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  • I’m Here To Defend My Wife I Know She’s A Big Girl


    I have been with my wife for 18 years and married nearly 16. I have noticed that Body image around weight gain/loss has been one of her consistent struggles over the years.

    Going up or down in weight I can confidently say that I have positively supported her throughout the years but unfortunately I have been there to comfort her during the very low moments where I had to wipe tears away from her face. It is my philosophy as a husband when it comes to weight gain or loss for whatever reason We should be their Encourager and Not their Reminder!

    Today my wife posted a picture in this full piece swimsuit in which she looked absolutely remarkable 😍 and she received some small cunty ass feedback. She has big boobs (I’m blessed) but get over it. She can’t do anything about it. I can tell you, however, is that she’s agonized over it to makes sure she’s “covered” as much as possible still to this day.

    I’m not here to defend my wife, she’s a big girl! What I find strange is that most of those commenters came from women? Come on!! Let’s be more supportive of eachother!! If your 400lb and you lost 10 FUCK YES 🥳🥳 keep it up! If you’re one of those fit fuckers at 115lbs and just hit your six 6min mile FUCK YES 🥳 get it girl! If you’re a mother(or anyone)of three that that finally feels brave to post a pic of herself in a swim suit POST THE SHIT OUT OF IT!!

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/nottheworstmarriage/

  • What Is Wrong With Me Having A Large Family

    Children are a blessing. We say it but don’t speak it. I am guilty of this as well.

    I scroll through Facebook and see people joking about being pregnant and joking about not being pregnant. The newest joke is who can make it through the summer without getting pregnant. When I go places, my life seems to be a joke to many. A joke about not owning a television or having anything better to do all because I have five children and i am pregnant with my sixth.

    When and why did we start taking life into our own hands?

    The other day I was at the supermarket standing in line waiting to pay. The sweet cashier congratulated me on my 6th baby. The woman checking out turned to me and said, “oh sweetie there is a sale on Tv’s here, far cheaper than having children!”

    I was pretty shocked. It was supposed to be funny, but why? Why is it common humor to joke about not wanting more children?

    I understand children are hard. They make us sacrifice dreams and desires we had planned out. But I have never met a family that said they wished they never had their last child. Every single child has been a blessing. Every parent says that they can’t imagine life without every single child.

    So why is it that we joke so much about having or not having children?

     Everywhere we turn, pregnancy is made a joke and looked down on, people also assume that they must all have different fathers or I am doing it for the money (we don’t claim anything other than child benefits).

    So where did we go wrong? Why is life no longer celebrated? Why is life now limited when it was once begged for?

    I think the first place we need to start is in our words. Are we encouraging people to value life? Are we making inappropriate jokes about someone else’s new pregnancy or telling them it is time to stop?

    The first step to valuing life is watching what we joke about.

  • This Granny Has No Chill!

    When you’re going on a night out it’s standard practice to post a few snaps and selfies with your pals…

    However Rachel Fleming got more than she bargained for when her Granny started commenting!

    It turns out Granny didn’t care much for poor Rachel’s fashion choices, so much so that she PAID Rachel to make sure she never wore them again!

    Personally I think the trousers look great and Rachel’s rocking the look!

    What do you think?

    Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

  • Nobody Knows What It’s Meant To Be 

    Mums are curious what the picture is meant to be:

    One mum asked Mums advice 

    Not baby related But it’s really bugging me and fellow friends.What the fook is this! We can’t tell!

    No one is quite sure but the replies are humorous.

    “That actually looks like the photo I seen of my internal organs after having my tubes tied 😂😂”

     Another said:

    “It looks like an infected scrotal sac”

    But our favourite comment was this one:

    Looks like a cock stuck in a clit piercing.🙈😳😵

    Can any of you shine some light on what it is?