Tag: Cancer

  • Smear Tests Really Do Save Lives

    Smear tests really do save lives, i didn’t realise how important it is to have them until the last couple of weeks. Had my first smear last month, a couple of weeks later was told I had abnormal cells on my cervix and have an appointment at the hospital for a colposcopy,

    I went this morning and it showed I had high grade CIN3 pre cancerous cells, basically one step away from having cervical cancer, if I hadn’t of went for my smear these CIN3 cells would have developed into cancer if left untreated, I’ve had LLETZ treatment to remove all of the pre cancerous cells and a biopsy sent away to make sure it was all removed🙏🏼 I’m so thankful I went for my smear and it was caught in time, make sure you go girls!

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/samm.grace

  • Help Save This Young Ladies Life

    On 06th January 2017 our lives changed forever as our beautiful 21 year old daughter, Monique, was rushed into emergency surgery after a CT scan found her bowel had perforated. Eight hours later she emerged from surgery with a colostomy bag and a week later her surgeon confirmed the news behind the perforation: 

    “Testing has confirmed a malignant tumour caused your bowel to perforate. Unfortunately the tumour has also spread… You have Stage 4 Advanced Bowel Cancer” 

    We spent the next two weeks in hospital by Monique’s side as she recovered from her surgery and processed the news that she would be starting palliative chemotherapy within the next 6 weeks. 

    We were told that Monique’s prognosis was not good. Her oncologist predicted 6-12 months alongside the chemotherapy. However, as is in her nature, her zest for life prevailed and nearing 3 years later, she has surpassed all the odds having undergone 58 cycles of chemotherapy and reaching NED (no evidence of disease) status for 2 years. 

    Chemotherapy has been by far the toughest thing Monique has undergone. The physical and mental side effects have been harrowing. 

    Watching her courage and determination to push forward despite this has been inspiring. 

    Help Save This Young Ladies Life
    Help Save This Young Ladies Life

    Recurrence 
    Unfortunately in August 2019, Monique’s 3 monthly CT scan has shown that her cancer has returned in the lining of her abdomen and pelvis and her ovaries. Correspondence from a specialist surgical centre in Basingstoke has unfortunately deemed Monique unsuitable for surgery. As a result, Monique has had to start a new chemotherapy treatment which she will continue in 2 weekly cycles until she is re-scanned in 3 months and we find out whether the treatment has stabilised her cancer. 

    Go Fund Me
    As her parents, we are devoted to Monique and now devoted to extensively researching multiple different treatments both here in the UK and abroad, including Israel and America, which offer both medical and alternative treatments which we believe Monique will benefit from and help her diagnosis. Unfortunately her options on the NHS are very limited due to her diagnosis and the treatments that will ultimately benefit her life are not covered by the NHS and are very costly. We have started this GoFundMe page in order to raise the funds needed to provide Monique with these life-saving treatments as well as to enable her to live her life independently, comfortably and to the full. 

    Any funds which are leftover and do not go towards funding these treatments will be split between three of Monique’s chosen charities; CLIC Sargent, Teens Unite, Bowel Cancer Research UK and her ongoing treatment centre, who have all supported her fight so far. 

    Keep up to date with Monique’s journey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelifeofmiqu

    To donate https://www.gofundme.com/f/thelifeofmique

     

  • Look At This White Girl, Tryin To Wrap Her Head Lookin All Stupid

    Dear McDonald’s worker who will probably never see this….,

    Ur drive thru windows aren’t sound proof. Ur probably wondering y I had tears in my eyes when u handed me my iced coffee… or maybe not, judging by the words u said after handing me my oatmeal…

    “Look at this white girl, tryin to wrap her head. Lookin all stupid”

    As u and ur coworker laughed and passed judgement on my poor head wrap job, I hope ur day gets better. I went to McDonald’s for an iced coffee and oatmeal to try to make my day better, but u made it worse. I hope u never get sick. I hope ur healthy and thriving for ur life. I hope ur family members r healthy and happy. Cuz I didnt wrap my head to try to be anything in particular… I wrapped it cuz I shaved my head when my hair was falling out from chemo and having a baby, and yesterday my stepson told me he liked it. I wrapped it cuz the scarf was given to me from a woman at the office I get radiation treatments from. I also wrapped it cuz I haven’t showered in 2 days cuz I’m a mom who is still trying to figure out how to juggle everything.

