Tag: bad

  • @kellgoodwinn I disagree, it was inappropriate and the mother could’ve just kept…

    @kellgoodwinn I disagree, it was inappropriate and the mother could’ve just kept…

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    I disagree, it was inappropriate and the mother could’ve just kept those pictures between her & the daughter and just had a talk with her. #viral #crazystupidlove #romancedrama #2011 #ryangosling #emmastone #joeyking #juliannemoore #disgusting #bad #debat

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    I disagree, it was inappropriate and the mother could’ve just kept those pictures between her & the daughter and just had a talk with her. #viral #crazystupidlove #romancedrama #2011 #ryangosling #emmastone #joeyking #juliannemoore #disgusting #bad #debat

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  • Don’t Let Your Kids Act Up

    I picked my son up from his fathers today. He was grounded from his tablet before he went because I am no longer taking his attitude. I don’t know about other parents of six year olds, but the way he has been talking to me over the past 4-6 weeks is inexcusable and will not be tolerated anymore.

    I had told him that if he was well behaved tonight, he could have his tablet back tomorrow.

    We had a talk not only today on the way home, but multiple times over the weekend about how his bad choices had consequences. He was warned that he was going to have 3 strikes: tablet goes, then the tv goes, and then it’s the bedroom for the rest of the day.

    Not even the first hour of being home, the attitude started. By attitude I mean dictating what he is and is not doing, not listening, telling me no, yelling at me, etc. I told him he was not getting his tablet back tomorrow. Then a few minutes later, the next attitude outburst came. TV is now taken away. 2 strikes. Then it was the 3rd attitude outburst. So now my son is eating dinner in his bedroom and afterwards will be in his bed staring at the ceiling for the rest of the evening. He needs to learn.

    I’m not posting this to shame him. I posting this in case there are any other parents that are going through the same and doubting themselves. YOU ARE A GOOD PARENT. YOUR CHILD IS A GOOD KID. But they need to learn while they are still little because it’s even harder to teach them as they get older.

    Before we know it our children are going to be young men and women and I sure am not letting my son into this world thinking it’s okay to act however he wants. I refuse to let my son be disrespectful to anyone. I refuse to let my son do as he wants instead of following the rules.

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  • Its A Bad Day Not A Bad Life

    Not every day is easy

    Not every day is a “good day”

    Today is one of them days

    The feelings of helplessness because you can’t settle your baby

    They soon turn into feelings of guilt and doubt

    “Why can’t I settle her, what am I doing so wrong”

    Then the toddler starts being mischievous and a general toddler “why can’t he just behave, why does he have to touch everything I tell him not to”

    Again, feelings of guilt – these children deserve better than what you’re providing

    The added stress social media causes because I have the overwhelming need to ‘prove’ to a bunch of strangers, friends and everything in between that I’m coping and that I have this whole parenting thing under control

    Assuming those closest to you are judging you when you’re honest about not coping, or assuming they can see through your mask of lies

    Asking my mum to take the kids so I can attend to my personal hygiene and housework – again cue the overwhelming guilt that I’m not spending enough time with my own children

    My husband returns from work, only for me to thrust the children on to him so I can start tea, in my head trying to justify it as acceptable because I’m cooking everyone their tea and feeding them like the good wife and mother

    But this guilt returns “he’s had a hard day at work, providing for his family. Give the man a break”

    In hindsight, I can recognise that I’m my own biggest critic and it is my presumptions that cause the guilt and not in fact anybody’s opinion. I also recognise that I overlook the good moments on a bad day and don’t give myself the credit that overall, I’ve managed and today is just one day

    It’s a bad day, not a bad life.