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  • My Rockstar Addiction Ruined My Relationship

    My Rockstar drink addiction ruined my relationship

    I was a happily married guy to my dream girl, we met in June 2015 whilst working together doing night shifts as Tesco.

    After a year of dating we decided to move in together to be able to afford the rent I picked up extra shifts and some weeks I would work 7 nights at one point I worked 16 nights in a row.

    I was drained of energy, I just couldn’t get a decent amount of deep sleep during the day so drank Rockstar energy drinks to keep me awake at work.

    Things went on like this for a long time and it just seemed the norm, sleep and then drink Rockstar.

    My girlfriend and I decided we wanted to try for a baby I was so happy I had always wanted to be a father.

    We started trying a few months after but I had a problem I couldn’t finish I would stay erect for over an hour and would not cum.

    If I didn’t have an energy drink I couldn’t get it up but if I had one I couldn’t finish.

    After 3 months of failed sexual intercourse my girlfriend sat me down and said she felt like a failure like an ugly tramp, that I clearly didn’t fancy her anymore.

    I tried to explain it was the Rockstar drinks which were doing it to me and she laughed at me and asked if that were true why didn’t I just stop drinking them.

    But it just wasn’t that simple I needed them I was addicted to them, I couldn’t get through a day without one.

    Rockstar energy drinks have ruined my life, I now love back with my mum and see no way of getting off Rockstar a doctor would probably laugh at me.

    If you work nights please don’t drink this poison, I hate seeing teenagers and sometimes younger kids drinking them it is not worth the risk.

     

     

  • I Am Always Turned On My Child Couldn’t Even Hug Me

    I am always turned on

    My name is Marie and I’m 37 years old, I hit puberty at 12 and all was fine, the normal hormones, spots and mood swings.

    At the age of 17 I had my first child and that’s when things went wrong, within a month of giving birth I knew something was different.

    I was never satisfied, constantly moist and would orgasm with minimal effect.

    Now this may be a husband or boyfriends dream to have a wife or girlfriend who is always up for it, but it took its toll on my relationship with my baby’s father and eventually he couldn’t take it anymore and moved out, he felt like he wasn’t good enough and couldn’t give me the amount of pleasure I desired.

    I am constantly moist, I have to wear panty liners and change them regularly, I am forever embarrassed and worst the fact that my child grew up not wanting to get too close to me after i picked her up and her foot touched me down below and I climaxed, she wouldn’t bring friends over in case they found out about my problem.

    I haven’t been in a relationship for years I have lost many friends and family due to my behaviour, sometimes I get so turned on I forget where I am and have to sort myself out, the urge just takes over no matter how hard I try to make it go away.

    My clitirious pulsates and throbs, I am forever horny I have seen countless doctors and specialists, been on multiple medications and therapies but none have yet to work.

    I am destined to be alone and shut off from people I am just hoping that when I hit the menopause it stops, I wish I could be normal, I wish it would go away, I’m fed up of being weird and only having online companions.

    I have Sexual addiction or hypersexuality it is not a laughing matter and I wish they could cure me

     

  • HELLO, my name is DRUGS- I destroy lives

    HELLO, my name is DRUGS – I destroy homes, tear families apart, take your children, and that’s just the start. I’m more costly than diamonds, more costly than gold, the sorrow I bring is a sight to behold, and if u need me, remember I’m easily found, I live all around you, in schools and in town.

    I live with the rich, I live with the poor, I live down the street, and maybe next door. Try me you’ll see, but if you do, you may NEVER break free. Just try me once and I might let you go, but try me the twice, and I’ll own your soul.

    When I possess you, you’ll steal and you’ll lie. You do what you have to just to get high.. You’ll lie to your mother; you’ll steal from your dad, I’ll teach you my ways. I’ll take everything from you, your looks and your pride, I’ll be with you always, right by your side. You’ll give up everything… your family, your home… your friends, your money, then you’ll be alone. I’ll take and take, till you have nothing more to give.