    So, thank you for reminding me to be careful with my words… and to not judge a book by the cover.💜

    Sincerely,

    That “stupid white girl”

    **edit** I love that my friends and family members have commented and messaged asking which one so they can call and take up for me, but I really posted this as a reminder to be kind- not to get anyone in trouble or to have them inadvertently lose their job that pays their bills. So, please… just be kind!

    Love your neighbor as yourself Mark 12:31💜💜

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/1leggeddiva

     

  • Only 18 And I Had Cervical Cancer

    In December 2013 I started to get symptoms bleeding discharge and painful sex I looked my symptoms up on line I kept seeing the words cervical cancer, I was scared so I went straight to the doctors where they took some swabs and water samples I was given antibiotics for a water infection all tests came back clear.

    On my fifth visit they gave me an internal examination where they discovered a growth and my cervix was swollen and bleeding within two days I had an appointment with colposcopy.

    I had a 4 and a half cm tumour across my cervix they took a biopsy but because I was only 18 I was told i was too young for cancer and I could go in the week after to have the growth removed, three days later I had a phone call to go up the hospital where me and my mother was taken in a room and was told so sorry you have cancer.

    I had all the hpv injections in school I thought I was safe but it doesn’t cover all the strains, then after lots of scans and a op I was staged at 2b it had spread to my lymph nodes my treatment was chemotherapy radiotherapys and bracotherapys it took away my fertility and put me on the menopause at the age of 18 , I am 16 months in remission I have four more years before I get the all clear I have radiotherapy damage to my bladder I’ve been bleeding from my urine now for 8 months and living off pain killers until they find the right treatment.

    But I’m here I’m lucky I love my life through out I have tried to remain positive my moto is there’s always someone worse off it could have been a lot worse.

    I will always raise awareness for cervical cancer and will campaign to reduce the smear age from 25 down to 18 my petition is still open and in the hands of my mp

    Please ladies if you are 25 and lucky enough to have the right to have a free smear test on the NHS please do never miss never think it won’t happen to you CANCER has no age limit and can hit you anytime let’s catch this cancer early all my love Jess Xxxxxxxxx PLEASE SHARE FOR AWARENESS

    Credit https://www.facebook.com/Jess-Bradfords-cervical-cancer-awareness-1497557637123806/

     

  • This Mama Knew Something Wasn’t Right

    Where do I begin? Our baby, Sienna-Rose has always been so unsteady with her balance.. we thought nothing of it at first. We assumed it was down to being short sighted and having a double squint! She was still hitting all of her milestones on time. Nothing to worry about right?

    Wrong.. fast forward to January the 30th 2019. Sienna has her injection and we were pre warned there would be a fever. She had the fever.. followed by sickness, unsteadyness, lethargy and a high temperature. We firstly rang our GP who recommended calpol and lots of rest. The sickness still came. After a few weeks of constant sickness and crying we took things further. We took her to A&E who did their checks and diagnosed “gastritis” she was prescribed a course of amoxicillin which she did dont take down neither did it fix the sickness.

    We returned to our childrens walk in centre only to be told the same thing.. “gastritis” again she was prescribed a stronger form of antibiotics only for her not to take down again.. then the motor neuron issues took place. Sienna was showing clear signs of balance issues and could no longer walk/crawl/sit upright. She was very lethargic and hot. We went to A&E for the third time just to be told her immune system was weak and that some babies take longer to recover than others.

    Weeks went by while she rapidly reclined. She was soon stuck in a corner of the sofa watching TV and sleeping all day. We tried to contact our health visitor but she left the service and forgot to transfer her notes over to the new health visitor who didnt know she existed. I came to the end of my tether and broke down to the lady in the weigh in clinic who took my concerns seriously. She refered her to paediatrics but we wasnt going to be seen until June.

