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Who should you feed first your husband or your child?
For most the answer is simple, your children should always come first.
But there is a trend spreading across social media of woman admitting that their partner should always comes first.
Look after your “King” and he will provide for the off-spring.
One woman named Melissa Ravens aged 34 from Somerset posted saying “my husband will always come before my children, he is my priority, this doesn’t mean I don’t love my children, in fact I believe a loved happy husband makes for happy well brought up children, my husband works hard and needs my support. My children play all day so I plate my husbands meal first he requires more affection”.
Another woman named Sophia Marques Aged 23 and mother of 2 agreed with Ravens and said: “my husband needs to be fed first so he can have the energy to be able to make money to support the household”.
Many woman surprisingly agreed with these two ladies, although the majority of mums were shocked to hear this out dated idea and some weren’t very tactful with their replies and attacked these woman and branded them terrible mothers.
Now I don’t agree these woman but would never verbally attack them however I
normally would keep impartial on my web stories but on this one I cannot, my three children will always come before anyone and that includes myself.
I personally would rather starve so my children could eat, no man or woman will ever come before my children, but as long as all are being fed I’m not sure it matters which order it’s dished up.
I always dish up my children’s first purely so it has time to cool down I had never thought of it as a positive or negative thing.
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Who should you feed first your husband or your child?
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Do Not Tell Your Children You Love Them
How many times a day do you tell your children you love them?
How many times a day do they hear you say I love you to other people or things?
Do you end a call with your partner with “Bye love you”.
Your children hear you express the word love countless times a day, you love this new outfit, you love the new tv series, you love that Hollywood actor, my god you love so much.
So when you tell your child you love them, do you love them as much as the shoes you bought on sale? Of course you love them more, but to a child the word Love is becoming as common as the word “The”, “No”, and “okay”, “in a minute” .
Change it up people, try:
“I love the way you smile”.
“You make me so happy when you draw such beautiful pictures”.
“You are amazing, I’m so proud that you’re mine”.
“You are so kind-hearted”.
“How are you so clever, I like how hard you try”.
So do not tell your child you love them, ONLY, add some more to it, make your child realise what they really mean to you and how great they are, build them up, make them believe in themselves.
Don’t just use the words I love you, show them every day.
Ttop telling silly objects you love them, say you like them yes but love them NO, hug your child, talk to them, actually listen to what your child has to say, put don your phone, tablet, laptop take in everything your child is doing and describe what you like about them, let them know they are special, they are amazing, your child will grow so quickly make sure you don’t miss it.