Tag: Excuse

  • Stop Blaming ASD For Your Childs Behaviour

    My son has ASD!!!

    ASDers aren’t naughty!?

    So you think asders aren’t naughty?

    On a meltdown there’s no one to blame.

    But when they’re being naughty

    Ffs SAY SOMETHING, DEAL WITH IT!

    For shame!

    My ASDer is naughty at times

    You’ll hear me screaming his name

    Because I will tell him

    When there is blame

    And I will tell him again

    And Again

    Do not make excuses when he is naughty

    Meltdowns are NOT the same

    You use THE excuse if he is naughty

    You will just have just yourself to blame

    You will teach him they are one and the same

    And you will just have yourself to blame!

    Please discipline your ASder, he needs to know the shame.

    He cannot do as he pleases

    There are rules that he has to follow

    and he can’t avoid the blame.

    stop telling me it is ASD my child has the same

    Do not use his condition as an excuse for being a pain

    We understand the meltdown, when life is just too much

    explain to others the difference between the two

    coz naughty is naughty don’t use ASD as an excuse”.

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    Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is the name for a range of similar conditions, including Asperger syndrome, that affect a person’s social interaction, communication, interests and behaviour.

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  • Being Obese Is Really Not Beautiful

    Being fat is not beautiful

    If you are obese please sort yourself out you are not beautiful you are unhealthy and need to learn how to cook healthy, nutritious meals and that you have the ability to walk places and exercise, slimming word is relatively cheap so are vegetables.

    Being fat causes great strain on the NHS, did you know that obesity costs Britain more money than the war on terror , you increase the chances of getting diabetes, cancer, strokes, heart disease and depression but that’s your problem, my biggest problem is you will claim DLA for being fat, I mean come on being fat is not an illness it is pure laziness and the lack of self-control.

    There is a worrying trend of obese parents whose children are also dangerously over weight, don’t we all want whats best for our children, well I don’t feel your child struggling to run around with their friends a is a great start in life, you are setting them up to fail.

    Campaigns go round saying love your skin, big is beautiful, but stretch marks, flappy bits of skin and heavy breathing from walking up a flight of stairs is not attractive in the slightest, now I know some larger people can;’t help it ie on steroids or thyroid problems but not all of you can use this excuse!!!

    Now if you wish to eat like a pig or stay sat down in front of the tv whilst claiming benefits that’s up to you, but no one can persuade me that big is beautiful, unhealthy yes but beautiful heck no!!

    Sent in via email by Patricia Scott of Cumbria

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