    7th of May came, I rang 111 (emergency service information) because Sienna couldn’t lift her head from her shoulder and was struggling to straighten her back. I was told to wait for a phone call of a paediatric doctor. They finally rang back 2 and a half hours later. They asked if she was still tilting to one side. She wasnt. So they told me to keep an eye on her and bring her in if she did it again!
    Friday the 10th of May 2019 Sienna fell off the sofa. She bumped her head and her eyes rolled back. I didnt bother phoning. I took her straight in. I lost all faith in the emergency phone services/GP/Health visitors. When we arrived then again didnt believe what I was saying, when she was too poorly to move and her cry was weak. Eventually the most amazing doctor came and spoke to us. She listened to everything. Even wrote it all down. She measured Sienna’s head and demanded an urgent MRI. 
    11th May 2019 We had our diagnosis. Within 2 hours of the MRI. We was taken to see the consultant. He broke the news Sienna has a tumour just a slight bit bigger than a golf ball in the back of her brain. We were heart broken. She had an external shunt fitted to drain the mass of fluid on her brain. In 48hrs they collected 650ml of spinal fluid from her head stabilizing her condition ready for her operation 14/06/2019
    Surgery day came, they’ve so far removed what they think is all of the tumour.. 

    17/05/2019
    We had the results! Had a meeting with the consultant..
    This Mama Knew Something Wasn't Right
    This Mama Knew Something Wasn’t Right

    Good news – They’ve gotten rid of 95% of the tumour. 
    Bad news – Its defiently a stage 4 aggressive medulloblastoma. The 5% that remains is attached to a membrain that the surgeon didnt want to remove as it would effect her brain development. In two weeks time she will have chemotherapy.

    We expected this outcome.

    Still doesn’t stop the pain, anger and emotion. I know she is a strong ass girl who will kick cancers ass! 

    I want to raise awareness about the earlier detection of a brain tumour especially in children. Because nobody should have to suffer what Sienna-Rose did! For months she was miss diagnosed. All it takes to diagnose is an MRI brain scan! Here are some symptoms to look out for..
    – Involentry eye movement
    – Tilting of the head 
    – Growth of the head 
    – Vomiting and nausea 
    – Lack of interest in food 
    – Poor movement 
    – Behaviour changes 
    – Unable to hold balance/Regression in milestones!Even if you think it’s not.. request to be seen my a neurologist to rule out a tumour! Earlier detection means better treatment and a higher survival rate! Trust your gut instincts and if you feel something is wrong, please fight until you find out what is! 
    – Sienna-Rose’s Mum xx

     

  • Beautiful And Brave Haley, Fighting To See Her Daughter Grow Up

    My beautiful and brave friend Haley has been battling with illness since she was only 13 years old when diagnosed with endometriosis. When the pain became insufferable she opted to have an operation which cost her and her family £15,000 and cost Haley a large part of her womb and possibly her chance of ever becoming a mum. Haley went through all this whilst studying to become a pharmacist. 

    However, in August 2017 Haley’s dreams came true as she qualified as a pharmacist, got her dream job and then found out that, against all odds, she was pregnant. 

    In March 2018 after a difficult and worrying pregnancy Haley gave birth to their miracle baby girl, Ava. Haley and her fiance Ryan were overjoyed to finally have the family they thought they would never have and Haley’s health was looking up. 

    Unfortunately in September 2018, only 6 months after having their beautiful baby girl and at the tender age of 25, Haley was told she had cervical cancer. She began a 6 month course of chemotherapy and showed us all just how amazing she is by going through this while continuing to smile and be an amazing Mummy. 

    We all prayed that after her 6 rounds of chemo she would have a course of radiotherapy and she would be on the road to remission 

    Sadly, on the 20th of February Haley was told her cancer has now spread to her bowel. Haley’s cancer is now stage 4. She has been advised that her best chance of beating this awful disease and watching her beautiful baby grow will be a treatment which is not currently funded by the NHS. 

    We are hoping to raise enough money to cover Haley’s treatments and give her the best chance of one day being cancer free. 

    If you can donate even the smallest amount we would be so grateful. 

    Please share this far and wide,

    Thank you

    https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/haleys-treatment?utm_id=108&utm_term=PR6BgYN23

  • We Must Keep The Cancer Away From Little Mikey

    Mikey is a playful and loving little toddler, who likes nothing more than to spend hours playing with his toy farm animals while singing Old Macdonald Had a Farm.” He loves cuddling up to watch Peppa Pig and playing with his baby brother, Bobby.

    But in December 2017 when Mikey was just 20 months old and enjoying the build-up to Christmas, his parents noticed a lump in his tummy. After a trip to A&E, the doctors diagnosed his condition as stage 4 high-risk neuroblastoma, with further tests revealing that the tumour had grown from above his right kidney to across almost his entire abdomen. It had heavily infiltrated his bone marrow.