    When I’m finished with you you’ll be lucky to live. You’ll regret that you tried me, they always do, but you came to me, not I to you. You knew this would happen. Many times you were told, but you challenged my power, and chose to be bold.

    You could have said no, and just walked away, If you could live that day over, now what would you say? I’ll be your master; you will be my slave, I’ll even go with you, when you go to your grave. Now that you have met me , what will you do? Will you try me or not? It’s all up to you. I can bring you more misery than words can tell. Come take my hand, LET ME LEAD YOU TO HELL.

    If you need help getting off drugs see:https://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/drugs/Pages/Drugtreatment.aspx

    Also see: http://mums-advice-old-copy.local/my-little-girl-saw-me-like-this/

     

  • My Husband And His Energy Drink Addiction

    Brianna and Austin were so excited to meet their new baby boy. 

    But one morning, Austin’s mum phoned with life changing news.“Austin had an accident” she told the worrier mum to be.

    After a long drive to the hospital, Brianna learned that Austin had had a brain hemorrhage.

     But the reason behind the sudden horror was just as unexpected.

    Austin had been drinking energy drinks ever since he’d started picking up over time and had to commute more regularly.

    Brianna learned that Austin had had a brain hemorrhage. But the reason behind the sudden horror was just as unexpected.

    It became a regular habit and soon, Austin was drinking them excessively. Doctors say they’re ultimately what caused Austin’s brain hemorrhage.

    Brianna said Austin had to have a lot of brain surgery to save his life, everyone was terrified. 

    Following this were strokes, seizures, swelling, and more things we weren’t prepared for.

    “Then the time had come for me to deliver our baby”.

    “I’m not going to lie to anyone, it was so hard. I had planned on Austin being a part of this huge moment. Being by my side. Holding my hand. Being there to cut the cord. Being there to welcome our son into the world. It didn’t feel right”.

    “But a beautiful miracle happened as I delivered our son. Austin woke up”.

    Austin was still too weak to see his son and was in and out of consciousness.

    Brianna said ” At a little over 2 months old, our son finally met his dad. A day I wasn’t sure I would ever see. That was the day that my heart gained some of its happiness back.

    Some time after that he could finally come home to me. Our life isn’t normal. There are doctors visits and hospital trips — so many that I lose count”.

    “But we are here. Fighting”.

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  • My Little Girl Saw Me Like This!!!

    ***Warning: Graphic Images***
    I have NEVER shared these before. I’m not sure I ever intended to. This is extremely hard for me in so many ways. However, too many people are dying. I have friends who need to see this. It goes beyond what my words can accomplish. This is by far, the most raw thing I have shared with the world. Please read. Please share. 
    My name is Melissa, and I’m an addict. I have been clean and in recovery for just about a year and five months. Below, you will find extremely disturbing images of me while in active addiction. This was what I looked like, daily, for years. This is what my husband dealt with. This is what my little girls walked in on. This is what my family and friends saw, on the rare occasions I left the house. I was SICK. I was DYING. I was so far gone I thought I could NEVER recover. I was so lost I couldn’t imagine a life without using. I just wanted to die. I didn’t realize I was hardly alive. 


    If you are currently in active addiction, this is my plea to you. Look at these pictures. Images of a dead girl. A needle junkie with a habit so fierce she spent days and nights in a self induced coma on her bathroom floor. A girl who would spend every cent on dope and forget she had kids to feed and take care of. A girl who lost every single thing she ever had. A girl who was so sick she thought she would never ever find a way out, until she did.


    If you are reading this and are going through the same pain I did, I am begging you to reach out. I died more than once. I have now found life. I promise you, there is HOPE. There is recovery. There is freedom and serenity and you are worthy of it. 


    Please, please reach out. You do not have to suffer any longer. You are not alone. Just reach out your hand, I’m right here. 
    My name is Melissa. I am a RECOVERED addict. Share with me your darkness, and I’ll lead you towards the light. I love you all 💖💖💖 


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