heartbroken not by the fact his gay but by how I found out .

    I’ve always known my son was never a lads lad he was never into football he liked dancing he would prefer to paint his nails and play with hair then go outside to kick a ball about .

    From such a very early age he had such good taste in clothes the outfits he would pick to wear always matched I used to joke with him you’re my little gay boy which he always replied ohh mum I’ve got a girl friend.

    I’ve always spoke to him about his feelings and we would joke about being gay never once meant in a nasty way in just a way to try to help him feel more comfortable about his sexuality and that when he decided to come out I would hope he would tell me but this is why I’m heartbroken he never came out to me I found out by his school teacher who called me and she explained to me about my 12-year-old son and that prehaps I should talk to him.

    Heartbroken...... My 12 Year Old Son Is Gay
    Heartbroken…… My 12 Year Old Son Is Gay

    So straight after the phone call I went upstairs to my son and gave him a hug and told him how proud I was of him and I asked him why he didn’t tell me was it because I always joked about it his reply was “no mum it’s coz you’re proud of me and I know you would want to announce to everyone I’m gay but I would like to tell people first”

    So yes I’m heartbroken on how I found out but omg I so bloody proud of son xx

    I also am so proud of my daughter Mackensie who is slightly older than her brother for making him feel safe at school and showing him how truly awesome he is.

    I am blessed with two confident happy and caring children what more could a mother want? I love my Children more than life it’s self, every day they make me realise what true happiness is, I wouldn’t change anything about either of them from the second they were born i discovered what true love is.

     

  • My child is Gay and that’s not okay

     Grace Reynolds told us her story which actually made us feel sickened and sad that people still have this outdated view, her thoughts and views are hard to believe but please note we at Mums advice do not share these views ourselves.

    Grace said:

    My son Jamie is 18 and a homosexual, Jamie was such a sweet handsome little boy, who loved his trains and cars, as he grew he was always out with his friends playing football or on his bike, such a smart, bright well behaved boy.

    This year my baby boy, my only son, sat me down to tell me something that would change my life and ruin my relationship with my son.

    He is Gay!!!!

    Society tells me I should be happy and even proud of him, PROUD OF WHAT?

    Proud that I will never have a daughter in law?

    I will never have biological grandchildren, and knowing my son is doing ungodly acts.

    He has brought shame and embarrassment to my family and I.
    Everyone wants to be all accepting of gays but surely all this is doing is encouraging them.
    Bring back Jesus into our country, pray out the Gay, teach children that it is a mortal sin and stop putting gays on a pedestal.
    I will never accept my son’s life choice, if he wants to lay with a man he won’t be supported by me.

    Mums advice tried to explain to Grace how her thoughts and views were wrong and no matter what her son is, he is still her son, she should support and love him, no amount of prayers can change him, it is not a choice to be gay he was born this way.

    We hope in time she sees the error of her ways but if not we hope Jamie finds love and happiness.