    Mikey was started on a gruelling induction chemotherapy schedule on Christmas Eve, receiving eight cycles of treatment every ten days. He responded well to the initial treatment and Mikey has since gone on to battle his way through a complex eight and a half hour surgery to remove the remainder of the tumour.

    That was followed by high dose chemotherapy with stem cell transplant and radiotherapy, and he is due to start immunotherapy treatment. Throughout his eight months of treatment, he has had to endure numerous blood transfusions, general anaesthetics, nose tube insertions, injections and antibiotics to fight infections. Amazingly he has remained in high spirits and has helped to carry his family through it with his endless humour and cheeky personality.

    He has even taken great pleasure in running down the hospital corridors giggling while attached to medication wires, knowing that his parents would need to chase after him with his medical drip stand!

    Mikey’s mum, Caroline, says: I will never forget when the news was broken to us. I was heavily pregnant at the time and we were all looking forward to Mikeys first proper Christmas and to introducing him to a little baby brother. We couldnt have dreamt in our worst nightmares when we walked into A&E that it would be another month and a half before we would walk out of a hospital again.”

    “That said, it has never ceased to amaze me how resilient he has been throughout and the strength of his character has shone brightly throughout.

    While Mikey has so far responded well to his treatment, immunotherapy spells the end of his frontline treatment available on the NHS, and his battle is far from over. Almost 50% of children with high-risk neuroblastoma relapse and when it does come back less than 1 in 10 survive.

    So Mikey and his family are fundraising in case they need to access treatment or clinical trials not available through the NHS, to give him the best chance of the cancer-free future he deserves.

    “We are hugely grateful for your support,” continues Caroline. “Your donations could help Mikey receive the best treatment available to him. We must keep the cancer away.”

    https://www.justgiving.com/campaign/mikeyharney

  • Normalise Breast Feeding-I Fought To Feed My Son

    In this photo my baby is 6 weeks old on the left, and 30 weeks old on the right. It’s been 6 months. Six months since I was allowed to breastfeed my son. Six months of a hard battle against CANCER, getting poisoned with chemo that tainted my breast milk and prevented me from nursing my infant son.

    Normalise Breast Feeding-I Fought To Feed My Son
    Normalise Breast Feeding-I Fought To Feed My Son

    Six months of pumping every few hours and dumping every single ounce of it all down the drain, just so I could keep my supply up, in hopes of eventually being allowed to nurse my baby again. Six months of having a dear, sweet, generous friend (Bec Nikodem) come to my house 1-2 times a week to latch my son, just so he would remember HOW to breastfeed again when I was able.

    Well, here we are, I had my last chemo session in January and it’s been 35 days post-chemo. My breast milk no longer contains any remnants of chemo in it, and last night I was able to BREASTFEED MY SON AGAIN!!!! It’s been a long road, but I wanted to share my journey publicly in hopes that it can be shared and might inspire others in some small way. 💚 God is GOOD. The power or prayer is REAL. 💚

    #normalizebreastfeeding #fcancer #breastfeeding

    **Photo credit for image on the left: @RHusbandsPhotography ** Rita Husbands

    Full credit to the amazing Nikki Heying

     

  • Spread The Word Stop Avoiding Smear Tests

    **STOP AVOIDING SMEAR TESTS**

    This superwoman is my baby sis, she was diagnosed with cervical cancer at just 28

    Today she kicked arse but at a cost. She had to undergo a full hysterectomy and her fight isn’t over just yet…there’s still a big chance she will need radiotherapy.

    She only missed 1 smear test….just bloody 1. She’s so lucky to have been blessed with a daughter but the cancer has taken her chance to ever carry another baby.

    She’s one of the lucky ones though so many women put it off until it’s too late.

    I never thought I would be sat writing a status like this about someone so close to home.

    A smear test literally takes a few minutes stop putting it off.

    She’s letting us post this because she wants to raise awareness that cancer doesn’t care who u are….how old u are, if u don’t keep up with your regular checks your putting yourself at risk.

    I sit with tears in my eyes writing this after visiting her tonight. I’m so so proud of her. She has handled this so amazingly. She really is my beautiful superwoman!! 💖 spread the message

    Written  by Sarah bax